Discuss porn's impact of relationships, men, and the difference between jacking it to online porn compared to jacking it to a magazine

[Mothra1988]

Wow, this thread got autistic fast.

 

[Bloitzhole]

Those in romantic relationships don't need to display their snatch for viewership because their stable partner is already well-acquainted with her intimate parts.

Idk man, I don't mind seeing my partner's parts when I'm in a committed relationship - it's not really one of those things that gets old quick in my experience, idk if that's different for you.

I know a couple of guys who shave their pubes and they're always itchy and complaining about ingrown hairs. They only shave to look "more attractive" to women, so I think the influence of porn has affected both genders. Everyone wants to look like a porn-star. The brain-rot has become that normalised. That's just depressing to me.

Googling "male porn star" mostly gives me men who look attractive, buff and clean (and not always hairless). I wish we lived in a world where everyone was actively trying to look like that.

 

[Omen_Sulk]

Wow, this thread got autistic fast.

 

[AMERICA]

I once met a fellow who was attracted to cats--furry cat people--more than he was attracted to normal human women to a point that it was hurting his dating life. I think about that guy sometimes when the porn discussion comes up. He's the exception and not the rule in that he's a weirdo fetishist, but it's undeniable that if porn wasn't so ubiquitous and accessible at a young age then guys like him with strange sexual fixations like that would be far less common.

 

[scallion]

Wow, this thread got autistic fast.

Did you honestly expect our users to have functional and coherent opinions on sex and relationships?

 

[JamusActimus]

Most women don't care that much about hair on males unless you look like this.

Trim it a bit, then shave the balls once in a while if they get sucked but that's it.

The rest is gay.

And shave your balls if you're gonna use a baldo.

 

[Spunt]

I once met a fellow who was attracted to cats--furry cat people--more than he was attracted to normal human women to a point that it was hurting his dating life. I think about that guy sometimes when the porn discussion comes up. He's the exception and not the rule in that he's a weirdo fetishist, but it's undeniable that if porn wasn't so ubiquitous and accessible at a young age then guys like him with strange sexual fixations like that would be far less common.

Noted Lolcow Lou Gagliardi has been so warped by weird furry porn, possibly from a very young age, that he isn't attracted to human beings at all. He sometimes describes himself as "asexual" despite his hand being near-permanently around his pecker, because he isn't into girls, or guys. He has shared some of the "art" that he's into, and most of it is so utterly bizarre that it's no longer really recognisable as porn. It's just Lovecraftian masses of flesh, with dicks, tits and holes in places where they make no sense. 6-armed, 8-titted cat things with tits in their crotch are not uncommon, and one notable piece (you're lucky that search is only going back to 2021 so I can't show it to you) was so strange that my brain could not resolve it as an image of a living thing. I couldn't even be repulsed by it, it just seemed to be abstract colours and shapes. Something that might be a dick here, a boob there, muscles there. The "jizz" was bright purple and the dick it was coming from was so malformed it didn't look like a dick, more like a cross between a pitcher plant and a neon-coloured power station cooling tower. The colours were nonsensical. Once you get to the stage that you're able to get off to such an image, you have left even the greatest extremes of human sexuality far behind.

It's not a bad thing, necessarily. Lou's never going to molest anyone, because he won't be attracted to them, and he'll never breed. So it's a problem that sort of takes care of itself in the long run.

Edit: found it. It's less brightly-coloured than I remember. This thing is supposed to be a PANDA.

Spoiler: LOVECRAFTIAN CONTENT

 

[Diamond Homonculus]

All the women are horrified becasue men expect them to be clean shaven, and do all this stuff and for them, maybe they’ve only been with one person before, it’s horrific.

This is a complete cope fantasy of the female mind. With the amount of men out there who are single there is no way this is anything but a lie to pad the egos of your female friends.

This reminds me of that one Katt Williams joke about a man stopping intercourse because the womans toe and fingernail polish didn't match"bitch is that plum and red?". Women project their physical insecurities onto men when you could have a milk mustache and a unibrow and most men would not care.

Your recently divorced friends are getting rejected for the first time in 10-20 years you don't think that this has any possibility of being part of it?

 

[BirdUp]

the crotch is a breeding ground for bacteria

and leaving your snatch unshaven will let lice and germs and shit live, but you’re arguing against shaving? not too bright

Adult women having hairless groins isn't normal or natural; it's a symptom of how porn-sick western society has become that men think it's normal and natural.

Adult women wearing pants isn't normal or natural; it's a symptom of how pants-sick western society has become that men think it's normal and natural.

 

[rrtyui]

But exposure to the really bad stuff at an early age really fucks up people's development, and I think a lot of stuff, including hardcore misogyny, misandry, and the whole incel thing, have a lot to do with people getting utterly distorted ideas, at least partly because of porn.

This. More so in the online era than ever. Back in the day it was "I wonder what a pussy looks like" and you'd pick up a mag or something and then throw it away after a couple minutes. Now it's "What the hell is inflation? Hentai? What is this stuff?" and within 2 minutes a lifelong gooner is born. The thing with dating is that person A needs to offer something more entertaining and gratifying than whatever problem/goal/hobby the person B is pre-occupied with. You'd be hard pressed to find anyone who's more interesting than scrolling on TikTok or watching porn all day is. Without incentive to moderate those vices, people go sterile and defunct. Incelism/Femcelism is a rightful, although misdirected anger at this modern problem. Women are not the problem, overstimulation is the problem. For both sexes.

