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Fat Acceptance Movement / Fat Girlcows
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Put some motherfucking clothes on, Bekah. It's not because you're fat, it's because you look sad and desperate. Yes, you are fat and 'happy', yes you have stretch marks, most people do, let it go and put on some clothes.
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One thing that shields Tammy is that she is working with a therapist who is telling her what to do to get her BDE under control. So it is more difficult to say that she is doing things wrong when she is presumably following professional advice. That said, it's obviously not working very well for her, and Ilona's advice regarding eating habits seems to hold a lot more water than whatever her therapist is telling her. But I find it harder to criticise Thamar when she is actively seeking help and maybe ran into a therapist who is not up to the task, compared to someone like April who refuses to get help. It's the therapist who should be poking through the fatlogic and the bloody breakfast shakes.
I agree with that, she has too many cats. I was a little pissed at her when she made a video about adopting another cat a few months back, that apartment should have two cats at most.
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Dnein
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Every single time you hear about the "this always happens" "people harass me all the time" you can guarantee it only happened once (if at all). Every time you challenge them, that's always the answer.
Had one person claim they were literally shouted at on the street everyday for being fat. When I ask, shockingly, one time a person shouted something from their car. I'm willing to bet said shouting had nothing to do with them as well, given the standard narcissism, so it's more like "some guy yelled at his friend once = people literally jeer and mock me everytime I walk down the street".
Seriously, when have you ever seen someone publically mock a fat person? No, a glance their way doesn't count, and friends and family are their own shit. I personally have never witnessed a single person being publicly harassed for being fat, so something weird going on given how often they claim it, huh?
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When I was a fucking fatass, nobody ever yelled or fatshamed me or anything like that. If anything, fat people are coddled to hell and back, now. You can definitely count on most of those outrageous fat shaming stories being fake or hyperbole.
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I'm acceptant of fatness if the person in question knows they're not doing right and are at least taking some steps to reversing the damage they did to themselves. But for the delusions to run so deep that they try to reverse thousands of years of mating preference?
It's just losers trying to get on the oppression bandwagon while justifying the most controllable physical flaw. It's some real broken brain shit to have the self agency to do activism but literally be unable to count calories and stop being a grotesque abomination because you can't accept that gluttony is repulsive.
It's just losers trying to get on the oppression bandwagon while justifying the most controllable physical flaw. It's some real broken brain shit to have the self agency to do activism but literally be unable to count calories and stop being a grotesque abomination because you can't accept that gluttony is repulsive.
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I'd even argue it's the other way around when it comes to women. From my experience, it is not unusual for skinny and attractive women in general to get harassed on the street. I've seen a fat person mocked in public exactly one time in my life (same scenario, just some dumb teenagers shouting something from a passing car), but on the other hand I had men touching me or following me multiple times, even in safe areas in the middle of the day.
Ironically enough, I think I lived once the wet dream of fatphobic oppression. I was actually harassed a few years ago on the street by some dude claiming to be a personal trainer, who tried to persuade me to join his gym. He followed me for a good 15 minutes and started grabbing me and dragging me by the hand at one point. His argument was "you might look good now, but you'll get fat in the future unless you let me train you". The whole situation was even more hysterical as I was in fact walking with a fat friend that day. He didn't even look in her direction. I might be the first person on this Earth experiencing public fatphobia, and I wasn't even fat. Thinnies always appropriating fat struggles.
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I'm reminded of one event from years ago. Some fatass had to have one of the walls knocked down from their home so they could get them out and to the hospital but they had no ambulances that could handle such a wide load. And so they borrowed a flatbed truck from a local aquarium. That right there is bad enough when you can't fit through the door and they need to knock down a wall to get to you then to use a large flatbed to bring you to the hospital.
It was worse when there was a news chopper following them and recording all this. But the cherry on the sundae was when the reporter mentioned, of the flatbed truck, "they had to get it from the local aquarium. It's a truck normally used to transport large seagoing mammals." In other words they were low key called a fucking landwhale on the news.
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In the world they describe that wouldn't even register, and hell, it's amazing when the funniest example of "fatphobia" is just a literal description of events.
According to fatphobia stories (god, they have that whole "what's the worst way you've been fat shamed" video thing that proves this insanity), they're being followed by a train of mooing children and men screaming "disgusting fatty", while the skinny women cackle, point, and screech "whaleeee". The waiters snort and mock them, the awful fatphobes RUSH to take their handicapped spaces! The news is just a constant stream of "fat people: the government's new genocide plan for these subhuman trash", and all the movies are just all fat villains and comedic mockery of their majestic form.
But the reality is, the news only insults this aquatic animal transport person by accident, and everybody else is on eggshells day to day. Nobody says shit to them outside random freak events or nagging mothers. You mention exercise or skip dessert in front of them, it's the dread of knowing they've taken it personally. Every commercial includes a death fat at this point, ESPECIALLY if it's athletic or dance. Every network and streaming service has some fat character glorification with a hot husband, a heroic story, or a grandiose "quirky" personality.
