Argue about women or something

[cybertoaster]

They always like to paint a picture of "miserable alone" like the 20 year old doesn't get cheated on or have a man fall out of love when she reaches 40 herself, or a person can't be happy being single

You must be really young or have no people older than 20 in your circle because the kind of misery of a single 40yo postmenopausal woman with no kids its abysmal. I'm talking existential dread here, the can't-go-back kind of realization because she is now officially old, that boat has sailed forever. I have a few colleagues like that and frankly I feel bad for them. The fact you're comparing that to a breakup in your 20s tells me how little you know about life.

Why are so many folks so allergic to even considering it?

Not allergic I really don't care about single and as a man I can always do a 180° because I don't go infertile with age, but my point is that just like someone with a spouse kids has to accept the tradeoffs so should those who want to remain alone. It just happens that according to every study being alone its worse on average. I also know a few boomer childless couples and they are not doing well either, they got nothing to help them but other frail aging friends, which is not to say some people have sons and daughters who are complete pieces of shit but again, numbers.

You want to cry propaganda about marriage being seen as bad why don't you try stop seeing singleness as bad?

Again I don't care but this is starting to sound like single forever cope, dial it down.

Sadly true

Glad we can agree on something.

 

[TheAntiCoomer]

What is a woman btw?

 

[redcent]

You must be really young or have no people older than 20 in your circle because the kind of misery of a single 40yo postmenopausal

40 is not post menopausal know your biology.

woman with no kids its abysmal. I'm talking existential dread here, the can't-go-back kind of realization because she is now officially old, that boat has sailed forever. I have a few colleagues like that and frankly I feel bad for them. The fact you're comparing that to a breakup in your 20s tells me how little you know about life.

As opposed to the colleagues I know who aren't living in misery

Perhaps it is you who knows little about life?

Not allergic I really don't care about single and as a man

Ah, no wonder you don't know womens biology lol

I can always do a 180° because I don't go infertile with age,

Yeah men do Link

And that's not factoring in what age group you are trying to have a relationship with without it being an ick factor. You think a young women would be thrilled with a, 40 year old hitting on them? Or a 50 year old? If you don't have shitloads of money it's best to stick to your age group

but my point is that just like someone with a spouse kids has to accept the tradeoffs so should those who want to remain alone.

True

It just happens that according to every study being alone its worse on average.

On average is average, not a universal truth. And it's not an excuse to be condescending.

I also know a few boomer childless couples and they are not doing well either, they got nothing to help them but other frail aging friends, which is not to say some people have sons and daughters who are complete pieces of shit but again, numbers.

Again I don't care but this is starting to sound like single forever cope, dial it down.

And what's stopping me from seeing everyone arguing otherwise as a cope?

 

[GunCar Gary]

me, waiting for women to protect themselves and their daughters against troon predators they spent years defending while their spaces were invaded

 

[cybertoaster]

40 is not post menopausal know your biology.



As opposed to the colleagues I know who aren't living in misery

Perhaps it is you who knows little about life?

Ah, no wonder you don't know womens biology lol


Yeah men do Link

And that's not factoring in what age group you are trying to have a relationship with without it being an ick factor. You think a young women would be thrilled with a, 40 year old hitting on them? Or a 50 year old? If you don't have shitloads of money it's best to stick to your age group


True

On average is average, not a universal truth. And it's not an excuse to be condescending.

And what's stopping me from seeing everyone arguing otherwise as a cope?

Not gonna bother with this anymore, you're clearly arguing in bad faith while at the same time coping on a free speech bird forum for whatever bad decisions led you to mentally overcompensate for your current situation to the point that you dare to compare anecdotical knowledge with actual peer-reviewed studies, or go for anomalous cases as if that was something other than rare.

I'm not coping for anything because I know the current situation its abysmal and not gonna be fixed anytime soon.

 

[870EVO]

ok thats a little different. This is a people problem more than anything. I have had the chance to see in my particular group what marriages work and what don't and it comes down to who was lying about their true self at the altar and who wasn't. This isn't a reason not to get married its a reason to take care and pay more attention to who you are with. Don't marry a stranger or a liar.

I think this all less a people problem, or men vs women problem. But a system problem. The system is treating Men and Women as identical. When we know socially, psychologically, biologically, that's not true. They're different. They generally have different interests, different personalities, different physical abilities.

