Appalling thread. This behaviour is textbook cycle of abuse, you all say "She should know better" but why? Have you ever been abused? Do you know how hard it is to escape even if you know it's bad? She's had YEARS of conditioning, that's something you can't just undo, so it's not surprising at all that she's still together with him.
Like what the fuck even is this? Do you have shit for brains? Of course she won't just leave, she's conditioned not to. It requires serious intervention and from the looks of it she only has enablers around her so the fact she won't leave is a given, not a red flag. Nothing about her situation, whether it's her finances, her status or her hordes of incel fans is going to change how she feels psychologically in the moment where the abuser is 'caught', because those are material things that don't have a direct effect on her abuse situation. She's not just going to read a bunch of comments and think "Oh maybe anon is right" when she's been conditioned to believe her husband's word for years and years especially now that he's obviously switched over to the honeymoon phase from what I can gather.
It doesn't require one brave moment to stand up against your abuser like she did, it takes multiple, it takes a constant effort. It's not as simple as "Just change your bank accounts and 2FA loool xdd" because he can just coax her to change it back later. Abusers are like parasites in that way, and she's going to need loads of detoxing from it before she really escapes.
You haven't been abused/manipulated in this way by the person you're meant to be a life partner with, victims of abuse live in the opposite world where this is normal. It's impossible for them to see things objectively in the way we do, you have to understand this before you can make wild judgements because it's definitely not as simple as just get out. She needs to go full no-contact, she needs therapy, and she needs to get far, really far away from him with no way for him to contact her.
Whether she's a dumb bitch for getting into this situation in the first place is debatable. But if you think she's fucking stupid for the choices she's made around this during the relationship I implore you to try out an abusive relationship yourself and see how shitbrained it makes you, genius. It's far more likely that she's just a dumb woman who fell into the cycle of abuse, doesn't mean she's not a victim or that she deserves it. Go jerk off before you post incels. I bet you all wish you were in this guy's shoes.