Community Tard Baby General (includes brain dead kids) - Fundies and their genetic Fuckups; Parents of corpses in denial

[Nora Freeze]

This live just popped up on my 'for you page' on TikTok. Talk about a fucking jump scare.
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I don't watch stuff like this, or anything about kids in general, so fuck knows why it appeared.

Some poor little sod who's in an even worse state than Luna. I've not looked into it further than getting a couple of screenshots and the link because honestly, I've had more than I can handle on the desperately ill kids score this week.

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This is Bilal, who was introduced several pages ago before the latest sperging. Bilal's parents are definitely exploiting their baby's condition.

Can anyone confirm if Bilal is a boy or girl? I've seen commenters use "him" and "her"

 

[John Merston]

This is Bilal, who was introduced several pages ago before the latest sperging. Bilal's parents are definitely exploiting their baby's condition.

Can anyone confirm if Bilal is a boy or girl? I've seen commenters use "him" and "her"

Bilal is an Arabic male name, so it's definitely a boy.

 

[GenociderSyo]

SBSK dude actually interviewed his wife at one point seems she has a bunch of mental illnesses:

Genearlized Anxiety Disorder, OCD, Trichotilomania, ADHD, and Major Depression.

 

[Thomas Eugene Paris]

This thread is pretty retarded.

 

[ten dollars off]

SBSK dude actually interviewed his wife at one point seems she has a bunch of mental illnesses:

Genearlized Anxiety Disorder, OCD, Trichotilomania, ADHD, and Major Depression.

Good thing she's hot.

I've known a number of guys willing to put up with walking disasters because they would have been out of their league if they were "normal".

Like the hot but batshit crazy cosplayer girls that date an ugly but well-paid tech weeb who will basically support them in exchange for a monthly starfish sex session.

 

[lolcow yoghurt]

Can anyone confirm if Bilal is a boy or girl? I've seen commenters use "him" and "her"

It's a male-only Muslim name.

 

[kittyfucker]

If you consistently find yourself in positions where the SPED kids are being picked over you for minimum wage work, their diploma isn’t the issue.

Touche... touche. For what it's worth I have seen none of them in the work force, which is sad.

Maybe I'm completely retarded - I am, but I could have SWORN the kids at my high school got actual diplomas. I lived in a super liberal area + it's Canada; I could just be misremembering. You also got a "diploma" for completing middle school (which didn't really open up any doors for anyone in any way, but you needed it to get into high school) Maybe it's just leaf shenanigans.

This live just popped up on my 'for you page' on TikTok. Talk about a fucking jump scare

Do they live in America/Europe? I thought they straight up just killed kids/left them out in the woods if they looked like that in Muslim countries.

 

[Barbarella]

Every district in the United States has different rules. There are many districts in every state. But each state has Ed code that will address some of this. Look up the Ed code for your state and it will give you info. Can’t speak for other countries, of course.

My school had very low functioning kids-non-verbal, autistic, very low IQ Downs, nobody even close to an independent person. They showed up for life skills class, they weren’t learning History or English. Upon graduating, they got a certificate of completion, and some were able to attend the regular graduation with the teacher, although most did not. One of the skills was making smoothies and selling them to staff (not to other kids.). Cutting a banana, putting it in a blender can be very advanced for some of these kids. I’m not sure they understood the money exchange but they sure were happy to hand one over.

They were mainstreamed at lunch, which means they left their class early, were the first to get lunch with their aides, and sat at a table while the rest of the kids filtered in. Every single kid was nice to the tards. Not necessarily to each other, but they seemed to know these kids were off limits. (Most didn’t eat inside unless it rained though)

I don’t know if the kids actually came out with many useful life skills, but it was a respite for the parents.

 

[Thomas Eugene Paris]

I think Chris has said that Alyssa is autistic, which doesn't surprise me based on her demeanor and mannerisms in the video.

What do we think are the odds that he not-so-subtly pressured her into making a video all about her personal medical history and put it on the Internet for the whole goddamn world to see? It just feels so manipulative. Maybe if I didn't get such strong asshole vibes from him, I'd have less of a problem with it.

 

[buoyverificationfuel]

I think Chris has said that Alyssa is autistic, which doesn't surprise me based on her demeanor and mannerisms in the video.

