Off-Topic Troon sightings in the wild

[Makhno]

i made the mistake of talking nicely about vidya ONE TIME with this agp i met recently irl and now he’s completely imprinted on me. normally i just laugh at these troons i see around my neolib hellhole city, but i’m actually scared of this one because he’s like 6’5”. he keeps coming into my workplace and cornering me and rambling about how he and his “wife” (??? never seen her tbh but i bet she’s a long suffering shut-in who’s also terrified of his bpd ass) are poly and they go to raves and how he was poisoned by testosterone (not even kidding). i’m completely at a loss with how to handle it. i work for a small business so no HR. he is erratic with no social skills, so using my female socialization to cold-shoulder him til he gets the hint hasn’t worked. i can’t just get agro and tell him to fuck off because he is (vaguely- can’t and won’t elaborate) associated with my job. also i’ve literally never seen him wearing anything other than women’s leggings with his whole cock and balls just dangling. i seriously need help here, i haven’t really been active on KF lately but i came to post here because i don’t know where else to turn to. he keeps asking me where i get all my clothes and i’m afraid he’s going to start openly hitting on me soon or actually try to touch me or something.

this straight up sounds like a made up mumsnet wet nightmare but i swear it’s all true. i really need advice from kiwis for what to do lol

I mean I am not normally for false accusations and sneaky shit but troons are not human beings but demons wearing skin so here is the checklist I would walkthrough here:
step 0: get a audio recorder to document every interaction with this person
step 1: explain that you have a boyfriend and he is not comfortable with you interacting with people like him who are into polyamory and casual degenerate sex
step 2: if he comes back this time make sure to explain via stored digital communication or record yourself saying that you don't want to hear about degenerate sex stuff and that it grosses you out and makes you feel very uncomfortable
step 3: take vids/pics of the cock and balls in leggings being sure to save the ones where it is hardest, also begin to catalog the recordings of him talking about weird sex shit
step 4: if he still isn't leaving you alone you now need to go to a lawyer and explain the situation while also claiming he rubbed his cock in leggings against you
step 5: press criminal charges against troon and sue your employer if they take his side and claim emotional damages on top of wrongful termination
step 6: get restraining order and sue the troon directly if he interferes with your ability to earn income in any way or keeps emotionally disturbing you with stalker tier behavior
In a better world the townsfolk would have already turned him and his wife into decorations for the trees; I am sorry you have to deal with this.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

Tell him your spiritual director/guru/sensei told you to do X, Y, and Z every time he starts sperging, if you really can't flatly tell him to gtfo. My spiritual director told me I should abstain from meat every Friday and contemplate the wounds of Christ. My guru told me I need to renounce pleasures of the flesh, I'm going on a 40 day retreat where there a vegan xerophagy menu and we spend 14 hours per day meditating on futility. Fashion? Oh yeah I gave away all my fancy dresses to Dress for Success, my guru told me to. Know any good stores for buying beige knee length skirts in plain linen?

 

[Optavia Sales Rep]

@lady stoneheart If this creeper is using your job responsibilities as reason to keep you hostage, I would absolutely tell your boss/supervisor about what is happening. Try to take time and make a timeline of the inappropriate conversations to help collect your thoughts and prove you point.

If this guy comes in at a scheduled time for work, insist that your boss be there the next time. If there is a place were your boss can hear everything, but not be seen, even better.
Getting caught red-handed might be the fastest way to eject him from your work environment.

 

[glass_houses]

I just want to point out here that there are many bosses who will remorselessy feed their employees to monsters. It maybe because they're genuinely woke, are lazy or cowards, just don't understand the concept of sexual harassment, or are so terrified of the potential for harm to their business and reputation by being labeled an 'ist' or 'phobic' that they will cheerfully help dispose of your body once the monster is through with you.

I wouldn't be surprised if OP's boss already knows what's going on and is desperately trying to pretend that everything is fine by completely ignoring it. I don't envy your position right now, OP. I strongly recommend that you look into other places of employment.

 

[seri0us]

Tell him your spiritual director/guru/sensei told you to do X, Y, and Z every time he starts sperging, if you really can't flatly tell him to gtfo. My spiritual director told me I should abstain from meat every Friday and contemplate the wounds of Christ. My guru told me I need to renounce pleasures of the flesh, I'm going on a 40 day retreat where there a vegan xerophagy menu and we spend 14 hours per day meditating on futility. Fashion? Oh yeah I gave away all my fancy dresses to Dress for Success, my guru told me to. Know any good stores for buying beige knee length skirts in plain linen?

"My sensei told me that I should conceal carry a firearm, any recommendations?"

 

[Leftists=Pedophiles]

Give him one word replies to all his troony spergouts, "okay" and "oh wow" without any followups are good ones. Maybe act offended when he mentions being a druggie raver and lean into the "this person openly discussing their illegal behavior makes me very uncomfortable". And definitely start recording audio if it seems like he's escalating his behavior or if he has the potential to make a scene.

 

[SneedYstwyth]

Give him one word replies to all his troony spergouts, "okay" and "oh wow" without any followups are good ones.

