Inactive Jake Rapp / Jacob Dean Johnson / KingOfCucks - Survivor of Feminism

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No, Alison is a very warm and friendly person "out in the wild" and with friends. Typically BPD only rears it's head to those very close to the person/behind closed doors.

But that doesn't make sense to me. If BPD can be described as "being a bitch/asshole for literally no reason whatsoever", and it only conveniently rears its head to those close to them, or behind closed doors, doesn't that mean that she's just a bitch to you all the time? What's the appeal of that? I get that there are guys that are into that kind of thing, but come on, now.
 
An easy way to dismiss another human being for doing things you deem to be mock-worthy
Yes but all true.

And worthy of ridicule- you are like a parody.

We are not equals- you are a whore. So is your 'wife'. You two were in business while working at a toy company.

You took her name.

That is such a clusterfuck of retardation it's hilarious. Are your parents proud?
 
It should be said, that as far as what I'm seeing, you're handling this thread very well. I honestly think that, were it not for Alison, this thread probably wouldn't even exist.

I should also say though - the question to me isn't whether or not you can be trusted to pull the cord if things get too fucked up, it's if you're going to be able to recover from the inevitable crumbling of your other relationships if that happens. People with BPD are known to be manipulative, and it can be assured that if you pull the plug on your relationship with her, she's going to turn the other people you care about against you. Are you going to be able to handle that if it happens?
 
What's wrong with that?

It goes against all tradition. Traditionally, the woman was always the one that brought the family honour by shedding their name and taking on her husband's - as that meant the family would receive a handsome dowry. A man shedding his name to take on his wife's is basically forfeiture of everything he is worth, as well as what the marriage is worth. He is essentially no longer what people would consider a man if he didn't retain his surname.

In a culture where the man takes the name its a bit like going out in a dress and stockings. Which you could probably pay him to do.

...Aren't you from a culture where it's acceptable for men to go out in a dress and stockings?
 
So I should've just been grateful Nintendo threw us a bone for the rest of my life at the expense of never being able to lead a weird life?
Yes, cucknuts.

I live in Los Alamos. Almost everyone I know either works -- or is an immediate family member of said workers -- at the lab that built the first atom bomb. That includes me.

Despite our largesse coming from the M.I.C., we have incredible cultural and philosophical diversity among our numbers. LANL has among its ranks everyone from Trotskyists to Randroids to Fundie Christians, and every one of them is subject to the same comically retarded government policies. They're randomly drug tested; they're subject to polygraphs; every five years all of their personal information is intimately transcribed on chips bearing security even Ashley Madison would laugh at; those at the highest levels of government understand nothing about their work, and the likely next Commandress-in-Chief openly flaunts how she pisses on the rules that would get every working man and woman in the nation with a security clearance a life sentence in ADX.

No one likes it. But it's how the bills are paid. Those at LANL, Oakridge, and all other comparable places in this country could always seek other lines of work. But when you've got a job -- and this goes back to the dawn of time -- you have obligations to the terms of your employers for as long as you're under their employ.

Your empty-headed harpy landed a fantastic gig with a useless degree, and all she had to do was stick to the terms of her employment until she either had enough money to retire or landed an even better gig. Her colossal stupidity and egotism bringing this to a hault isn't unfair; it's how the world should be.
 
Well, if it works.
What would you say has been the biggest challenge you've faced in all this?

Biggest challenge with polyamory for me? Probably what I've been discussing - just the mindshift from monogamy culture to more of a non-hierarchical approach. It was a tough climb, but I really enjoy where I'm at now. It made me realize that prior I actually was what Kiwis are concerned about - not really in charge of my own life/wholly devoted to someone else and making sure they are ok. Now I care a lot more about myself.

What's wrong with that?

A kiwi sticking up for me? gggguuuuuiiiizzzzzzz
 
Yes, cucknuts.

