"Remember I'm 21, this is what almost 5 years of hormones does to a
teenage girl."
Now I'm no math expert, but 21 minus 5 would be 16 no? Firmly in the camp of teenager, and someone while still developing mentally and physically has some reasonable ability to make value judgements, and rhetorically has the ability to manipulate others.
2 or 3 years ago I might have felt sorry for this person, but now not so. These people, including the teenagers themselves, have made it their goal to rip down every barrier that might prevent them from ruining their lives. Often times threatening suicide, and wilfully manipulating their hesitant or concerned parents into doing their bidding with other emotional manipulation.
I might add it seems like you guys are slipping into the old habit of coddling ftm's when their just as culpable for their own predicament as their mtf counterparts. Where you would laugh at some 21 year old dude lamenting his bad decisions calling him a coomer(rightfully so), you instead, with the ftm's, decide to go "oh poor UWU baby, she just didn't know what she was doing with that very confusing hormone testosterone, how could she know the subtle but serious effects of using it!!!!!".
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