Trust me, it's way more common for you to find a chick that's into being choked than a dude who's into choking others. Had a few ask me to do it and it's been weird each time. It's even on a fucking spectrum if you can believe it. Some will only want a firm grip on the throat without actually cutting off any air and others will pretty much ask you to stop just short of them passing out.
Thought it was just the circles I was in but I also hear from other dudes who also knew at least one chick who's into choking. I'm sure there some innate reason to explain this but whatever.