Disappointing photos show what it's really like to backpack across Europe - in which a journo cunt finds out that Instagram is in fact NOT an accurate representation of reality

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Insider's reporter expected an Instagram-like backpacking adventure in Europe (L), but the reality was much less glamorous (R).
  • I recently spent two weeks backpacking through Europe for the first time.
  • I found that it wasn't the glamorous, romantic adventure that it often looks like on Instagram.
  • While backpacking, I was disappointed by overnight train rides and crowds of tourists in each city.

In 2022, I tried backpacking for the first time.​

With a passion for fashion, traveling with just a backpack never appealed to me before 2022. There were always too many things I wanted to pack.
But since I began traveling more last year as a travel reporter for Insider, I realized I needed to lighten my load to make it easier to hit the road for longer periods of time.
I made a minimalist travel style a priority in August 2022, when I spent a week backpacking for the first time through Eastern Canada. It turned out to be a lot easier — and more efficient — than I'd originally thought.
So when I planned a two-week train trip through four European countries two months later, I decided to push myself to fit everything I needed into my backpack again.

Unfortunately, I found that backpacking through Europe wasn't as romantic or glamorous as it often seems through photos on my Instagram feed.​

Over the course of two weeks, I backpacked across Germany, Austria, Italy, and Switzerland while exploring the cities of Berlin, Vienna, Venice, Rome, Milan, and Zürich. It was my first time visiting each country and backpacking in Europe.

As part of my travels, I slept in shared train cabins and budget Airbnbs, and initially, felt like I was living the life of young adults on a gap year, or post-college students on a big adventure.

But I quickly realized it wasn't as glamorous as I expected it to be based on stories I'd heard from other people, or more commonly, pictures I saw on social media.

On Instagram, I've often seen epic photos of an empty nature scene save for the backpackers with a caption about life being an adventure.

But after backpacking Europe myself, I found that the travel style was full of hardships I rarely see posts about.

First, I found that my biggest backpack couldn't squeeze in all the clothes I wanted to bring.​

I picked the largest bag I own — a 32-liter backpack — for my trip to Europe.

I wasn't sure how well this bag would work for a two-week trip, so I practiced packing as lightly as possible to ensure I could fit everything.

I started with my work gear, which included a laptop, cameras, lenses, and a notebook. Then I packed chargers, toiletries, and snacks before realizing my work gear and other essentials were taking priority over clothes.

I was hoping to bring two packing cubes full of clothing, but I could only fit one in my bag. This cut my proposed wardrobe in half. I ended up only having room for two polos, one t-shirt, one long-sleeve t-shirt, three pairs of pants, a sweater, a blazer, a dress, and two light jackets.

Although I impressed myself by packing lighter than I ever had while still having everything I needed for the longest trip I'd ever taken, I couldn't help but feel disappointed in my limited outfit choices.

Because I could only bring a few garments, I had to do laundry at nearly every accommodation.​

I've never seen a backpacking social media post about doing laundry, but I found myself washing my clothes at nearly every Airbnb I stayed in.

I stayed in each accommodation for just one or two nights, so to ensure my clothes would be dry before checking out, I had to prioritize doing laundry as soon as I checked in.

I brought my own laundry soap and used sinks and bathtubs to wash each garment before hanging them up to dry.

This was a bummer since I often arrived at each accommodation feeling exhausted from travel, and washing my clothes was the last thing I felt like doing.

Coming home to tiny Airbnbs with wet clothes everywhere stressed me out after a day of exploring.​

From a converted wine barrel outside of Zürich to an Airstream trailer in Vienna, most of my Airbnbs were tiny homes with less than 100 square feet in size. So even a little bit of clutter made them look messy to me.

I also thought having my clothes hanging to dry made the spaces feel even more chaotic.

Each time I returned to my accommodations, I was greeted with a disheveled space that made me feel stressed out. Since I work hard to keep my apartment looking spotless at home, I wasn't used to living in a cluttered space. I found it hard to relax in these rooms after tiring days of exploring.

