Ian's last message for me to "no, kys", was just who he was at that time.
Was it mean, cruel, distasteful and morally questionable? Yes.
Do you remember what he built his career on? Calling people niggers, faggots, mocking cancer, mentally retarded people, Asians, everything.
Are you really holding Ian as he is now, a SJW-cuck, to the edgy, no restriction, full offensive Idubbbz?
Ian telling someone to kill themselves would yeah, for sure, be fucking gross and weird now.
But back in 2015 that was his entire dialogue. That's how he spoke. To everybody.
So, was it appropriate, fair, kind, or right? No.
Was any of his behaviour at that time, appropriate, fair, kind, or right?
Not really.
Was he rude in telling me to fuck off in that way? Yes.
Was he being malicious? No.