It's still never quite enough to break that delusional bubble.
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Wow, what a find. I love the smug ugly ones the best. My favorite video is her smarmily bragging that men are lining up to pay for fat womens’ bodies, as if BBW hasn’t been a thing forever. The problem is, that while those degenerates will pay for fat bodies, those women generally need to be at least sort of attractive, unless you want the real freaks. No woman should be proud to be a shameful fetish, but I have a feeling this one is quite proud, even if she admits those men are still evil fatphobes. The video makes that so clear. Oh sweetie!
I mean, after all, what decent man wouldn’t pay for this? (I’m not even including her gym photo because there’s absolutely no way she wears a sports bra and leggings out in public. I’m reaching to the point of limb separation to pretend she’s even check the mail in this outfit.)
The audacity is strong with this one. I fucking love it. Thank you. Just the facial expressions alone are killing me. I laughed so hard I nearly choked on my reasonably-sized portion of almonds!
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One thing I notice about the Fat Liberation/Fat Acceptance crowd, it seems like the uglier they get, the louder and smugger they get. The ones that come to mind like FatSapphicBro, Splotchmaker, they're all ugly as sin and SO SMUG.
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That's hilarious. Found several stories like that. Think this was the one?
Rhode Island man weighing 1,200 pounds placed in cargo container, removed from facility by crane, shipped to hospital via flatbed truck in massive operation
It took about seven hours to move Robert Butler eight miles in an operation that began at the Bannister House and ended at in Cranston.
It'd be interesting to see America subsidize weight loss. I know some places offer free bus passes in exchange for a light workout in front of a kiosk.
More measures like that would be amazing but would go against what (((TPTB))) want the American populace to look like
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I understand where people want to say "she's different because she's in treatment and trying to fix things", but:
a) We don't know what her doctors are actually telling her -- she could be reporting accurately, or not. There's also an element here that people don't want to acknowledge, namely that
b) Addicts LIE. They lie to everyone, even (and sometimes particularly) to themselves. So without her doctor doing some sort of live interview (the concept is preposterous, I'm not actually suggesting it) we have no way to know.
c) She sounds like she knows what she's doing, but actions speak louder than words. That smug "I KNOW HOW TO LOSE WEIGHT" that I've heard her repeat a couple of times now, even though I only watch a tiny fraction of her videos is a prime example. She thinks she knows. She doesn't know, or she wouldn't be more than twice the size she should be because effectual weight loss is losing weight to a healthy range and then successfully maintaining that loss, not merely dialing back on consuming enough calories to feed a small Asian village for a brief time so some weight is lost, only to go right back to overeating the minute things get a little hard.
d) Further to that people need to really *hear* what she's saying, and divorce it from her admittedly charismatic self-presentation. In the video above she says she's not going to stop eating bread because she likes it. Look at the suppressed smirk when she says it. No one sensible would tell her never to eat bread, just not to eat so much/so often or first thing in the morning without some decent protein and fibre to balance it out. She then retreats into "It's a Dutch thing", as if that's some sort of valid argument. My culture has plenty of unhealthy food habits too. That doesn't mean I indulge in them more than occasionally -- and I probably enjoy it more for having it rarely as opposed to her mindless consumption. This is actually where in my layperson's opinion she confirms she's an addict, mental health and other eating disorders aside. If you told her that the choice was between her life and eating bread she'd opt to keep eating bread.
e) In that same video she talks about how she's keeping the breakfast shake because there are mornings when she can't be bothered to make anything or chew. If she's too bloody lazy to chew maybe she shouldn't eat? I know, I know, "but regular meals to prevent binges". Delaying breakfast until she's actually willing to put in the effort to eat (beyond swilling back sweets like a Strasbourg goose) seems like a more healthy, sensible option doesn't it?
I don't know if/how her medical team are addressing it, but the fact remains that the behaviour she reveals on this video show someone incredibly entitled, and profoundly indolent. She can't fathom not gratifying her whims at every turn, and has the argument that any bit of denial would result in binging. I'm not denying that excessive restriction can result in unhealthy binging cycles, and I'm not saying anyone should be eating food they dislike, but by the same token it's normal for a meal to be "okay" rather than superlative. If it's decently filling and reasonably nutritious it doesn't have to be a gustatory delight -- but that's not good enough for her.
It's understandable that her audience wants to be supportive, and nice, but she's doing that addict thing where she turns anyone who doesn't actively oppose her into an enabler. She needs inpatient treatment for addition, in my opinion, not a hugbox to feed her exhibitionist desire for attention. (I realise this may come off as harsh but I'd actually like to see her get better. I just know how it is with addicts, and enabling never helps. The kindest thing people can do for them is not tolerate the nonsense, because that just allows them to continue to wallow. If anyone starts feeling overly sympathetic towards Tammy they need to picture glasses of hard liquor in front of her instead of bread or pastries or candy. It's the same thing, just a less well known -- and slower to be lethal -- vice.)
