I'll leave my sperging there for now, but I do have a few questions for anyone on this thread who has read a lot of posts on the site
- People have said the site has turned toxic and to shit, is this just powermodding and FuneralCry, and if so is this the same shit you see on sites like reddit or does it cause problems unique to the site?
- What is the deal with the site saying helping people with their suicide methods is against the rules and illegal (see below) and yet they break this rule all the time it seems.
- Also from the quote what are the other rules that are broken daily?
First question. Yes, exactly that. I'd say 90% of the drama caused centres around FC, who posts the same posts word for word daily. She gives no other information other than she's 22 and has Aspergers. I'm not for a moment suggesting she should give out any details she's uncomfortable with, but every user tends to give at least vague information about the situation they find themselves in. This in itself feels off, and as several people have pointed out, it feels like a fake account, or some sort of automated response. Her posts are The Absolute Truth And Cannot Be Challenged. Anyone who challenges any point quickly gets jumped on by white knights, then the thread descends into farce and the admin starts mouthing off, and tHe BuLlY cLiQuE get warned, banned, and ostracised. There is no bully clique, it's all deliberately made into drama.
An example here of a typical case as described above:
It's one example of many. I will post some more later, but it's a constant thing. White knights galore. R+S usually weighs in and makes it clear FC is the golden bollocks and everyone else is a pro-life troll bully. Citation later.
Answers 2 and 3 I'll address together. Here's a copy of the rules:
Do:
- Be respectful of others, and their opinions.
- Disrespect will not be tolerated on this forum. Try to have constructive conversations without resorting to name-calling or insults.
I honestly don't want to make everything about FC or R+S but when I say at least 90% of the drama is those two, it's hard not to keep referring to them. The disrespect I've seen is shocking. Should it be expected on a suicide forum where most people are clearly suffering? I'd say no. Whilst I have sympathy that their lives are shit, there's no excuse for misconduct towards other suicidal people, in particular from an admin.
Do NOT:
- Harass, bully, attack or insult other members.
- If someone is misbehaving or breaking the rules, report them instead. Do not troll or proselytize, meaning do not impose your views - no matter what they are - on others or make threads to get people riled up.
Pretty much same as my thoughts above. Broken daily. I will come back with some more examples in a later post.
Do NOT:
Encourage acts, ask for encouragement, or help anyone commit any acts.
- Do not encourage, suggest, manipulate, coerce, or help users carry out acts of any nature whatsoever, including suicide; only provide factual information and emotional support to those who ask for it. Do not try to get the community to tell you what to do, only you can choose your path and actions.
Fucking LOL, to be honest. Never mind what goes on in DMs, that shit goes on openly in threads. Putting the suicide section private is probably the sanest thing they've done, as before that anyone could lurk and see everything without even having to make an account.
Do NOT:
Post low effort, spam, or ask to be PMd (i.e., sent a Private Message).
- Don't spam or make low effort replies. Spam includes sending mass PMs, unsolicited PMs, and making posts asking for people to PM you.
Posting the same repetitive post over 18,000 times apparently doesn't count as low effort. At least contribute something worthwhile instead of creating drama every day.
Do NOT:
Post or request personal information, website links, or sources of ANY kind.
- Don't post personal information of anyone, no matter if the information is public or not, or if you have been given permission or not. This includes posting or requesting identifying information of providers, contacts, of yourself, of someone else, or website links to providers (e.g., amazon products, ebay stores, onions, upload sites, independent sellers, etc). If you wish to share information with someone, do so privately, but understand you take responsibility for the risks of doing so.
Seen this done so many times, but in fairness it does tend to get swiftly removed.
Do NOT:
- Use NSFW avatars/signatures.
- Don't use NSFW images for your avatar or signature, including self-harm and sexual acts.
There are people with avatars of nooses, killers, and there was some furore about someone using an Elliot Rodger avatar, which was allowed to stay. I know things like that don't matter here on KF, but it's just a point that the rules aren't strictly kept over there.
I believe
@afounder wrote these rules? If so, did you see and deal with any violations? Nobody seems to give a damn about rules any more, it's just a free-for-all. That said, I don't particularly care about rules or grassing on anyone who deems to have broken them. There is definitely a bias though as to who can and can't break them.