Do I need to link the statistics of how men rate women vs how women rate men? Because we know for a fact this is objectively false. View attachment 5195114
Unless you can provide a valid reason for why you think between 2009 and 2023 men collectively decided women are now ugly the data is perfectly valid and your comment is pure cope.
It's disappointing to see how many coomers and degenerate-enablers are on this site.
PS: but it's also good they are daring enough to make themselves visible, it's good to have statistical data on deviancy and its allies.
This is one of the few things were you can instantly tell the gender of the poster, women talking about this stuff are almost always projecting their insecurities and thought process onto men, thinking that because they reject 80% of men and harshly judge other women, 80% of men must also reject them back and also judge women the same way they do.
It literally cannot be overstated how little of a shit men give about all the things women think they're being judged for.
A poster going "Actually men reject women because of their makeup" is a bigger giveaway than "hello fellow racists shall we commit hatecrimes today".
A little bit of porn isn't bad. It's certainly better than spending all your money on a woman who is primarily attracted to things like power and earning potential, which if those change so do her feelings for the man. The reality of love and romance is a lot uglier than the cultural tales we tell ourselves. I used to roll my eyes at MGTOW but as I got more experienced dating women I really started to see where redpill came from and I don't understand the appeal of dating broken, damaged, and spoiled American women anymore. Hell, they're all become so alike and so dumb that all I've even spoken to in the past decade literally all brought up casting magic spells (Wicca shit), and they weren't the same kind of women. I'd say a small bit of porn is a lot healthier than having that bullshit in your life.
It's disappointing to see how many coomers and degenerate-enablers are on this site.
PS: but it's also goo they are daring enough to make themselves visible, it's good to have statistical data on deviancy and its allies.
Hell, they're all become so alike and so dumb that all I've even spoken to in the past decade literally all brought up casting magic spells (Wicca shit), and they weren't the same kind of women.
It's disappointing to see how many coomers and degenerate-enablers are on this site.
PS: but it's also good they are daring enough to make themselves visible, it's good to have statistical data on deviancy and its allies.
Discuss porn's impact of relationships, men, and the difference between jacking it to online porn compared to jacking it to a magazine
What about jacking it to our imagination?
Jacking it to porn can be fun. Don't get too carried away with it though. For what should be obvious reasons.
Jacking it to magazines is also kind of sad, but sometimes it fills a hole. No pun intended. As long as you realise this is what it's about.
Jacking it to your imagination, well, you can go hog wild here. Porn, magazines, don't compare.
Then again, I've got a pretty vivid imagination.
I'm probably the most perverted motherfucker you would ever wish to know. Doesn't matter how sick you are, I can take it a level higher, or two. But there's a time for that. For playing in the garden. And all most of that stuff does anyway is fill the void for the yearning for true romance. Because as a male, if you yearn for true romance, your prospects are going to be pretty fucking bleak.
I don't need sick shit. Though sometimes it helps. Most the time it just fills the void in absentia of the greatest, most finest things in life: a woman's smell, her lightness of touch, her deeper vulnerability, her absolute commitment to you as a 'partner'...
I've said too much.
Porn is just a stopgap. Even those that whack it 6 times a day know that. You might go down that road for a while, but you will come back to reality. Porn has already distorted the reality and viewpoint of most people that have watched it. What is seen can not be unseen.
Seeing as this was an honest question towards men, I'll just say: most men know most women aren't like that. Those of us that have been lucky enough to have a lot of girlfriends know some universal truths - most women don't like anal. Very very few do. Then again, you get the odd one...
Most women aren't confident, sexually. Truly not. Those that are borderline tend to pretend they are not, but when they get carried away, their darker, sexier side comes out. But these are not a majority.
Most women want to feel wanted and that you as the man are present in the moment with HER!
But it's possible to detach, to watch porn together, to use each other's bodies as no more than glorified fleshlights. But that stuff kind of has to be agreed upon before hand. Then anything goes. It's possible to delve in to some very wonderful worlds of escape when you have true communication and communion with a woman. Then your worst perversion is only another blade of grass on an otherwise beautifully green lawn, for you both to roll around on. Then again, no matter your sickest shit, she might surprise you and usurp you on that one!
Porn and those that watch it are usually all about the detachment. The beautiful moments that can occur between consenting adults are much more about the communion, the connection.
And while most men and women choose not to connect, well, this is what you get: porn.