I agree with you on the "two cat maximum" limit for the size of her home, for the creature's greatest well being. Maybe even just one, because there are days when she admits she doesn't get out of bed -- how often do you think the litter box(es) is/are cleaned? Certainly not the multiple times per day that number of cats would dictate, even when she's doing relatively well. Her getting a (then) fifth cat -- and a disabled one at that -- annoyed me too. But there you see the addict as well -- she has to have fresh, novel/increasing levels of stimulus, or else she'll feel flat and unsatisfied and succumb to depression. *Sighs* Because she seemingly doesn't have people in her life to step in to say "enough" I doubt she'll be able to pull herself out of her addiction in time to save her own life.
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Because I was curious: The guy in that story, Robert Butler, died less than three months after that story.
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It is expensive considering there is no product and most of it is just social media information, as in daily reading material and AI coaches. If you pay for a year, then it is slightly cheaper than the basic tier WW plan though. It's US $70/month, but the price is discounted the more months you pay up front. For example 4 months auto-renewing is US $169. Annually it $209 auto-renew. So it's a bit like gym memberships in that regard, in that it's tricking fatties into longer contracts, knowing most will stop using it within a couple of months. Of course the fat cowgirls aren't going to like it either because tracking your food, daily weighing, and seeing the traffic lights colours (I think you know what I mean, but in case you don't food is allocated red, yellow or green depending on caloric and nutritional value) is triggering.
https://www.noom.com/blog/how-much-does-noom-cost/
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I'm a crotchety old bitch, and I don't smell like egg salad because I can fit into my shower, reach every part of my body to wash it properly, and don't have lots of perennially sweaty, yeasty, fungus-infected, inadequately-washed crevices that would make me smell that way. Projection, much?
That fat activist was Cat Pausé, who recently died of fatfuckitis at 42, and is thus in permanent landscape mode. Rest in Pizza, Cat; hope it was worth it.
Men will pay for all kinds of women's bodies. She really needs to drive down whatever seedy stretch of boulevard in her city is known for open prostitution, and observe. Fortunately for her, there's usually lots of fast food joints and big parking lots where she can sit in her car, stuff her face, and watch the women who are out there doing the stroll.
She'll see at least one hugely fat one; a lot of mid-fats; some flabby skinnyfats; some who are aged and emaciated from years of hard living; and—occasionally—one who is smoking hot enough to make you wonder why her pimp's got her on the street instead of doing something safer and more lucrative. She'll see women of all colors and races.
Most of them aren't pretty, and maybe never were; almost none have "ideal" bodies. But most of those women are still pulling in men willing to pay to have sex with them (the ones who don't quickly disappear). There's a gigantic black woman I always see doing the stroll whenever I have to go back into the city; I call her Precious, because she's very dark and very fat, and she's been out there for at least two years. Men pay Precious for sex. They also pay Granny, the toothless meth-head burnout who could be any age between 35 and 65, and has a body comp I associate with nursing home residents.
Fatty, that men are willing to pay for sex with you is not an accomplishment, and nothing to brag about.
New profile pic time!
Rage. That smugness is ill-concealed rage. Rage, driven by envy and bitter resentment of all the skinnies, who seemingly have perfect, effortless lives in which they never have to face disappointment, rejection, or humiliation for no other reason than because they're too fat. It's also why they turn that smugness on "smallfats," who still have options they don't.
Also, in order to sit there every day and justify your fatness on social media, claim it's healthy, and that you are a happy fat person who wouldn't change a thing about your body, you have to know that nobody with a lick of common sense fucking believes you. So you're preaching to an audience that is either stupid and desperate enough to believe you, or else thinks you're the stupid one for making the claims you do—and both are worthy of your anger and contempt. Hence, the smug.
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@Ginger_beer Totally fair and a good point. Perhaps I'm being a bit naive here.
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I wouldn't call it being naive so much as being a kind, decent example of humanity. It's entirely natural and understandable. I just sound callous because I've learned what addicts are like from direct personal experience. I *still* have the reflexive impulse to be reassuring and supportive because I'm not actually that big of an asshole (or at least not deliberately one), but I've learned not to give way to it because it's not helpful. It's a hard thing to unlearn.
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Yeah the people willing to pay to get with this fat bitch don't care about her. They care about her fatness. If she dropped the weight they'd drop her and find another fatty. That's gotta sting knowing it's not you but your corpulence that they love.
And even if she did lose the weight she'd still be ugly as fuck. Those chompers alone are disgusting.
It's because either they have a swarm of beta orbiters calling them beautiful or they have a man who "loves" them and supports them emotionally. That's where the smug comes from because they just say, "well he wants to fuck me!" as if that means they have value.
Dude. Chill. I was talking about the bitch from your profile picture which you just uploaded not you.