I thought a sleeper train would be a smart way to arrive in new cities and maximize my time, but these shared cabins felt cramped and uncomfortable.​

I booked two overnight trains during my trip. I thought this would be the best way to travel through Europe so I could explore more during the day.

But the small, uncomfortable spaces I had to travel in for long periods of time made it hard to sleep.

To get from Vienna to Venice, I booked a bunk in a shared cabin on an overnight train run by Nightjet, a rail line that operates overnight routes between Austria, Italy, France, and the Netherlands, according to the company's website.

Since I booked a shared room with up to five other people, I expected to feel a little cramped, but I anticipated being able to move around the room freely.

However, I found that the 74-square-foot cabin didn't feel like enough space for myself and the other travelers, especially with everyone's luggage. Our cabin only had four people in it, and I thought it would have been even more uncomfortable had it been fully booked with six people.

There was space for bags above the beds, but not enough for everyone. I couldn't do much more than sit and lay in my bunk, and quickly became disappointed by my choice to travel in this way.

I was also surprised by the lack of privacy inside the shared bunk cabin on the train.​

Before my trip, I imagined that each bunk in the shared cabin on the sleeper train would have a curtain for privacy. However, the beds were completely exposed, so I had to go to the bathroom to change into my pajamas privately.

I also had to wake up another traveler using the top bunk in the middle of the night to use the bathroom since the room's lock was only accessible from their bunk.

After this experience, I don't think I'll ever bunk with strangers on an overnight train again, especially since some Nightjet routes have private cabins, according to the company's website.

"Offering our passengers a high level of travel comfort is an important concern for us," a representative for ÖBB Nightjet told Insider. "We are constantly working on improvements to our product and also take into account the requirements of our customers."

But I thought my experience was even worse on the other overnight train I took where I booked a regular seat and didn't sleep at all.​

On my other overnight train from Berlin to Vienna, I had an even harder time sleeping. I sat in a seating carriage room with six seats facing each other, which is Nightjet's version of standard coach seating.

During my leg of the journey, three travelers were already there when I boarded, and two others arrived within the first few hours. Right away, I thought the room was cramped and lacked enough legroom for each traveler.

The seat appeared slightly wider than a typical train coach seat, with two cushions, and reclined far enough to almost lay flat, but not fully. I reclined mine all the way, but I thought the gap between the seat back and the bottom of the seat made it tough to get comfortable.

When I tried to sleep, I found it impossible with the constant bumps on the ride and so many people around. I ended up staying up until the morning and regretted traveling overnight.

"The quality of travel depends not only on the carriages, but also on the route," OBB Nightjet wrote in a statement to Insider. "We recommend the sleeper or couchette car for night travel. There is enough space to stretch out. Seated carriages are recommended for shorter journeys."

While some influencers might like this type of travel, next time, I'll stick to daytime routes if I can't sleep flat on a bed in a private room.

I often arrived in each country feeling exhausted from lack of sleep, which made it harder to enjoy my time in each place​

Because I had so much trouble sleeping on both overnight train rides, I often arrived into a new city feeling tired and depleted instead of excited and ready to start exploring.

When I got to Vienna at 7 a.m. after a sleepless night in the seating carriage, I was so exhausted that I looked for any hotel that would take me in so early in the morning. I thought this made the overnight ride ultimately not worth the time saved since I didn't do anything when I arrived other than sleep.
And when I got off the train in Venice, while I had enough energy to explore since I got some sleep in the bunk, I still felt fatigued, and it took away from how much I was able to enjoy that first day.

As a result, my first day in both cities felt disappointing, and that my plan to save time and energy backfired. I couldn't help but think I wasted two days that could have been spent feeling more appreciative of the city surrounding me, had I gotten enough rest.

In fact, a lot of my trip was more physically draining than I anticipated because carrying my backpack each day made my body sore.​

On travel days, I had to carry my backpack for long periods of time. I wore it on the go to catch my train, and then when I arrived into a new city, I had to keep it on my back until I was able to check into my accommodation. And then I'd repeat the entire process when I checked out before catching a train to my next destination.

