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- Nov 5, 2021
You hack the situation by changing to a gender-neutral language. For example Estonian, Finnish or Hungarian allows you to continue staying in touch with your bizarre enby friends without changing anything in your language.Probably not the best place to ask but fuck it: how do you deal with people that are adamant to be called non-binary in real life? With trannies I meet I can pretend to be polite, but with people that ask to be called non-binary I cannot come to terms to see them as “they” or call them one day as a man and another as s woman. It's ridiculous.
I ask because there's someone I care about that has me cornered because I won't refer to her as them. It's probably better to cut communication and lose the friendship, but it's sad to see it go this way.
No, but really. My suggestion is quietly ghosting the person or just dropping contact little by little instead of drama (like someone mentioned, drama will just give them a reason to start causing... more drama). Feels though.
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