Porn is sad. I should know. I've delved deep in to that world. It was never enough for me. It was never hard enough, kinky enough...
It was certainly never fulfilling enough. That's a common complaint. And that is why it is likened to a drug: always wanting more.
I don't think porn should be vilified too much. Yeah it's not good, it's not wholesome. The people that indulge in it as players are often broken or will be after they partake. The people that facilitate it are more than broken, often verging on evil. I get all that.
But the act of two people fucking, or even 3 or 4 people fucking, is not an inherently evil act in itself.
I'm fascinated by the concept of porn. More than like porn itself, which I find, on the whole, pretty tame, and that's even for the sick shit. By the 'sick shit' I don't mean anything illegal, I just mean the more extreme stuff. It does very little for me. Porn, as an industry is endlessly more fascinating to me. And boy does it have some twists and turns. There are some good threads here on KF about it. I like them, and read them quite often. I've also got quite deep with my own research, but haven't shared.
I don't have a girlfriend at the moment. But when I want one, I can spend a bit of effort and get one later on, with a bit of luck.
I don't have a problem objectifying women. And it seems to me a lot of women don't have a problem being objectified, or even objectifying men, themselves. But whatever porn I have consumed hasn't affected me too badly, as I still have a very soft spot and deep affection for those of the opposite sex. We can play in the garden if we want, but it's not necessary.
I was in the doctor's surgery the other day and got a bit of attention from the receptionist who was 10 years younger than me. I let her in to my world a little bit, and she let me in to hers, a little bit as well. Such displays of vulnerability, I find very touching. I noticed she had just had her nails done, full on treatment. Quite often, you would think this was the action of a self-centered individual. But no. The nails were at odds to the personality. This was a woman trying to feel good about herself. Taking care of herself. I did not remark upon them for obvious reasons. But again, it was just another odd marker of how complex women can be, and any time you think you know them, as a man, they will confound you. Don't be intimidated or nonplussed by this, fellow men, let go in to the deeper darker mystery that is 'woman'. They really are the most beautiful thing this whole Universe has created. More tempestuous than a waterfall, More pure than a Blue Sky, Sweeter than the nectar that the Honey Bee drinks, More rare than a Solar Eclipse.
M'lady...
It was extremely flattering for me. Our exchange was not even 'flirting'. She wasn't the most stunning looking female to ever walk the face of the earth. But then I understood why men choose certain women. Why they will kill to protect certain women.
My foolish heart filled with love. I swooned. I might have even had a little tear in my eye...
And all that extreme BDSM fetish porn suddenly counted for nothing. It was the furthest thing from my mind. And if miracles do exist, and I somehow got in to a relationship with her, I doubt I would be offering to tie her up or spit on her.
I don't really watch that type of porn anyway, I prefer 'erotic' stuff. I like porn where both people are in to the act. And obviously more than enjoying it. It is shameful, I know. I am ashamed to admit it.
Not sure when I'll get a girlfriend again. But I don't feel tainted or damaged by my experiences. They were just to fill a hole in my soul. And they did a job, as such.
Then again, I understand how some people might not be able to compartmentalize things as such. I can see how they might get confused, especially at a younger age.
There is no substitute for love. A tender touch. A beautiful smell. Acts of consideration, carried out.
We have an amazing capacity for love, but yet, for whatever reason, as men, and as women, we don't do this as much as we could.
We should do it more. Ditch the porn. Love one another like your life depended on it.
Love is the best!
We have an unlimited capacity for love. We should use it more.
She had B cups but they were like literally perfect looking ones you'd see in a nude artwork. Plus she was a super pear shape. Put her in a slipdress and she was turning heads. I was like you gonna risk fucking up your body permanently in major surgery to get rid of those boobs? I mean I have sympathy for Women genetically cursed with deflated windsock boobs. But the amount of Women I see throwing away the good shit they already have just floors me.
It's like a guy saying "I need surgery because my dick is too big, girls are noticing."
She had B cups but they were like literally perfect looking ones you'd see in a nude artwork. Plus she was a super pear shape. Put her in a slipdress and she was turning heads. I was like you gonna risk fucking up your body permanently in major surgery to get rid of those boobs? I mean I have sympathy for Women genetically cursed with deflated windsock boobs. But the amount of Women I see throwing away the good shit they already have just floors me.
It's like a guy saying "I need surgery because my dick is too big, girls are noticing."