Amanda knew how awful it was. She knew Ralph was manipulating, controlling, abusing physical and mentally a retarded teenage girl fresh out of high school. In fact she was involved with the abuse and manipulating. She competed for the position and pushed out the mentally retarded teenager to take the mantle of dumb whore. She got pregnant by a man she knew abandoned his first born son and provided zero support for. She knew 1000000% what she signed up for, she deserves zero compassion and she doesn't need to answer anything, we already know she's retarded.