all i can say is, may, amanda, whatever ... i'm begging you, as another mother, to please get your baby out of there. i mean, if you don't want to break up with ralph, or, divorce, now, who the fuck cares? you know, just ... go back to your dad, take some time. make sure to tell him you're not coming back until he's successfully through rehab. and if you can put it back together with him then, you know, great. but, i'm just begging you that ... what you're doing to your daughter is so sad and tragic. and i know you probably don't think much of my mothering because i'm faith's mother, but, i didn't do this to her.