- Joined
- Dec 17, 2019
I honestly think Bibi left because he simply had enough but put some salt in the wounds whilst arguing. Said "you've gained weight" and "are not attractive". Even though Chantal says she talks to BiBi a lot I think there has been no communication since she left or some simple text messages like collect your stuff. There is an element of shame involved as she has never given true details and her account is hokum. I honestly think he held a mirror up metaphorically and said "look what you have done to yourself, how could I love you. Linked to infertility etc"
Narcs are petrified of their own reflection and I believe BiBi did not mince his words and since then she lost her mind. BiBi honestly was the trigger in all of this. Her actions after this the months of mukbanging were all an attempt to disprove BiBi's statements but they did not work. I do think that is why the word "fat" sends her over. It's the one word that actually enrages her and I think BiBi called her fat break up and post and it wrecked her. I do think her being online 24/7 was a major point of it too.
I hope he is doing well tbh I think BiBi was and is the most innocent bystander in all of this. His private life after work was forced upon by this disrespectful cunt.
I wouldn't be at all surprised if there were fights/screaming matches about mundane things that pushed him to his limits:
* The fact she has no job, but never cleaned or cooked--not even pushing the vacuum around the apartment once a week.
* Talking to herself and fostering her disturbing parasocial relationships.
* Dumpster diving and bringing roaches in.
* Overhearing her disgusting sex stories.
* The farting, belching, and refusal to bathe. Refusal to do laundry despite not having a job.
Who in the entire FUCK wants to work all day only to have to come home and work some more--all while this supermassive black hole and its accretion disk just sits around eating fass fud and talking to itself.
I asked this before, but it leads me to this again. WHAT was with that Japanese screen? Was Malan making her put that up because he didn't want to see it? Was it his sister who was offended by Chantal's feedbags? I thought I read somewhere, either here or Youtube, that it was possibly so his sister didn't have to look at that mess. Both of them could still hear the snarfing and farting, and they definitely could smell it, but...