What do we think are the odds that he not-so-subtly pressured her into making a video all about her personal medical history and put it on the Internet for the whole goddamn world to see? It just feels so manipulative. Maybe if I didn't get such strong asshole vibes from him, I'd have less of a problem with it.

I wouldn't be surprised if Alyssa's medical history was a factor in his attraction to her. Malibu Ken seems like the type of creep to think he's the world's best boyfriend just because he is a Normal Man and dating a Mentally Ill Freak who would definitely be shunned by the rest of polite society!

 

[Thomas Eugene Paris]

I wouldn't be surprised if Alyssa's medical history was a factor in his attraction to her. Malibu Ken seems like the type of creep to think he's the world's best boyfriend just because he is a Normal Man and dating a Mentally Ill Freak who would definitely be shunned by the rest of polite society!

I had not thought about it this way but I bet you're right.

He also seems like the kind of dickhead who gets off on reminding his mentally ill girlfriend that he's way out of her league and is doing her a massive favor by being with even though she's fundamentally broken. He's such a great guy, he's willing to support her in whatever way he can so that she can focus on improving herself and being the woman he deserves. No other man in the whole world would be so patient and wonderful, and he's kind enough to help her understand that. She's not deserving of love yet, but with Chris's insight and guidance, maybe she will be someday.

Seriously, though, I think all of us have known or even been with a guy like him, who was only interested in women whose mental illness made them believe that they were unworthy of love and couldn't do any better. Often, the guy appears at least superficially to be really into "helping" his partner cope with the symptoms of her illness, but upon scrutiny or behind closed doors, it becomes obvious that he's just on an ego trip and enjoys having his knob slobbed both literally and figuratively.

(There are probably women like him, too, but my experience is limited to shitty men.)

Edited to say that the word that comes to mind to describe Chris is "unctuous". Nobody with good intentions is that slick.

 

[CaseyTatumm]

I understand the govt pays the non-DD person. It is a weird set-up. It’s just strange to make a fully functional member of society devote their working hours to someone that is not functional to do a totally replaceable menial job for a big corporation. It’s like a black comedy.

I never knew of a “job coaching” situation where the coach ever left, but I’m sure it has occasionally happened. I thought the programs where they got groups of DD individuals together to work on stuffing envelopes or doing other repetitive tasks seemed far more sensible. They got needed social interaction, a productive activity, paid for their work but weren’t subjected to working conditions they couldn’t handle without a “1:1 coach” having to supervise the entire time.

It’s weird how the big corporations were the ones that got in on these “coaching programs”. I recall McDonald’s, Dominos and some big box stores being the main ones that participated in the govt subsidized “job coach” programs for DD ppl.

When I was a kid I used to actually see DD individuals work at small businesses without coaches. The business owners or employees knew the DD individual well and worked as a little “work family unit” to help them succeed - usually bagging groceries or janny work. It was pretty wholesome. One little grocery store I went to banned anyone that was cruel to the bag boy with DS. The changing legal landscape and other issues probably make these situations near impossible in the current era. Too much liability for a small business

PL There was a DD young man that worked at my SO’s job for a while, he was a pretty high functioning and they’d have him do some light janitorial work, dishes and he’d bake cookies. He would bus himself to/from work everyday and even had a little side hustle sewing masks and selling them when Covid happened.

 

[RebatsivePulsard]

I had not thought about it this way but I bet you're right.

He also seems like the kind of dickhead who gets off on reminding his mentally ill girlfriend that he's way out of her league and is doing her a massive favor by being with even though she's fundamentally broken. He's such a great guy, he's willing to support her in whatever way he can so that she can focus on improving herself and being the woman he deserves. No other man in the whole world would be so patient and wonderful, and he's kind enough to help her understand that. She's not deserving of love yet, but with Chris's insight and guidance, maybe she will be someday.

Seriously, though, I think all of us have known or even been with a guy like him, who was only interested in women whose mental illness made them believe that they were unworthy of love and couldn't do any better. Often, the guy appears at least superficially to be really into "helping" his partner cope with the symptoms of her illness, but upon scrutiny or behind closed doors, it becomes obvious that he's just on an ego trip and enjoys having his knob slobbed both literally and figuratively.

(There are probably women like him, too, but my experience is limited to shitty men.)

