3 months post-op results, Dr Jiří Veselý (Brno, Czech Republic) - kind of functional, but kind of ugly...
Hello there,
I had my surgery 3 months ago with Dr Jiří Veselý in Brno, Czech Republic. Just before that, I found
this article here on reddit from a girl who had surgery with him in 2019 and she was quite unhappy with the results. I got worried that I might end up the same way and sadly, my results aren't much different as you can see on the photos below.
I am making this post for two reasons:
- to inform everyone who's looking for a surgery in the Czech Republic, to know what to expect
- to ask you for advices how to deal with it
Basic facts:
The surgery is based on scrotal skin graft technique and it's covered by the regular healthcare insurance. Mine lasted about 9 hours, judging by the time I went into the operation room to the moment I woke up in the way to the intensive care.
The clinic is nice and well-equipped and the staff is very friendly, caring, and polite. The food is... a hospital food.
I went to the clinic on 4 Nov 2022 (Friday) and the surgery was on 7 Nov in the morning. According to info I found about other girls who went there, it seems that it's normal to be entering on Friday and getting a surgery on Monday, followed by about 5 days in the intensive care, and about 10 days more in a room with at least one more person (wonderful for a dilation routine).
I spent 4 days in the intensive care and then I was moved to a two-bed room. On the first Monday after the surgery (a full week), the dilation started. Several days later, dehiscence occured and I was advised to skip dilatations for two days. From the beginning till now, I manage to get in 7-8 cm in with a dilator. I've tried many different types - soft (as the surgeon recommended for the first months), semi-hard, and fully rigid. He said that I can expect maximum 9 cm depth, given the initial penis size of 14 cm erected, and a lot of scrotal skin, which is strange for about 6 years post-orchiectomy.
By now, I gained almost full sensitivity - just a few patches of skin are still numb but getting better. I am still not able to orgasm even though it feels kind of close to it with indirect clit stimulation. At some points I felt close with a dildo as well but I cannot really get there. With both methods, I only get contractions and a bit of prostate fluid leaking but it doesn't really feel like an orgasm - rather like a cheap imitation thereof - much less intense and not really hitting culmination as I know it from before. I know it's kind of early to expect the big O but still...
I am very bothered by the aesthetics - a huge penis-like clit, unhooded, a lot of hanging skin which is supposed to be the outer labiae, the vaginal opening looks like a separate entity, not being part of the vulva, and it's overall very asymetric - the entire clitoral structure is rotated to the right and the rest of the tissue follows it. I thought it's a result of disporportional swelling since it was bigger on the left side right from the start but now, when it's mostly subsided, the asymetry is not really solved.
I don't care much about the depth as long as I am able somehow to stimulate the prostate (still cannot figure out exactly where and how deep this spot is) to achieve orgasm somewhere in the future but I am a lesbian (engaged). I assume that for girls with other orientations such a depth might be insufficient.
Peeing goes well, muscles work well, no incontinence, and no discomfort, if we ignore the catheter-induced UTI I got, for which I was prescribed antibiotics and it's long gone, hopefully for good.
Dr Veselý said that there might be a revision needed but honestly, I am reluctant to have one, especially with him, judging by the initial result. Another thing is that I really don't want to have another surgery in my life in general. A third thing is that I had a major crisis with my fiancée after I got the surgery (a long topic, I described
here) and she nearly broke up with me. I know that if I have another SRS-related surgery, she will most likely leave me and I cannot afford that. And even if in the future she adapts enough to change her mind, still I won't be able to afford a revision elsewhere since I've always been poor and I will remain such for numerous reasons I won't digress into.
So, the questions are:
Does it really look so bad as it seems to me?
How do I deal with it and live with the result as it is?