I live in Los Alamos. Almost everyone I know either works -- or is an immediate family member of said workers -- at the lab that built the first atom bomb. That includes me.

Despite our largesse coming from the M.I.C., we have incredible cultural and philosophical diversity among our numbers. LANL has among its ranks everyone from Trotskyists to Randroids to Fundie Christians, and every one of them is subject to the same comically retarded government policies. They're randomly drug tested; they're subject to polygraphs; every five years all of their personal information is intimately transcribed on chips bearing security even Ashley Madison would laugh at; those at the highest levels of government understand nothing about their work, and the likely next Commandress-in-Chief openly flaunts how she pisses on the rules that would get every working man and woman in the nation with a security clearance a life sentence in ADX.

No one likes it. But it's how the bills are paid. Those at LANL, Oakridge, and all other comparable places in this country could always seek other lines of work. But when you've got a job -- and this goes back to the dawn of time -- you have obligations to the terms of your employers for as long as you're under their employ.

Your empty-headed harpy landed a fantastic gig with a useless degree, and all she had to do was stick to the terms of her employment until she either had enough money to retire or landed an even better gig. Her colossal stupidity and egotism bringing this to a hault isn't unfair; it's how the world should be.

I guess that's fine if that's what you want. My bills being paid isn't worth that to me, truly. To each their own.
 
Hey Jake, I got a question for you.
Imagine both Ali's and Fran's best friends* die in tragic accidents tomorrow. Both women need you in their time of grief, but because of time constraints you can only comfort one of them. Who do you choose?
*Best friend other than you
 
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iggest challenge with polyamory for me? Probably what I've been discussing - just the mindshift from monogamy culture to more of a non-hierarchical approach. It was a tough climb, but I really enjoy where I'm at now. It made me realize that prior I actually was what Kiwis are concerned about - not really in charge of my own life/wholly devoted to someone else and making sure they are ok. Now I care a lot more about myself.

Sounds like a lot of made up mental gymnastics just to accept that you're being cucked.

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Hey Jake, I got a question for you.
Imagine both Ali's and Fran's best friends* die in tragic accidents tomorrow. Both women need you in their time of grief, but because of time constraints you can only comfort one of them. Who do you choose?
*Best friend other than you

My boss used to ask me shit like this all the time, haha. WHAT IF.

Real answer to this crazy scenario: we'd probably all get together and I'd take care of them both simultaneously. If not, I'd split the day or something.

Concept is, we all knew "what we signed up for" so dealing with this situation means owning the choice we all made to be poly.
 
Biggest challenge with polyamory for me? Probably what I've been discussing - just the mindshift from monogamy culture to more of a non-hierarchical approach. It was a tough climb, but I really enjoy where I'm at now. It made me realize that prior I actually was what Kiwis are concerned about - not really in charge of my own life/wholly devoted to someone else and making sure they are ok. Now I care a lot more about myself.
That's an interesting way of looking at the situation.
What has been the biggest fight you've ever had?
 
I guess the thing that perplexes us is the sheer amount of toxicity we see allison exhibiting as well as the negative treatment that she does for you Jake, but now we just want to find out why you put you self through that instead of settling for someone else who isn't so vitriolic.

I could give two shits about your views on CP at the moment. That's allisons business.
 
Biggest challenge with polyamory for me? Probably what I've been discussing - just the mindshift from monogamy culture to more of a non-hierarchical approach. It was a tough climb, but I really enjoy where I'm at now. It made me realize that prior I actually was what Kiwis are concerned about - not really in charge of my own life/wholly devoted to someone else and making sure they are ok. Now I care a lot more about myself.



A kiwi sticking up for me? gggguuuuuiiiizzzzzzz

Well Jake, most of this thread (at least the last time I was in it) was us feeling kinda bad for you and wishing you were happier. Granted, probably not in a way quite to your taste.

Does Alison know you're posting on the Farms? She knows about us and makes it very clear she doesn't like it. Have you talked about us with her?
 
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