Edited to say that the word that comes to mind to describe Chris is "unctuous". Nobody with good intentions is that slick.

Malibu Ken is way more mentally ill than his lady. I’m not familiar with Tard Mommy social media, but it’s easy to imagine the moms aren’t all on board with his overall approach to disabled kids. He’ll exploit anyone for views and the sheckels they bring,

 

[everybody in Portugal]

Malibu Ken is way more mentally ill than his lady. I’m not familiar with Tard Mommy social media, but it’s easy to imagine the moms aren’t all on board with his overall approach to disabled kids. He’ll exploit anyone for views and the sheckels they bring,

I get vibes like he's not mentally ill but more... Dangerous and fully aware of that and also of his ability to make most people not see it. More sociopathy than mental illness, and much more predatory with it. His lady friend is probably depressed and anxious bc she has to live with his insincere shark-smiling, patronising, clearly-a-psychopath ass, tbh.

Edited to say that the word that comes to mind to describe Chris is "unctuous". Nobody with good intentions is that slick.

I like 'oleaginous' for him. He scares me a bit, I'm glad people here can see through his shtick too.

 

[WinifredSanderson]

I get vibes like he's not mentally ill but more... Dangerous and fully aware of that and also of his ability to make most people not see it. More sociopathy than mental illness, and much more predatory with it. His lady friend is probably depressed and anxious bc she has to live with his insincere shark-smiling, patronising, clearly-a-psychopath ass, tbh.


I like 'oleaginous' for him. He scares me a bit, I'm glad people here can see through his shtick too.

I always forget that "unctuous" has a meaning other than in food, lol

 

[booklover]

I had not thought about it this way but I bet you're right.

He also seems like the kind of dickhead who gets off on reminding his mentally ill girlfriend that he's way out of her league and is doing her a massive favor by being with even though she's fundamentally broken. He's such a great guy, he's willing to support her in whatever way he can so that she can focus on improving herself and being the woman he deserves. No other man in the whole world would be so patient and wonderful, and he's kind enough to help her understand that. She's not deserving of love yet, but with Chris's insight and guidance, maybe she will be someday.

Seriously, though, I think all of us have known or even been with a guy like him, who was only interested in women whose mental illness made them believe that they were unworthy of love and couldn't do any better. Often, the guy appears at least superficially to be really into "helping" his partner cope with the symptoms of her illness, but upon scrutiny or behind closed doors, it becomes obvious that he's just on an ego trip and enjoys having his knob slobbed both literally and figuratively.

(There are probably women like him, too, but my experience is limited to shitty men.)

Edited to say that the word that comes to mind to describe Chris is "unctuous". Nobody with good intentions is that slick.

I couldn't imagine a woman doing something like that, unless she was in a lesbian relationship, or he was from a very wealthy family.

 

[cuddle striker]

Somehow, she doesn't disgust me in the same way the Hartleys did. It might be because Gwen leaned hard on the "They're just normal sassy girls" bullshit, and this kid's parents...don't. They show her intubation and feeding tube, her syringes being prepared, her hospital treatments (sans pictures of used diapers and "cute" jokes about crapping in the hospital bed). They aren't in denial about her condition, but it doesn't feel like they're exploiting it for laughs and asspats, either. I feel more sympathetic than horrified.

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I worked at a hospital morgue for quite a long time and while a lot of people (who might watch too much fiction) think morgue techs are irreverent, irresponsible assholes who play pranks on people with bodies and medical examiners are assholes who eat over bodies and are completely numb to even the worst trauma or most tragic situations, I found that to be completely and profoundly untrue. The people I worked with were some of the most empathetic I've ever met. 100% if you did anything even remotely disrespectful or unprofessional around the workplace you'd be fired.

Having said that, compartmentalising is kind of necessary to some degree. I know I found it necessary, and I was mostly just dealing with routine deaths of the aged or people who had finally lost hellish battles to awful diseases. I (thankfully) never had to work on a child, since they were sent directly to the morgue at the children's hospital that was 3 minutes away. You need to know how to be understanding and empathetic without letting the family walk all over you. I admired the hell out of the doctors I worked with, who were never rude or abrupt in the face of grief anger or performative wailing, but also never let those people define the experience for the other family members who might be present.

