Bro I made a dating app account again recently, inspired by the memory that it takes no bravery at all, but forgetting how soul-destroying it is. It's actually gone a little better, got a match but no message and a few likes (probably fatties, if I haven't matched with them). I insist on using it in my stupid, inefficient way, which is to actually look at women's profiles because I actually care about that, and loading my profile up with my hobbies, cat photo, formal photo of me, etc., because the way I see it, I know that's going to put off a decent chunk of women, but I'm not Chad Thundercock so I can't pull off the dog-and-bros photo stuff and I don't think I'd really want that kind of vapid bint. I want to get whatever rare one might see my instruments or kayaking or whatever it is and be interested in the personality.
Well, anyways, these women are so samey. In the past I'd wonder about how so many women physically look real similar, this sort of generic but uninspiring prettiness, sea of blondes usually (natural or not), and I'd feel like a sociopath thinking how they looked like they all came out of a factory, but I mentioned it a few times to other people and they'd agree. And that same sort of woman always has the same shit on their profile. Some sassy comment, some shit about how much htey love the gym/sportsball (probably trying to suck up to the men they're looking to attract), wine or whiskey or the bar, The Office, listen to contemporary Black rap or to contemporary country depending on whether or not they're a hick.
And it's not that I'm dead set against those things, but that's all there is, and it's all of them. Sometimes some pop up that do seem to have a bit more going on. What I'd say there's a real lack of is the women who have intellectual or artistic interests, or music interests that aren't "I listen to Childish Gambino." They don't exist, at least not on the app.
I think there may be this extreme segmentation where the hambeasts (male and female) go on out of desperation and Chad and Stacy go on there because they know they can fuck high quality (for their standards) people easily.