I've certainly never seen any Instagram posts about these bags being comfortable. Each day, after wearing my backpack while walking for extended periods, all of my muscles felt incredibly sore.

In these moments, I was surprised to find myself questioning if a backpack really is more convenient than a carry-on suitcase. Sure, a carry-on suitcase is larger and often needs to be wheeled around, but after lugging around my backpack all day, I felt like it could be easier to roll a suitcase around, and it would have been better for my body. Plus, I'd be able to pack more.

Large crowds made having a backpack even harder. I thought traveling in October — the end of shoulder season — would help me avoid this, but I was wrong.​

In most photos of backpackers I see on Instagram, it looks like they're completely alone in a dramatic scene, whether it's a scenic landscape or a major tourist attraction.

But I found that even during the shoulder season, which is when I was in Europe, this was never the case. From Rome to Zurich, I trudged through places that were overrun with tourists.

Throughout my trip, I stood on tippy toes to see popular historic sites above rows of heads obscuring my view. I found that even getting just one photo of myself at tourist hot spots, like the Colosseum in Rome, felt nearly impossible. And since I'm 5'3, I found it hard to see these sights over the heads and smartphones of the people around me.

I also wasn't used to the weight and size of my backpack, which made it challenging to get around. In crowded spaces, I kept forgetting that the backpack made me about a third larger than I typically am. In busy streets and train stations, I found myself bumping into people with my pack before realizing that I needed to reconsider how I was taking up space.
Next time I plan a trip to Europe, I'll visit in the off season for fewer crowds.

While it wasn't a picture-perfect adventure, backpacking through Europe made me realize that you can't plan out every second, and maybe that's a good thing.​

While there were a handful of hardships, I found that backing in Europe was full of good surprises, too.

For example, I initially thought seeing so many new places in a short time would make them blend together in my mind, but each city felt genuinely unique and left me with distinct memories. And without my backpack, I probably wouldn't have been able to travel to as many places in one trip.

I'll never forget how alive Berlin felt with its lush pockets of greenery, dramatic murals, and street performers, or how Vienna's garden mazes and fairytale architecture made me feel like royalty — even with a turtle shell on my back.

Ultimately, I thought the good surprises outweighed the bad, so I would definitely backpack in Europe again. But next time, I'll avoid shared accommodations, overnight rides, and the busy season.

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As I read thru this I was waiting for the joke to get to the point or for the epic dismount but it never came.

Why are people like this? Did she expect to travel thru europe in the lap of luxury like the great orient express of old?
I suppose there are actually people that think every train in europe is like the hogwarts express...

Also, visting Zürich, Berlin, Vienna and a couple of VERY popular italian tourist spots and complaining about there being crowds is like a europoor coming to NYC and complainig why there are so many people in Central Park and Times Square....
 
What a whiny girl. What was she expecting? As a student I backpacked through south East Asia and various bits of Europe, briefly America and the pacific and it was great, but you do rough it. That’s part of the fun.
A 32l rucksack is tiny, daft girl. You take as little as you can manage with, and a washing line and just clean things as you go. If your body hurts carrying a 32l pack then you’re a wimp. I walked trails for weeks carrying everything I needed.
She’s travelling in relative luxury as well - hostels and trains. I used local buses, and camped a lot.
The world was a bit safer maybe back then. My uncle hiked parts of the silk route as a young man, throigh Afghanistan, Karakoram, Lei, all that sort of stuff. There was a well trodden route from Europe through that way. It’s all a series of wars zones now but he had a great time.
No mobile phones with cameras back then either.
I’d love to do a better road trip through the states now I can afford nicer places to stay. Never saw enough when I was there.
 
Why are people so easily duped by photos?

I'd think by now you'd know that photos that glamorize something are not a reflection of reality.

This classic scene applies to every shiny and glamorous thing you see some influencer trying to sell you on:


Alternately, the cake is a lie.
 