I guess what I'm saying is that when you work with tragedy or death and suffering you have to learn how to deal with it. Usually the people that are attracted to these unenviable jobs are trying to make a difference, or believe in what they're doing, or are just normal people working a job they don't love but are doing their best. You do what you can to deal with the job and some people sink and others swim. Unfortunately, the close proximity to vulnerable people and the admiration for doing an unenviable job sometimes attract shitty people who will abuse their position. I haven't heard about it in hospice specifically, but I sure have in plenty of other medical situations. IDK, I just don't think hospice gives sociopaths the same sense of superiority to fuel narcissism as some other professions.

We are rigid assholes about professional comportment surrounding the dead that we work with. It is easier to work with the dead, than with the dying, though, I'm sure of that.

The dead are respectful and we respect them in return. The families rarely encounter us, we don't have to mince words or do any therapeutic work on their grief. We can just politely refer them to the (doctor, nurse, social worker, prosecutor) handling the death.

the decedents in the room with us are treated fairly and in the least degrading manner possible.

Living people though. We're not the nicest and the humor is pretty grim and dark.

The worst thing to see in this thread (and others) is dead bodies being mechanically or medically forced to "live". If I had any religion I'd consider it blasphemy, or evil. It's disgusting.

 

[For The Internet]

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We are rigid assholes about professional comportment surrounding the dead that we work with. It is easier to work with the dead, than with the dying, though, I'm sure of that.

The dead are respectful and we respect them in return. The families rarely encounter us, we don't have to mince words or do any therapeutic work on their grief. We can just politely refer them to the (doctor, nurse, social worker, prosecutor) handling the death.

the decedents in the room with us are treated fairly and in the least degrading manner possible.

Living people though. We're not the nicest and the humor is pretty grim and dark.

The worst thing to see in this thread (and others) is dead bodies being mechanically or medically forced to "live". If I had any religion I'd consider it blasphemy, or evil. It's disgusting.

It really is a grotesque farce. If we treated a decedent with that level of disrespect we'd be fired. The way certain parents create a circus around their child's corpse is horrific and the least dignified thing I can imagine.

I understand wanting to hold on to the tiniest sliver of hope that your child isn't entirely gone (as with Jahi and Archie), or that your child has meaningful thoughts and some sense of love for the family even if they can't express it (like the Hartley girls or Luna). It's normal for parents to be in denial about their child's chances. But to then go and let the media in, or blog every intimate detail of their bowel movements, or screech at nurses and hurl abuse while whipping Facebook into a frenzy isn't about hope for their child. It's about the parents.

And you're so right. We have nothing but compassion and respect for the dead. Some family members who visit (and thank christ that doesn't happen very often) were thoroughly excoriated when their behaviour was ridiculous after they left, though. One or two were something of a running joke. Black humour really helps with the job and literally every death-adjacent professional I've ever met uses it liberally.

 

[cuddle striker]

It really is a grotesque farce. If we treated a decedent with that level of disrespect we'd be fired. The way certain parents create a circus around their child's corpse is horrific and the least dignified thing I can imagine.

I understand wanting to hold on to the tiniest sliver of hope that your child isn't entirely gone (as with Jahi and Archie), or that your child has meaningful thoughts and some sense of love for the family even if they can't express it (like the Hartley girls or Luna). It's normal for parents to be in denial about their child's chances. But to then go and let the media in, or blog every intimate detail of their bowel movements, or screech at nurses and hurl abuse while whipping Facebook into a frenzy isn't about hope for their child. It's about the parents.

And you're so right. We have nothing but compassion and respect for the dead. Some family members who visit (and thank christ that doesn't happen very often) were thoroughly excoriated when their behaviour was ridiculous after they left, though. One or two were something of a running joke. Black humour really helps with the job and literally every death-adjacent professional I've ever met uses it liberally.

when you see death every day you stop thinking it's a problem and start seeing it as the inevitable punchline we will all run into

 

[JackDonaghysSecretLover]

This live just popped up on my 'for you page' on TikTok. Talk about a fucking jump scare.
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I don't watch stuff like this, or anything about kids in general, so fuck knows why it appeared.

Some poor little sod who's in an even worse state than Luna. I've not looked into it further than getting a couple of screenshots and the link because honestly, I've had more than I can handle on the desperately ill kids score this week.

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This Basket Case cosplay has gone too far