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Bad attempt at a joke aside, I've actually observed in the wild that certain types tend to do better overall. A lot of them keep trying to make it work despite everything. But there really is nothing wrong with being average, most people are.I'm generalizing to make my observations simpler. Take my insight with a grain of salt. Chill man, no need to be so rash. Women may be physically attracted to these "chad alphas" you speak of but a chiseled jawline and a six pack won't help make a relationship last.
Just like how many men are attracted to women who are 8s, but are with an average women instead because she has personality traits that help maintain the non sexual aspects of the relationship.
If you're a guy who's below average or has a disability, however, you're probably not going to have a good time. I got to admit that miracles do seem to happen occasionally, but it's not something to count on.
A lot of the time too, is that guys that have trouble with that kind of stuff might just not mesh well with the local culture, like if you live in a college town where Your State University football is a big thing and you personally don't give a shit about it.
I can see where you're coming from but considering how superficial society is I honestly don't see it happening on either end. Finding any girl who will tolerate your lack of hygiene or addiction to MMORPGs or especially internet porn is difficult and even then it probably won't work out. You'll probably get traded in for a better model anyway. Also, girl bullying is a little different, it's sneaky and underhanded and at least male bullies will call you a faggot to your face before beating it in.Less attractive men having sucess dating less attractive women is not uncommon. Women who are nerdier, less attractive, and more intelligent are typically less shallow because they have also experienced some of the bullying and shame that those non select men have experienced, therefore they will see superficial things such as jawline and body size as more trivial, since they're willing to compromise that for a good personality.
This isn't the case with a lot of high tier women, due to the fact that they were almost always pampered by society. This is why more attractive women have higher standards when it comes to looks, they have the luxury to do so due to the higher number of options pf men they are able to chose from.
Everyone knows this. Incels just chose to bitch and whine about it and act like they're entitled to a woman's body while putting in zero work.
You can find both bad looks and a worse personality under the same hood as well, which incidentally is exactly what many incels are. The former can also affect the latter as well, considering that many less attractive people are treated like dirt for it and decide that interacting with other human beings just isn't worth it to them. Which I understand, fuck them and cut your losses because they're not worth your time.
On the other hand, some okay looking or attractive people can be introverts as well, and it can be really confusing for them for a number of reasons.