 

[Omen_Sulk]

This is a complete cope fantasy of the female mind. With the amount of men out there who are single there is no way this is anything but a lie to pad the egos of your female friends.

This reminds me of that one Katt Williams joke about a man stopping intercourse because the womans toe and fingernail polish didn't match"bitch is that plum and red?". Women project their physical insecurities onto men when you could have a milk mustache and a unibrow and most men would not care.

Your recently divorced friends are getting rejected for the first time in 10-20 years you don't think that this has any possibility of being part of it?

My impression was the beauty standards were typically about trying to compete with other Women.

 

[Diamond Homonculus]

My impression was the beauty standards were typically about trying to compete with other Women.

Even just trends they will blame on men with zero evidence like no man ever asked for a vajazzled pussy and yet vajazzled pussies exist. Somehow a trend created by a women and shared to women still managed to garner a bunch of articles about how it objectifying it was.

 

[Omen_Sulk]

Even just trends they will blame on men with zero evidence like no man ever asked for a vajazzled pussy and yet vajazzled pussies exist. Somehow a trend created by a women and shared to women still managed to garner a bunch of articles about how it objectifying it was.

When I was with one of my ex's I had to talk her out of getting breast implants.

 

[blablabla]

all blacked porn should be outlawed and every person involved in it should be killed. thank you and god bless

 

[Diamond Homonculus]

When I was with one of my ex's I had to talk her out of getting breast implants.

Oh yeah I had an ex that wanted to get microblading done, I know now it's basically just tattooing but it sounds like a medieval torture or something. She was way too pretty to need it anyway.

In case your wondering I wasn't running around the house going "bitch look at your thin eyebrows. Do something about that." She obviously got the dumb idea from her friends.

 

[Omen_Sulk]

Oh yeah I had an ex that wanted to get microblading done, I know now it's basically just tattooing but it sounds like a medieval torture or something. She was way too pretty to need it anyway.

In case your wondering I wasn't running around the house going "bitch look at your thin eyebrows. Do something about that." She obviously got the dumb idea from her friends.

Yeah for all the times Women like to complain Men and porn. It seems that porn seems to also affect Women perception of what looks "right" in the bedroom. I've talked to young Women who told me it probably wasn't a good idea they looked at porn when they were young, being impressionable at that age.

Not to say I haven't heard stories like the Wife that told me her Husband always wanted her to wear full makeup when it was time to do stuff in the bedroom.

 

[AgendaPoster]

I thought this was about porn, not shaving your body hair lmao.
I don't shave mine, I just use a trimmer. Tried it both ways, all naturelle and trimmed, and I have to say, if you're into sports, trimmed feels way more hygienic. Last thing you want when you perform a 3p jump shot is to smack your opponent with your axial hair sweat over the face, nobody wants to see that forest my negro.
As for porn, here's how it goes.
The honest position is that everyone knows people masturbate, sadly sometimes quite excessively.
But if you are in a society where masturbation and cooming become things relevant enough to discuss, that society is rather sickly.
There are some things that you should apply a TMI sticker for RL too, y'know? Before sharing weird shit, always remember, nobody wants to know about your kinks and fantasies, and the web is not the place to talk about them, and 99% RL is also not the place. Use those inhibitory functions of your neocortex my nibba, we evolved that for a very good reason.

 

[Otis Mallebrok]

Pornography commodifies relationships, desensitizes us to each other, and normalizes depravity. It is little different than any other quest for immediate gratification, in that it causes addiction if overconsumed, and like other drugs it requires stronger and stronger doses to produce a high. And this escalatory nature is readily supplied by soulless algorithms, who program the junkie coomer to ever more repugnant degeneracy.

And this is only when you consider the consumer-side of porn. The unthinkable levels abuse, dehumanization and loss of dignity in its production could probably fill another thread of sperging.

Pornography is evil, and must by exorcised from any decent society.

 

[JoseRaulChupacabra]

Even just trends they will blame on men with zero evidence like no man ever asked for a vajazzled pussy and yet vajazzled pussies exist. Somehow a trend created by a women and shared to women still managed to garner a bunch of articles about how it objectifying it was.

I remember the time when unrealistic beauty standards discussion was around thinness and how it was buck breaking some women into eating disorders. Of course every other man I've talked to said that what women are shooting for is generally too thin for our taste. But we still get all the blame.

When I was with one of my ex's I had to talk her out of getting breast implants.

Breast implants were always a thing, but it seems in the not too distant past, when men's magazines were still in business, they were used judiciously, and some women didn't even have them. Now it's really weird how every single e-thot (especially the zoomer chicks) I see dancing around in a bikini in her Tiktok/FB reels is now troon levels of plastic that it's so obvious and uncanny at times.

And a lot of them have lips and faces that are obviously stuffed like turkeys, but not quite bogged (yet). They may have perfect parameters - big lips, big cheeks, big boobs, big ass, wide hips, and tapered waist, but it all looks so plastic that some of them are legitimately off putting.

The one thot without implants because her girls were naturally large was getting bombarded with saggy comments even though her rack was pretty much on par with what a natural D+ one would look. But I guess that's what happens when every other woman dancing around in her negligee has barely any shape changes that you would expect from a fatty organ.

Do zoomer guys like plastic?

 

[Calandrino]

Young men need to get off their computers, put down their cell phones, go outside and masturbate to women in real life