Autists don't get subtlety. It's been said before in this thread but he'll just keep talking about his gay tranny shit even if you give him 1 word answers.

 

[Fapcop]

Autists don't get subtlety. It's been said before in this thread but he'll just keep talking about his gay tranny shit even if you give him 1 word answers.

Yup.

There is nothing as singleminded as a horny autist. That he’s a tranny only adds to his hyperfocus.

Regular person hearing ‘Oh’=“Aw shit, he/she isn’t interested! Better wrap this up before it gets embarrassing!

Horny autist hearing ‘Oh’=“Aw shit! She wants me to go on! I better hammer the same conversational points and I’ll be balls deep in her snatch soon!”

 

[Vingle]

Dunno why people need to overcomplicate this, but a "I'm sorry, but I'm not interested". If the troon won't go away, just call the cops. Without threatening the troon beforehand, as you fear for your life.

 

[SneedYstwyth]

Regular person hearing ‘Oh’=“Aw shit, he/she isn’t interested! Better wrap this up before it gets embarrassing!

Horny autist hearing ‘Oh’=“Aw shit! She wants me to go on! I better hammer the same conversational points and I’ll be balls deep in her snatch soon!”

As a person who's only dealt with "normal" autists (not troons), I can only imagine how irritating it is to deal with a malicious sexual deviant one.

They are incapable of taking hints, it's kind of like a superpower really. They're the ones embarrassing themselves yet you're the one feeling embarrassed to be there. Then add an AGP to the mix.

Dunno why people need to overcomplicate this, but a "I'm sorry, but I'm not interested". If the troon won't go away, just call the cops. Without threatening the troon beforehand, as you fear for your life.

The cops won't do shit.

 

[Cringe newfag]

Talk to your boss before doing anything else. Most normal people have no idea of what the current culture is. Your boss will probably treat it like they would anyone else being sexually harassing and creepy. They may not, but that's the most likely outcome.

 

[glass_houses]

Dunno why people need to overcomplicate this, but a "I'm sorry, but I'm not interested". If the troon won't go away, just call the cops. Without threatening the troon beforehand, as you fear for your life.

These guys genuinely don't understand the concept of "No." Not only are they socially retarded, they're usually narcissistic on top of that. The incel to troon pipeline is a thing. Saying 'go away' makes them try harder, or they flip their shit over you not being nice to them and/or 'leading them on'. When I first started working, I worked with a lot of older men, and a few times they complained to my boss that I wasn't polite or respectful of them. I was perfectly polite and respectful to the fuckers, I was just too busy for more than a "Hello, what do you need from me, goodbye" instead of patiently standing there and listen to them yak about random bullshit for twenty minutes. You old mongrel, I've twenty untested samples on my bench and more arriving every half hour, I do not have time to listen to you complain about your sore back and your new neighbours refusing to cut their fucking lawn as often as you want them too. Some men are convinced that women owe them their time and there is no force on earth that will convince them otherwise, and they will always react badly when told, "No." Add on top of that the inherent troon mental instability and sexual deviance, I'd be very worried about the troon's reaction from both a job safety and physical safety angle too.

 

[Vingle]

The cops won't do shit.

She can say her part and have pepper spray or something ready for when the troon attacks. I assume there are cameras in the shop, which will prove the troon was the aggressor and she just defending herself.

 

[Nonconsentual Pronouns]

She can say her part and have pepper spray or something ready for when the troon attacks. I assume there are cameras in the shop, which will prove the troon was the aggressor and she just defending herself.

I have no idea what world you're from, but it sounds like somewhere I would really like to move to.

 

[Makhno]

Autists don't get subtlety. It's been said before in this thread but he'll just keep talking about his gay tranny shit even if you give him 1 word answers.

This you cannot acknowledge these people even exist like a homeless crackhead looking for drug money on the street you just have to look straight through them like they are not even there or they will bother you until they get something from you.

 

[Stinkyboy]

Tell him he makes you uncomfortable and nervous.
Or that you find polyamory vile.
That’s his problem if he doesn’t hear no.
Go to your boss and tell them in no uncertain terms you’ll have to file an official workplace safety complaint if it continues.

Your safety is worth more than a job.

 

[Gimme the skinny]

If I don’t want people talking to me i give them the silent treatment and will literally shoo them away with your hand in go away motion. Like literally do that. Most people get the point. If not just in plain words tell them to leave you alone.

 

[NerdShamer]

Alternatively, she should just start looking for an new job. Of course, she might face the same issues, take an pay cut, whatever. But she'll be away from him for at least an week, potentially longer if she moves out of town.

 

[Disability Fat]

Tell him he makes you uncomfortable and nervous.
Or that you find polyamory vile.
That’s his problem if he doesn’t hear no.
Go to your boss and tell them in no uncertain terms you’ll have to file an official workplace safety complaint if it continues.

Your safety is worth more than a job.

I see polyamory with troons and genderspecials for the most part, but I exclusively see the term "polycule" with them. What is it with troons and poly bs?

 

[NerdShamer]

What is it with troons and poly bs?

Sex with minimal effort/commitment