I've genuinely never met a woman, even a liberal feminist woman, who wanted to lead people. Sure, some of them had positions of power such as manager positions. They were okay with soft leadership like that. But I have never met a woman who actually wants to be a leader in her marriage or in a political sense. It's anecdotal evidence, but it really convinces me that women who are pastors or politicians (aside from small time stuff like a schoolboard council head) are, at best, weird exceptional people (in the same vein as men who would prefer to let their wives make all the decisions and head the house) and, at worst, sociopaths. And the latter is probably way more common than the former given how common mental illness is in the West now.