I don't think most Americans realize how absolutely swamped with tourists most of the major European cites are. I watched some live streams of people in Rome, Venice, Paris, Athens, etc. and quickly lost any interest in ever traveling to those places due to the sheer size of the human waves. Venice in particular looked particularly miserable. Just wall to wall tourists.

I've never tried backpacking any continent, but if you were to do Europe, wouldn't you book a place to stay outside the touristy city, and then travel there to do your site seeing the next day? It just seems cheaper and more relaxing that way.
Tbh there are plenty of interesting things to see and do outside of tourist trap capitals. You can stay in some village and have enough things around it to not be bored for entire week.
Problem is :
A) You will need to do some reaserch and planning , before the trip which imo is not big deal in the era of internet.
B) These places are less foreign tourist friendly so you will need to know atleast, basics of local language.
But upside is you will have unique experience. And you will have breathing space.
 
To most non-Europeans, spending two weeks traveling through the continent--even with some minor inconveniences--would be a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. I realize this was a writing assignment so she didn't have much choice in the matter, but a normal person would come back after two weeks, laugh about how they need a vacation from their vacation, and remember the good parts of the trip for the rest of their life (which would probably be spent working in a field, factory, or Wal-Mart until they drop dead). Even the bad parts of the trip could make for good stories, if related with a good sense of humor or appreciation of the absurd. I guess I'm saying she comes off as a spoiled bitch.
 
Tbh there are plenty of interesting things to see and do outside of tourist trap capitals. You can stay in some village and have enough things around it to not be bored for entire week.
That's the problem of people who wants to travel to [continent]. Thailand and Japan aren't the same. Chile and Panama aren't the same. Spain and Finland aren't the same. Why do people want to travel to Europe, specifically and what they expect to see? Because if I want to see what's the country side of Spain, I'm not going to Madrid. And if I wanted to watch bullfighting, I'm not going to Romania. If they want to see the city life of Europe, I'm sure there are certain similarities between most cities all over the world, but they aren't the same either.

Niggas wanna see beauty but think America has none of it. Shit, any of these niggas see the grand canyon? I remember seeing that shit and going, "AHHHH Shit, that's a big fucking beautiful hole!" which is I guess the same statement and face that white women get when they see Lizzo on TV.
Lizzo isn't a hole, she's the thing you use if you want to fill the Canyon.
 
To most non-Europeans, spending two weeks traveling through the continent--even with some minor inconveniences--would be a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. I realize this was a writing assignment so she didn't have much choice in the matter, but a normal person would come back after two weeks, laugh about how they need a vacation from their vacation, and remember the good parts of the trip for the rest of their life (which would probably be spent working in a field, factory, or Wal-Mart until they drop dead). Even the bad parts of the trip could make for good stories, if related with a good sense of humor or appreciation of the absurd. I guess I'm saying she comes off as a spoiled bitch.

she's an educated American

if you're an educated american and your life is working in a field factory or big box retail that's on you
 
I ended up only having room for two polos, one t-shirt, one long-sleeve t-shirt, three pairs of pants, a sweater, a blazer, a dress, and two light jackets.
Did she bring along underwear?

I can't get over how weird she sounds. Why would you need two light jackets and a blazer?

Depending on when and where you go, you might consider taking one of those rain jackets that can be rolled up into one of its own pockets. I've got one myself, and it packs quite nicely. For all her braggadocio about 'backpacking', I seriously doubt she was doing anything tougher than walking in an urban environment. How much inclement weather was she facing anyways?
 
i did a lot of riding around america in the back of an econoline squished between a drumset and fullstacks when i was younger, sleeping on couches or dirty floors, doing lot lizard showers. Now that i'm middle aged I'm more than content watching some schlub travel on youtube from the comfort of my recliner. No wonder Anthony Bourdain killed himself.
 
Did she bring along underwear?

I can't get over how weird she sounds. Why would you need two light jackets and a blazer?

