I'm not directly in touch with him - he doesn't appear to use social media - but one of my Facebook friends, who has a M-to-F child herself whom she loves very much, is, and said she saw him and his wife at their recent class reunion. ("Recent" being within the past few years.)You still in touch? They never seem to do follow up shows '20 years later'.
BTW, plastic surgeons have long used tissue from the labia minora to reconstruct lips in women who need extensive reconstruction due to burns, cleft palate repair, etc. The outer lips do not lubricate with sexual arousal, and they are of similar color and sensitivity as lip tissue.