Teacher, 31, admits having sex with her student, 16, after comforting him when his friend died in a car accident - but says she should be spared jail - And another one.



A teacher who admitted to having sex with her 16-year-old student in the backseat of her car as he grieved the loss of a friend should be spared jail because she's suffered 'public shame' and lost her job, her lawyer has argued.

Monique Ooms, 31, pleaded guilty to four counts of sexual penetration of a child under her supervision and care in Victoria's Latrobe Valley County Court on Wednesday.

The former teacher had made contact with the student after noticing he was more withdrawn, offering him her Instagram handle and later her phone number.

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The 16-year-old had been grieving the loss of a close friend who died in a fatal car crash the week before and was in a 'vulnerable situation emotionally'.

The pair began to exchange increasingly explicit messages online with the court hearing Ooms sent the teenager photos of herself in her underwear.

The 16-year-old began sneaking out to have sex with the former teacher in the backseat of her car and later in her home, the Herald Sun reported.

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The court heard the abuse occurred between July 1 and August 8 of last year and only stopped after Sale Secondary College received two anonymous letters.

The letters said the teacher-turned-bricklayer was having a sexual relationship with a student, with Ooms to be later stripped of her teaching registration.

The 31-year-old appears to have embraced her life as a tradie and has posted photos wearing an Akubra and posing in front of a 4WD to her social media pages.

Ooms formally taught a range of subjects to high school students and had only been at the college for a year before the inappropriate relationship began.

The messages revealed the pair repeatedly said they 'missed' and 'loved' one another, with Ooms claiming she fell in love with the student.

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When the 16-year-old was questioned he told police they were 'just friends' and called Ooms to give her a heads up to delete their correspondence.

The student declined being involved with court proceedings, however his mother read out an emotional witness impact statement in court.

She said she worried for her son's future and how her family was going to move past the inappropriate student-teacher relationship.

Ooms lawyer, Katherine Rolfe, said her client had no criminal history, was of previous good character and accepted the offending was serious.

She also had a complex diagnosis of post-traumatic stress disorder and borderline personality disorder which impaired her judgment, Ms Rolfe said.

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She said the former teacher had been involuntarily admitted to a psychiatric ward in recent months because of suicide attempts and ideation.

Ms Rolfe has advocated for a community-based order for Ooms, arguing the media attention and losing her teaching registration was punishment enough.

Prosecutor Andrew Moore said the crimes were serious as they involved a 'significant breach of trust' on a vulnerable child who had been in her care.

Judge John Smallwood ordered Ooms to undergo a community corrections order assessment ahead of her sentencing hearing on Friday.

The former teacher faces a maximum penalty of 10 years behind bars.
 
The letters said the teacher-turned-bricklayer
Was that supposed to be a joke?

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...yeah, that was supposed to be a joke.

She also had a complex diagnosis of post-traumatic stress disorder and borderline personality disorder which impaired her judgment, Ms Rolfe said.
She said the former teacher had been involuntarily admitted to a psychiatric ward in recent months because of suicide attempts and ideation.
Why was she allowed to hold a teaching license?

The former teacher faces a maximum penalty of 10 years behind bars.
She'll serve 10 seconds.

The law's the law., chomo.

Get fucked.
That's what got her arrested.
 
Another day, another woman trying to avoid the consequenses of her actions. I'd give her twice the necessary sentence just for that.

Inb4 coomers defend her actions just because she's somewhat attractive. Also,
She also had a complex diagnosis of post-traumatic stress disorder and borderline personality disorder which impaired her judgment, Ms Rolfe said.
Lmao.
 
The former teacher had made contact with the student after noticing he was more withdrawn, offering him her Instagram handle and later her phone number.
This immediately screams to me that she intended to groom him. Any moral teacher would have reached out to his parents, the school psychologist, or his other teachers for assistance with this grieving student. Instead, she privately messaged a minor that she knew was mentally weak at the time.

should be spared jail because she's suffered 'public shame' and lost her job
Ah, yes, because sexual predators are famously willing and able to act like proper members of society after being given a tut-tut and a speaking to.
 
This immediately screams to me that she intended to groom him. Any moral teacher would have reached out to his parents, the school psychologist, or his other teachers for assistance with this grieving student. Instead, she privately messaged a minor that she knew was mentally weak at the time.

Notice the Boy stayed quiet, and told the Teacher to delete the evidence. So who knows how much this is going on, when theres no anonymous tipster who discovers whats going on, and notifies the school.
 
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Pedos deserve rope.
While male pedos are always dangerous, I think female pedos are more dangerous with fucking up a kids mind and how much they can get away with it. They have more advantages, with being not being seen as a predator and the stereotype of females being nicer & motherly. It doesn't help that coomer retards celebrate a child getting raped by an adult woman and shame the kid for not enjoying it.
I hope that poor kid gets proper psychiatric help.

Edit: there are people defending this BPD pedo in this thread. Disgusting.
 
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Lol this wouldn't even be a question had it been a 31 year old man with a 16 year old girl.

Some coomers here will and have said "but the guy liked it! who cares lol" like that means something. Yeah when I was a 16 year old boy getting sex from any decent looking gal seemed like the dream, but as you get older you realize how disgusting such a power dynamic plays. Children can not think through the consequences of such actions clearly, and we already have cases of boys who aren't even adults yet being forced to pay child support to their rapists.

Stop giving women slaps on the wrist for breaking the law. If women are to be considered equal to males in our society they should receive equal consequences for their actions. Apparently such line of thinking is just so alien to some people.
 
Stop giving women slaps on the wrist for breaking the law. If women are to be considered equal to males in our society they should receive equal consequences for their actions. Apparently such line of thinking is just so alien to some people.

Sorry that's not how Humans work. Even when they are supposed to interpret the law.


In 2006 Ann Martin Stacey and Cassia Spohn found that women receive more lenient sentences than men after controlling for presumptive sentence, family responsibilities, offender characteristics, and other legally relevant variables, based on examination of three US district courts.[11]

In 2012 Sonja B. Starr from University of Michigan Law School found that, controlling for the crime, "men receive 63% longer sentences on average than women do," and "[w]omen are…twice as likely to avoid incarceration if convicted", also based on data from US federal court cases.[12][13]
 
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