Debate user 'SpergioLeonne' on if sex with your own pregnant wife is pedophilia

The hormonal changes from pregnancy increasing female libido is well documented
his argument is "why would i have sex with something that can't get pregnant" which is weird because humans are generally mates for life. there's definitely programming to keep a sexual partnership ongoing so the children are taken care of after being born. it would make more sense if he was some sort of animal that had a bunch of females he had to keep rotating between.
 
his argument is "why would i have sex with something that can't get pregnant" which is weird because humans are generally mates for life. there's definitely programming to keep a sexual partnership ongoing so the children are taken care of after being born. it would make more sense if he was some sort of animal that had a bunch of females he had to keep rotating between.
Yeah that's it exactly. If the couple keeps having sex they are more likely to keep their pair bond, the man sticking around to help raise the child. This is also one of the reasons why a woman's breasts get larger from pregnancy, that is supposed to make her more attractive to the father so hopefully he sticks around
 
Ok so at what point in history do I get to guilt people into having sex with me because “I’ll feel like shit” if they don’t? Can I time travel that particular gem back to highschool, when I couldn’t get any?

How does that balance with the fact that I am uncomfortable with pounding on the door to my babies’ apartment?
You don't. You're a man and the trade off for being the gatekeeper to relationships is you don't get to be the gatekeeper to sex. Plus your wife isn't guilting you into it, a bunch of spergs on the internet are. We don't know the full story and we have no investment in whether you have sex with your wife or not. You should do it because you love your wife and marriage isn't a zero sum game.

That should be plenty, but if that's not rational enough to convince you consider this: The damage you will incur by being mildly uncomfortable with the idea of having sex with your wife while she's pregnant does not and will never outweigh the risk of the damage to your relationship it could cause.

As a man there are times when you need to be a stalwart oak who will never bend regardless of the cost to yourself. Dealing with your wife's constantly shifting emotional state while she bears your child is not one of those times. So go have sex, it's important.

Edit: I'll just move this here since I didn't realize this thread had been created.
 
his argument is "why would i have sex with something that can't get pregnant" which is weird because humans are generally mates for life. there's definitely programming to keep a sexual partnership ongoing so the children are taken care of after being born. it would make more sense if he was some sort of animal that had a bunch of females he had to keep rotating between.
On the most basic level, I have never in my life been attracted to the shape of a fully pregnant woman. I have to assume it’s coded in somehow, and why that is is what the other arguments are attempting to rationalize.

I wasn’t traumatized by any pregnant women or anything, I can’t think of a reason it would be “nurture” as opposed to “nature.”

Regarding maintaining a pair bond through periodic abstinence, how do you make it through the time immediately afterwards where there are serious physical reasons why doctors tell you they need to heal? Do you have to do it anyways and risk serious harm to push the emotional aspect along, or can you just survive a couple months by affection and letting her pick a romcom to watch when she wants to?
 
On the most basic level, I have never in my life been attracted to the shape of a fully pregnant woman. I have to assume it’s coded in somehow, and why that is is what the other arguments are attempting to rationalize.

I wasn’t traumatized by any pregnant women or anything, I can’t think of a reason it would be “nurture” as opposed to “nature.”

Regarding maintaining a pair bond through periodic abstinence, how do you make it through the time immediately afterwards where there are serious physical reasons why doctors tell you they need to heal? Do you have to do it anyways and risk serious harm to push the emotional aspect along, or can you just survive a couple months by affection and letting her pick a romcom to watch when she wants to?
Because there's a big difference between the time just before and just after birth when sex isn't physically enjoyable for her, and the first 7-8 months of pregnancy when sex is physically enjoyable for her and her hormones make her want it more. And her hormones make her emotionally labile and she wants loving reassurance, one of the ways to provide that being fucking
 
On the most basic level, I have never in my life been attracted to the shape of a fully pregnant woman. I have to assume it’s coded in somehow, and why that is is what the other arguments are attempting to rationalize.

I wasn’t traumatized by any pregnant women or anything, I can’t think of a reason it would be “nurture” as opposed to “nature.”

Regarding maintaining a pair bond through periodic abstinence, how do you make it through the time immediately afterwards where there are serious physical reasons why doctors tell you they need to heal? Do you have to do it anyways and risk serious harm to push the emotional aspect along, or can you just survive a couple months by affection and letting her pick a romcom to watch when she wants to?
I think its just cause you are low T. Especially since the shop is closed for at least a month (usually more) after birth you should get it in while you still can. Your relationship sounds shit tbh.
 
Ok so at what point in history do I get to guilt people into having sex with me because “I’ll feel like shit”
Only if you're biologically a women, also it's your wife, you've already stuck your dick in her how does her being pregnant change that?
 
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So we’re just taking a wider arc on the guilt trip angle. And what, this doesn’t have to go in my thunder dome of shame instance?
I was taking my time to put my thoughts down so I didn't see the thread had been moved before posting, Apologies.

On the most basic level, I have never in my life been attracted to the shape of a fully pregnant woman. I have to assume it’s coded in somehow, and why that is is what the other arguments are attempting to rationalize.

I wasn’t traumatized by any pregnant women or anything, I can’t think of a reason it would be “nurture” as opposed to “nature.”

Regarding maintaining a pair bond through periodic abstinence, how do you make it through the time immediately afterwards where there are serious physical reasons why doctors tell you they need to heal? Do you have to do it anyways and risk serious harm to push the emotional aspect along, or can you just survive a couple months by affection and letting her pick a romcom to watch when she wants to?
You're being too concrete in your thinking. She won't want/need sex as badly when the baby is born because you're both going to be so tired during that time anyhow. She'll want you to do what you can to keep them both housed / fed and then give an extra 150% to take some burden off her shoulders so she can sleep between feedings. Barring that, ask her what she wants and she'll tell you.

I think its just cause you are low T tbh. Especially since the shop is closed for at least a month (usually more) after birth you should get it in while you still can. Your relationship sounds shit tbh.
Every man is selfish during the first leg of a marriage before and running up to the first child being born. I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt here since he's engaging us and asking questions.
 
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Every man is selfish during the first leg of a marriage before and running up to the first child being born. I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt here since he's engaging us and asking questions.
Speak for yourself, anime avatar.

This is a punishment because I took the bait and replied again in the Rekieta thread when I say I wouldn’t. It’s not something I or anyone else wanted.
Wrong, I asked for this so I can make fun of you in a dedicated thread without shitting up the other one.
 
This is a punishment because I took the bait and replied again in the Rekieta thread when I say I wouldn’t. It’s not something I or anyone else wanted.
It's a punishment for being way off topic in the Nick Rekieta thread, don't give it more credit than it needs.
 
As a further consideration for the pros of pregnancy sex especially late term pregnancy sex having sex can also help jump start labor I bet that would feel fucking weird if your wife just started going into labor while you were fucking but it happens
 
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