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- Sep 1, 2018
Both sides have a lot to work on. But of course, nobody wants to take the blame for anything, even if both sides are to blame on why relationship standards have taken a major hit. Both share some issues (lack of self improvement, insanely high standards, the "I can do better" mentality...) but men and women also have different problems that they need to tackle by themselves.I really could go on and on, but it was one of the rare times that I sat on the internet and I was true and honestly seething at how stupid and, dare I say unaware of their privilege, these people are. By no means am I denying that a lot of men need to get their shit together (who couldn't improve somewhere?,) but the amount of absolute messes in the comments acting like women are these hyper evolved creatures who are just so horribly done by without a hint of irony or introspection couldn't be a better free promotion for the MGTOW crowd.
I will concede that motivation in times like these is hard to come by, specially knowing that a relationship might fizzle out for the dumbest of reasons as well as, like you said, the way in which relationships have become inmense casual and people usually do not want to commit or have the responsability to have a family or a partner to care for.
Plus, when you see shit like this appear you get a bit depressed and you think "nah, i'm good".
These people remind me of the anti-prison folks. They act as if everything will be ok if the crook just admits that they are sorry and talks it out with the victim (and throws some money if he/she was raped). If you ask them about violent felons, they'll say those people hardly ever get caught so why both worrying about them.
These kind of activists for how criminals are just poor people that don't know better make me insanely mad, specially if you follow the news regularly. Dunno where these people come from (Most likely a suburban rich white neighbourhood, i know), but their ideas about how people should be forgiven and be given a pat in the back for having the strength to admit their wrongs is the most naïve thing i could hear. It symbolizes the leftist idea that people aren't evil, just uneducated/dumb/poor and they should be pityed and not punished. Plus, people that honestly regret what they have done and want forgiveness usually think they deserve the punishment they get as long as it is according to the crime.Yep. It's scary and depressing. I really don't get this misguided, excessive sympathy for criminals and other bad people. I understand the urge to forgive, offering the opportunity to reform, criminals having rights and so on. However, it's being done to the point of absurdity. Like it doesn't matter if the criminals actually reform or not.
And on the subject of having the criminal say "i'm sorry" and let him go, i will post a story.
This story is about a Spanish criminal called Jose Antonio Rodriguez Vega, known also as the Bike Rapist and the Old Ladykiller. The man was an extremely violent criminal as you could guess, but the guy had the luck of genetics on his side and he was a very handsome man that could give the appearance of someone with very good manners and education. Initially he was thrown out of his house by his mother for abusing his bedridden cancer striken father and he raped 8 women in the span of half a year. He would have ended in jail for 27 years if it wasn't because in old times, in Spain you could ask your victim for forgiveness publicly for a big time reduction. This worked and from those 27 years he spent 8 because all but one women forgave him. This meant that while he was still in his late 20s he got out on the streets and the year after his release he killed and raped 16 old women in the span of 3 years. All could have been avoided if he was still locked in jail, but the penal code allowed for time reductions if the victim forgave you.
TL;DR: Violent criminal gets forgiven by his victims, his punishment is lenient and surprise, he goes on to be a violent criminal once more.