Carrying an entire conversation by yourself.
That's really bad but the one that's the most nerve-wracking is when someone else is FORCING the conversation to be one-sided by never shutting the fuck up. Said people tend to be the most boring, annoying people as well to boot.
I don't mind monologues or rants but if you want to talk to me
1)do not look at your fucking phone when I'm talking
2) don't interrupt me.
3)don't take forever to get to your point, especially when there is none you have.
4) don't talk about your day because I really don't want to hear about it most of the time
5) do not use something I said to say it reminds you of something that has literally nothing to do with what I said so you can talk about a boring event of no value in your life
You know what else grinds my gears?
Faggots worrying about an old movie/videogame/book being spoiled for them. It's not my fault you haven't taken the time to watch something ten years old. Most of the time it's not even a true spoiler, it's just a plot element within the first thirty minutes of said media.
It's even worse when the person it's a third person interjecting with "Oh shit, no SPOILERS" when the person I'm talking to doesn't care. I think the most autistic example of this sort of thing is when I have someone telling me about some obscure shitty horror movie or genre comic nobody has watched/read and earnestly actually stops to go "Well I don't want to spoil it for you."
Yes, please don't spoil a plot twist from a 20 year old cartoon that's literally the last thing on my watchlist, if at all. I don't know how I'll get through the day.
I used to do that, but ever since the covid lockdowns customer service has become absolute dogshit. It gave everyone a handy list of excuses for why nothing ever gets done. I went to a dealership that had my car in their garage (repairs done) for almost a month before anyone fucking bothered to call me, and that was after I called in to schedule an appointment and when I drove up to drop off the car, I found out no one bothered to record the appointment in their system. I can understand being busy, but being busy would also imply you would want to get fixed cars out of your limited space. I won't name the exact dealership, but it was a major American brand dealership. I'm so fucking done with American cars and everyone who services them.
That's literally happened to me before to the point I just didn't come back for the car and didn't pay them anything because it was a junker that wasn't worth the price and time anyways.
I think the biggest problem isn't even from the customers but the entire culture of retail in general.
There's usually 3 decent employees (if that) slaving away the work for the entire crew, who also treats them like shit. There's always "something said" to the employees causing issues but you know that nothing will ever actually happen to them, ever.
Meanwhile if one of the only okay employees makes a slight fuckup, they're dropped from the company without a moments' notice. The heads/managers of these companies will then complain that nobody wants to do honest work with a straight face.
This is why I don't blame some people for deciding to become government-financed niggers and suck on Biden's tit for as long as they can. It might seem lazy and unethical, but you get tired of trying to actually be the decent worker when there is no fucking incentive to be one.
I don't know if this is a thing worldwide but it seems like the modern day standards in America for how the working class can succeed is 1)be the most lazy, uncaring toxic sack of shit possible 2) get promoted for being such.
They got used to doing buttfuck nothing for well over an entire year and have zero interest in going back to the already half-assed norm. Hearing absolutely anyone complain about how overworked medical staff were during the coof makes my blood boil, because I know for a fact and have seen with my own two eyes that not only is it a lie, the truth is the exact opposite.
If you had anything, anything at all that needed to be seen to by a doctor that wasn't the coof or some kind of big emergency like a broken bone or needing several stitches, fuck you. And if it was the coof, fuck you, stay home and isolate, don't come into the medical facilities.
Imo the most self-evident examples I've seen were with mental health. I've seen so many actual sociopaths in the field that made me want to go Punisher on their ass.
Everything from a head doctor telling a suicidal girl it was her fault she was raped and the staff trying to prohibit her from talking to other people institutionalized about her experience, to people being abused and bullied in the ER, to staff using vhs tapes from the 80s as examples for coping mechanisms. Either nobody gives a shit or there's active, extreme malice.
Seeing this shit and recognizing that that behavior is probably the norm makes me doubt any feint semblance of faith in the human race I would have otherwise.