I know this is a Mass Debates thread and there's no "winning"a conversation here, but the murders thing is kind of legalistic: If you consider non-medically-necessary abortions murder (and many do), women vastly outdo men in the murder category provided the victim cannot physically retaliate. Subtract the 8,000 from the extrapolated estimate of abortion due to ectopic or otherwise medically hazardous pregnancy and rape, and you have 879,000 abortions in the US in 2019. Take the 26,000 murders and assign 83% of them to men and you have a split of 17098 male-perpetrated murders in the US for 49% of the population and 882,502 female-perpetrated ones for 51% of the population. Abortion essentially inverses the murder statistic and then some, having 51% of the population (women) commit 98% of the murders.
>But the doctors that perform the procedure
Let's not forget the political system has actively tried to make it illegal for doctors not to be an accomplice to a woman's decision to kill her child.
Anyway that's not relevant to anything and especially not OP's lamenting where have all the tradwives gone, it's just something neat to point out when people teamsports the atrocities of men. Women as a demographic kill more per year than men do per decade outside of literal war, and some of those guys that killed someone probably have a better reason than some of the women that got abortions. Food for thought. Or rather, food for the next incendiary comment thread you join in on or something.