 

[redcent]

Not gonna bother with this anymore, you're clearly arguing in bad faith while at the same time coping on a free speech bird forum for whatever bad decisions led you to mentally overcompensate for your current situation to the point that you dare to compare anecdotical knowledge with actual peer-reviewed studies, or go for anomalous cases as if that was something other than rare.

Graphs don't change what I've seen or heard. But by all means keep pretending its all a bad decision cope...

I'm not coping for anything because I know the current situation its abysmal and not gonna be fixed anytime soon.

And why is that... See below

I think this all less a people problem, or men vs women problem. But a system problem. The system is treating Men and Women as identical. When we know socially, psychologically, biologically, that's not true. They're different. They generally have different interests, different personalities, different physical abilities.

What, you think it's all women want romance or at least affection and all men just want to pop out a kids and fuck off?

If all this lack of getting married or whatever is so bad, maybe instead make it so who they're getting married to isn't an unromantic miserable ass who would rather argue online than be a pleasant character (even I know this is what my real problem is) to spend the rest of their lives with and won't ditch them once they get older

It's not media or society ir propaganda that's a hindrance to family, it's people doing nothing but making other miserable. And this is who someone is supposed to raise kids with?

 

[Zyklon Ben's Poison Pen]

It's not media or society ir propaganda that's a hindrance to family, it's people doing nothing but making other miserable.?

No its all of these. Marriage requires societal support.

 

[Fount of BadSpeak]

Women are equal parts evil and stupid, which is why every remotely self respecting society limited their animalistic behaviors. Retards call this "being mean" because they're too retarded to comprehend how society functions and why. This is also a great example of why universal suffrage is purely retarded. Just look at the instant chimpout at the mere thought that our equals would ever be held to the same standards as men and half to show basic moral behaviors like "gratitude" and "being useful" lmfao.

 

[redcent]

No its all of these. Marriage requires societal support.

Women are equal parts evil and stupid, which is why every remotely self respecting society limited their animalistic behaviors. Retards call this "being mean" because they're too retarded to comprehend how society functions and why. This is also a great example of why universal suffrage is purely retarded. Just look at the instant chimpout at the mere thought that our equals would ever be held to the same standards as men and half to show basic moral behaviors like "gratitude" and "being useful" lmfao.

Every boy who beats a girl, every creep who follows them home throwing out lewd remarks, every husband who cheats, every man who tries to control them, all it does is just drive women into feminism's loving arms as a safe escape.

Do you provide a safe escape yourself? Some men do, they get the romance. But do you? No, you just try to block it off. Real red flag there. No it just drives people further and further into a better escape because once again, all the boys manage to do us bash something, control something. It's not propaganda, it's not media, it's you. You, proving once again that men aren't an escape, they just control and bash and hurt. And for what? It isn't because you love x chick, no, you just love the image of marriage yourselves

Go to the alter then, and go marry yourselves then. Some of us are having a loving safe relationship with single hood. Until you stop trying bash things, go back to coping on your own

And yeah, there are evil women who hurt men. By all means, let the hurt men escape them too.

 

[870EVO]

If all this lack of getting married or whatever is so bad, maybe instead make it so who they're getting married to isn't an unromantic miserable ass who would rather argue online than be a pleasant character (even I know this is what my real problem is) to spend the rest of their lives with and won't ditch them once they get older

It's not media or society ir propaganda that's a hindrance to family, it's people doing nothing but making other miserable. And this is who someone is supposed to raise kids with?

I trust the graphs more than my personal experiences, since it just might be anecdotal. Young people getting into romantic relationships is dropping.




Now if people make others miserable, then them getting into fewer romantic entanglements should make them happier right? But the stats say otherwise.

 

[CowPox]

No pa, i don't reckon i have any hangups with women, not like these kiwifarmers seem to have, if you encounter a bird that makes you feel as though you have just donated a pint of plasma avoid that tart, and no matter what you do don't try to hang the frame of every female on the planet onto them.

 

[Zyklon Ben's Poison Pen]

Every boy who beats a girl, every creep who follows them home throwing out lewd remarks, every husband who cheats, every man who tries to control them, all it does is just drive women into feminism's loving arms as a safe escape.

Not only do women commit these and similar acts, what percentage of the population actually does this versus real people? You have been brainfucked by feminist propaganda.

 

[Ms. Bitters]

Not only do women commit these and similar acts, what percentage of the population actually does this versus real people? You have been brainfucked by feminist propaganda.

