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75% OF MEN ARE TOO SCARED TO CHAT UP WOMEN


Men are scared to chat women up for fear of saying the wrong thing a new study has revealed. Three quarters won’t approach a romantic interest for fear of saying the wrong thing or in case it is inappropriate.

Nearly four in ten (39%) men said that #metoo had hurt their loves lives, as did over a quarter of women (27%). While more than a third (38%) of those surveyed said they’d been approached less since #metoo. But two thirds of all singles (66%) said they’d like to be approached more by potential dates.

The research of 1,000 singles, commissioned by dating app happn, found that 72% of men didn’t think it was acceptable to tell someone they look beautiful. More than half (52%) felt the same way about extending an invitation for a drink and two thirds (69%) didn’t think it was acceptable to ask someone out to dinner.

However 65% of women said that they would laugh at a saucy chat up line and only 4% said they’d be offended. Can I get you a drink was deemed the most appropriate chat up line by (48%), followed by: you’re looking very beautiful today (26%).

The cheesy approach is less popular as only 8% of women said the chat up line: did it hurt when you fell from heaven was acceptable. But one in ten women were open to saucy lines and said: do you fancy breakfast in the morning, was an acceptable thing to say. However they drew the line at: you’ve got great boobs, which only 5% felt comfortable with.

Nearly two thirds (61%) of men said they feel more comfortable instigating romance online. While 30% like to find dates through apps and online.

Dating trends expert at happn says: “It is positive to see that #metoo has created such a tangible cultural shift. Men are conscious of being respectful in their language and their approach, which can only be a good thing when it comes to instigating a relationship. It is also positive to see that women are open to being approached in the right way in most situations and that the digital space is creating an environment where all singles feel comfortable and safe in approaching each other.”

 

[anustart76]

I figured that number would be higher.

It is positive to see that #metoo has created such a tangible cultural shift. Men are conscious of being respectful in their language and their approach, which can only be a good thing when it comes to instigating a relationship. It is also positive to see that women are open to being approached in the right way in most situations and that the digital space is creating an environment where all singles feel comfortable and safe in approaching each other.

There is nothing positive about this, you waste of space "expert"

 

[ZazietheBeast]

And this is not even addressing the monster known as Family courts. Which is actively encouraging western women to divorce their husbands for that easy payday. Never mind the fact that usually ends with the divorcing wife with wine and cats.

Men understand that the entire game is completely stacked against them. In short, the cultural landscape for dating is a complete shitshow because of what one side is about to lose if it fucks up. And the chance of fucking up is high. So why even play when there are better games out there?

 

[Kel1 shi1]

Be saucy but not cheesy? Wow thanks for the advice, I guess....

 

[Kermit Jizz]

Dating trends expert

Imagine having this as your job title and not immediately suck starting a shotgun.

 

[LaxerBRO]

I would suggest the Pence rule:

 

[George Lucas]

Reminder that women don’t know what the fuck they want.

Spoiler

Tell them they have nice tits and they’ll be pissed off but they’ll respond. Figure out the rest.

 

[Alligator Alcatraz]

This is not an affect of the Metoo movement. People in general have always been scared of hitting up the opposite sex. It isn't exclusive to men or women. As usual, bugpeople only think in the past 10 years and memoryhole anything prior. And as usual, the incels, scorned men, come in here using this article to validate their poltical beliefs. An article like this is more of a dopamine hit for them than a woman finding them attractive and wanting to be with them.

 

[Kheapathic]

Going to the actual site, something has my "this is fake" sense tingling... but I'm gonna ignore that for now.

The research of 1,000 singles,

Disregard anything that can't even get close to 1% of the population they're pretending to investigate. One of the great things about data manipulation is it's easy to get the data you want if you tailor your polling area. Not to mention there's no link to the supposed study, and they apparently only asked about what people would feel comfortable with, not really investigate the why they feel that way. If it's fake and gay it's fake and gay, if they're playing it straight, it's a fucking lie at best.

 

[anustart76]

And this is not even addressing the monster known as Family courts. Which is actively encouraging western women to divorce their husbands for that easy payday. Never mind the fact that usually ends with the divorcing wife with wine and cats.

Men understand that the entire game is completely stacked against them. So why even play when there are better games out there?

Without the constant mass third-worlder immigration, we would likely see similar issues to Japan's arise here thanks to all of this. Men checking out, no children, nobody to pay for the old people's retirement.
The sexual revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race.

I would suggest the Pence rule:

The comments on that video are very based.

 

[Cyclonus]

This is not an affect of the Metoo movement. People in general have always been scared of hitting up the opposite sex. It isn't exclusive to men or women.

Women have never been scared of hitting on men because they never had to, you div. And they're still refusing to even though men now have to risk being branded a predator on top of risking rejection so naturally they're bowing out. Unless something changes the human race will die out.

 

[Kermit Jizz]

This is not an affect of the Metoo movement. People in general have always been scared of hitting up the opposite sex. It isn't exclusive to men or women. As usual, bugpeople only think in the past 10 years and memoryhole anything prior. And as usual, the incels, scorned men, come in here using this article to validate their poltical beliefs. An article like this is more of a dopamine hit for them than a woman finding them attractive and wanting to be with them.

It's not literally the metoo movement that caused this, rather it is merely iconic of the general cultural shift. As a man who was in the dating market in the last decade I can assure you I was legitimately afraid of the potential social and legal ramifications of approaching the wrong woman. It's not just incels worried about this, there has absolutely been a massive negative shift in how men view the dating market and there is tons of statistical and anecdotal data to back that up.

Think about what you said, dating is already nerve racking right? Well imagine you not only have to deal with the normal anxiety, but you have to deal with the knowledge that any women could ruin your fucking life on a whim. A misstep is not just rejection and humiliation, it could literally be the end of your life. If you've been through the wringer and know how to avoid those psychos it's not as bad, but young men are entering a brutal and terrifying dating scene.

 

[Matt Damon]

And even if you deftly walk through that minefield and find someone sane, your reward is... having to constantly endure a woman.

 

[WonderWino]

and they're surprised it led to that kind of reaction? Nobody wants to have an irl moment like this:

and risk ending up in a bad situation

 

[Fascist Frederick]

Men are scared to chat women up for fear of being accused of rape for making eye contact...

I fixed it.

 

[SSj_Ness (Yiffed)]

MeToo might actually inadvertantly have some positive effects, it will send smart men toward conservative women who are less apt to be totally insane.

Then the libtard whores can grow old alone, seething at normal couples on social media in their apartment full of cats and jars of aborted nigglet babies they use to piss off pro-lifers or whatever.

 

[Johnny Salami]

I figured that number would be higher.


There is nothing positive about this, you waste of space "expert"

seems about right. 20 80 rule states that certain men have little problem getting dates that they don't know what comes off as creepy. Add in Indians and the deranged social autist and they'll talk to girls (my last ex told me some Indian guy once texted her his sexual fantasies after using his connections to get her number) regardless if they come off as creepy or not (or in spite off)

 

[Scale Smerch]

However 65% of women said that they would laugh at a saucy chat up line and only 4% said they’d be offended

Conveniently forgot the extra bit about only doing so if the guy looks attractive and exudes confidence. Your quintessential nice guy is definitely hitting the 4%.

 

[Zbk3VmLfujjzjxBd43tL]

This predates #MeToo by a few years, remember Elevatorgate?

 

[Cyclonus]

Is saying hello sexual harassment?

Women should be trusted to know the difference between a friendly greeting and something more menacing.

www.reuters.com

Saying hello to women is sexual harrasment.

Looking at women is sexual harrasment.

But don't worry about that lads, shoot your shot!