Depending on when and where you go, you might consider taking one of those rain jackets that can be rolled up into one of its own pockets. I've got one myself, and it packs quite nicely. For all her braggadocio about 'backpacking', I seriously doubt she was doing anything tougher than walking in an urban environment. How much inclement weather was she facing anyways?
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Her problem is that she's using a small bag. The "expectation" bag is what my kids wear to school, come on. What she has is big, but not big enough for the things she wants.

What she wanted to do needed this:
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She had this:
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Here in Lima, I've seen a lot of backpackers, they carry stuff that looks like they're climbing the Everest and plan staying there for a month.
 
Niggas wanna see beauty but think America has none of it. Shit, any of these niggas see the grand canyon?
You don't understand, that's muh stolen native land that's been poisoned by Capitalism and CO2 emissions and stroads! I need to go to Holy Amsterdam where everything is car free and there's no racism or transphobia and run by windmills! I can get the most heccin perfect shots for the 'Gram!

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I hope a muslim immigrant hits her on the head with a brick and goes camping in her vagina
 
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I'm planning a backpacking trip later this year, but the difference from her is I'm staying in one country, Staying in each city for 2 or 3 days, taking train rides that only last 2 or 3 hours and staying in hostels with the knowledge there will be little privacy. I don't expect it to be romantic and I've been walking different trails with my gear to see how it feels. I also know people who have lived and live in the country I'm visiting and getting their feedback on where to go and what to do. It really seems that she just decided to go one day without any prep or research.
 
TLDR: I have a mild touch of the 'tism, you can skip the wall of text.

There's an old adage involving planning and piss (and a few other P's), that applies to so many things in life, especially travel. You just know this person had zero contingency plans in place if there were unexpected problems along the way. I know nothing about travel in the EU, but at the bare minimum, I would have researched alternative methods of travel in the event of an Act of God or terrorist attack had shut down the train lines she was traveling on. That's just the first thing that came to mind out of about 100 things I would have jotted down in a small passport size notebook (that would stay inside of a hidden, zippered pants pocket with my passport) with points of contact, price estimates, and ranked by most to least favorable. She probably had her passport in her backpack the whole time waiting to be pilfered or stolen. It's not very difficult for someone in a very crowded area to cut your backpack open with a sharp blade and be pilfering through it while you're none the wiser, that goes doubly when you're already making yourself a mark by stumbling around being an oblivious asshole with zero situational awareness who is already bumping into people because you never used your gear. There's just so much wrong with how these people function. I don't see how they can survive day to day life, much less international travel without some terrible misfortune befalling them. If I wasn't in decent shape already, I would have upped my cardio and weight training in preparation for having to lug around a pack and walking/running long distances while loaded down with the pack, and that's just for being in an urban environment. I would hate to actually sit down and plan for "backpacking" through Europe in the manner this dolt did. I fear for the future since these are the types that are only a few years away from running the show.
 
I've never been to Italy (but would like to visit eventually).

From what I understand, if you want to go to a city that's a lot like Venice but one that isn't overrun by other tourists, go to Trieste instead.


Trieste doesn't have the same amount of canals as Venice but it has similar architecture and, unlike Venice, it has hills due to it being in the tiny little bit of Italy that's on the east side of the Adriatic Sea, bordering Croatia Slovenia. I grew up in Montreal so I have an affinity for cities with some degree of elevation changes.

EDIT: Sorry, "Balkan", not "Baltic". I know the difference and I still sometimes get them confused.

EDIT AGAIN: Oh, wait, I mean, the Adriatic Sea. There isn't really a Balkan Sea, despite the east shore of the Adriatic being the west coast of the Balkan peninsula.
 
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Only an idiot travels through europe by train

Travelling by train can be lovely or even the most convenient way to travel between cities that are only a few hours apart (i.e. London and Paris without having to worry about travelling to and from airports) but I think her bad experience on the train between Vienna and Venice was kind of a "you get what you pay for" deal, where she paid for a cheap, overnight ticket without spending a little extra on a private room.
 
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