Why don't you go look up some crime statistics and tell me which sex is statistically most likely to commit violent crimes? Statistically, how many men kill women a year and vice-versa? I'll fucking wait.

I'm not saying that women are some blameless, noble race of super-humans by any fucking means, but it blows my mind that so many men act like their sex isn't the one that statistically commits the most violent, heinous crimes against eachother and against women. I love men, but that doesn't mean I and other women don't have good reason to be scared of you fuckers too.

 

[Zyklon Ben's Poison Pen]

Why don't you go look up some crime statistics and tell me which sex is statistically most likely to commit violent crimes? Statistically, how many men kill women a year and vice-versa? I'll fucking wait.

Oh yeh? Go look them up then remove the blacks from those statistics. And then the remaining 0.01% or murders murdering the other 0.01% is not 99.9% of the population. You are also brainfucked by feminists propaganda.

 

[870EVO]

I'm not saying that women are some blameless, noble race of super-humans by any fucking means, but it blows my mind that so many men act like their sex isn't the one that statistically commits the most violent, heinous crimes against eachother and against women. I love men, but that doesn't mean I and other women don't have good reason to be scared of you fuckers too.

You will walk by hundreds of Men, maybe thousands of Men, in a single day, that may give you a glance to check you out. And that's all they'll do. In many Western areas. you live in the safest time for Women in Human history.

I was out having a smoke at 2am one night and a drunken girl in a mini dress holding a bottle, stumbled down the footpath and up to me and asked for a smoke. She said it was her birthday, and her friends pissed her off so she left. She said she was going to walk to the next suburb about 10 miles away. I asked if she was going to be fine, and she said yeah, she does it all the time. And off she stumbled into the night. Still holding her drink.

That's how safe it is. Although. With the immigration from the 3rd world, that appears to be changing.

 

[redcent]

Not only do women commit these and similar acts,

They do indeed, I believe I mentioned that

what percentage of the population actually does this versus real people? You have been brainfucked by feminist propaganda.

No I got brain fucked by boys bashing me as a kid

Then I got brain fucked by weirdos on kiwi farms blathering about taking away voting rights, taking away the right to work, how marriage is so important despite them never showing a lick of affection towards anybody, about how the rights I have are suddenly conditional by not gushing thanks to people who never had anything to do with (and if they had the chance would deny) the rights that I am entitled to, without said guys ever showing a lick if gratitude towards anyone who gives them freedom themselves. I got brain fucked by seeing all these people online getting into the most disturbed degerate shit. I got brain fucked by incels in their thread being possesive creepy spiteful fucks

I got brain fucked by this damn site

Feminism didn't do anything, except provide me with an irl home getting away from these nutcases I see online

 

[Zyklon Ben's Poison Pen]

these nutcases I see online

Yeh I think I can diagnose your problem.

Also:

No I got brain fucked by boys bashing me as a kid

You aren't a kid anymore, its time to grow up and move on.

 

[Whoopsie Daisy]

Feminism is just another subject designed to divide people without an answer ever been found or agreed to.

Feminism, Race, Religion, Political views and taste in marmite are all ways to make us argue over differences, rather than agreeing on what we have in common.

 

[Ms. Bitters]

You will walk by hundreds of Men, maybe thousands of Men, in a single day, that may give you a glance to check you out. And that's all they'll do. In many Western areas. you live in the safest time for Women in Human history.

I was out having a smoke at 2am one night and a drunken girl in a mini dress holding a bottle, stumbled down the footpath and up to me and asked for a smoke. She said it was her birthday, and her friends pissed her off so she left. She said she was going to walk to the next suburb about 10 miles away. I asked if she was going to be fine, and she said yeah, she does it all the time. And off she stumbled into the night. Still holding her drink.

That's how safe it is. Although. With the immigration from the 3rd world, that appears to be changing.

So? This being the case doesn't magically mean that you or I are protected from the violence that men commit daily.

Incidentally, that means you shouldn't give one spit about the violence that women commit against men, because it obviously doesn't affect you anyway, amirite? Your point in the other post was fucking stupid in the first place. Men don't get to bleat on about the violence women commit against them if they're just going g to turn around and try to act like women aren't kidnapped, raped, beaten, stalked, and/or sold into sex slavery by men every fucking minute of every fucking day.

Yes, am aware that women do bad shit too but guess what? Nothing gets fixed if we keep pretending that shit isn't a fucking problem.