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I think you're oversimplifying it. The thing is, this didn't just arise out of nowhere.yeah I was being flippant but at the end of the day it's a systemic identity disorder caused by running away from the difficulties of adolescence (and growing up in general) onto the online world, which is really common with our generation.
they run away so hard that they don't learn the basic life skills like
- 'not copying your identity off of those around you/making yourself the polar opposite'
- 'not thinking what you see is what you have to be'
-'learning to see others in a nuanced way by engaging with a variety of people who don't agree with you'
- 'not getting what you want and not feeling bad about it'
-'challenging yourself physically routinely as a habit and learning to enjoy what your body has to offer to you'
-'not making up stories about what's going on in everyone else's heads 101'
-'not spending your entire life in your head reading text and thinking about it'
- 'learning to set sequential goals and doing stuff with yourself daily for the enjoyment of doing things with yourself and seeing yourself progress'
- 'stop being a chunni'
- 'stop being prejudiced against people you're actually percieving as cooler than you and intimidating and try to befriend them instead. at least give it a shot'
-'resolving social conflicts with people that scare you productively'
-'stop creating identities to make yourself feel special by thinking in circles and recognize all you need and really want is to tackle your fears and progressively get better at concrete things rather than fulfilling the imaginary needs of a made up concept'
-'what you are is what you are, you are trying to subtract instead of accepting and building from there'
-'literally stop thinking with your dick'
basically they're so online they never learn how to live in a body. how to have a body. how to use their body. what their body really is and how it acts. how to control their body, when to not control their body and just process the information from their senses into actionable thoughts. how other people actually perceive their body. what other people are thinking when they see them. how to interact with others as a person that is just another person like all the other people are. how to become more of themselves, rather than reject themselves and become someone they've imagined they should be based on what they think other people are and what they think other people think they are.
At the end of the day, the skill of waking up loading into a 'yes, I am awake, hmm I'm going to do x today' instead of "I am awake I am a man I must do manly things oh god is that manly enough oh god what if I'm a woman I wonder what OnlineLoser425 thinks about this behaviour what if that's what my mom meant by 'just please go outside' like outside the box metaphorically?"
Fucking what they end up doing is escaping their body sensation into a rat maze of imagined perceptions, living out the horrors of unhealthy emotional attachment to the kafkian maze of online chunnis. they've the self-concept and self-awareness of a poorly-raised 12 year old, because that's where they stopped growing. only they can fix it, because only they can make themselves realize it's a problem.
ergo: skill issue, touch grass, get over yourself. can't? skill issue x2 git gud lol
and don't start going off on me about psychology studies because there's a four word, two emoji flippant phrase for that too:correlation is not causation
It wasn't like one day people just forgot how to feel things and be human, they're the way they are because the structure of the modern world has come to encourage them to do so.
Think about how sick the entire work as a culture attitude has become, and how frequently people are expected to completely suppress and ignore their feelings or what they actually want. Humans are designed to be able to tolerate some level of self suppression and re-channeling of urges for the sake of social cohesion, but the level we've reached is extreme beyond anything any social animal is intended to tolerate. There are too many people and social institutions have become far too entrenched. You don't get to decide for yourself in most cases. You participate on their terms, or you don't participate at all.
You aren't supposed to be online? Better tell all those people who are forced to make a living in front of a computer. These people don't want to have to get paid shit to work, where are they going to get their money or housing? Will they just be homeless? On whose dollar? Is that what they want, growing old on the streets (edit: or in prison, if they keep acting on how they feel)? Feeling and wanting things won't materialize them.
And just personally, I guess anyone who's seen some of my posts here knows I kind of have my own way about things, but I'm aware that the fact I'm walking around doing what I want means there are other guys out there who aren't going to have that opportunity. What are they supposed to do, exactly? In another time a lot of these people would've died of sickness or through war, just like any of us could've (strength doesn't mitigate a bullet to the head) but what are they supposed to do now?
That's wonderful to say that you should feel things and act on them and be human, but if you're taking up space to swing your arms that means everyone else has less space, and not everyone's going to get to do that. We're in the situation we're in because there are other people who came before us who've taken up their own space, and left very little for us.
Without there being voids in the world around you, the opportunity to step up and carve your own sense of self doesn't exist.
This is rat utopia shit. Without the opportunity for role fulfillment, social organisms cannot thrive psychologically and will revert to neurotic, pathological behaviors.
That's why as much as I can tell people you treat trannyism by encouraging humanism, how do you do that? Touch grass? You live in some bughive city, where are you going to touch grass, exactly? There's no more grass left. It was all torn out to fit another apartment complex, which houses an entire other group of people who wish they could touch grass.
You're right about the root cause, but it's honestly a little arrogant to act like the solution is that simple. It's not, we didn't end up where we are by accident.
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