Big thanks to the kiwisisters of this thread for posting their honest opinions. Very thunk-provoking. I think anonymous forums like this are a perfect place to have these sorts of discussions because you're safe from the whims of our moid rage. No woman IRL would give men this kind of untempered feedback because of the very real threat of violence if we are criticized this harshly to our face.
Now that I've had a chance to reflect and look at modern society a little more objectively, I've come to the conclusion that modern society has leveled the playing field between the sexes to a large degree, since the state has a monopoly on sanctioned violence.
Much of our history has been dominated by competition between men because men are biologically more disposable. Men have been under an evolutionary pressure for generations to be strong and violent. Women have been under evolutionary pressure to be submissive and compliant. When the men are done fighting their tribal war and the survivors roll up on your village, the game of violence that the men of your village just died playing isn't exactly a winning strategy for survival. If the strongest of your village just lost, you have exactly zero hope for victory. This means that women had to learn how to manipulate others into doing what they want as an innovative survival mechanism. While men were focused on only becoming faster and stronger, women were quietly building their emotional intelligence.
Due to the exponential progress of technology, our species has found itself in a modern industrial society in an evolutionary instant. The system (if you'd like to know more about the system, read the works of Dr. Theodore Kaczynski) has a monopoly on violence. This means that anyone who wants something needs to learn how to manipulate the system to meet their needs, rather than violently bashing their head against it because that only results in imprisonment or an early grave. This means that women, with an emotional intelligence that they've been building for generations, are simply better equipped to navigate the pitfalls of modern society.
This leads me to my theory of where the modern impotent moid rage comes from: a deep-seated frustration that they can't just shoot, stab, or intimidate their way into getting what they want anymore. All the men I know IRL that are most into the MGTOW, incel, and MRA communities have undergone a particularly nasty divorce. Divorce (which the system takes great pains to ensure is equitable) has become a major sore-spot for moids because it requires a high level of emotional intelligence to navigate. Every MGTOW, incel, and MRA channel I know of constantly whinges about how biased and unfair divorce is to men. The thought has never occurred to them that the discrepancy in outcomes might be a skill issue. I am beginning to think that the men who get raked over the coals in divorce and become MGTOW/MRA afterwards simply got outplayed in a competition between who has the highest emotional intelligence and can manipulate the system most optimally to get their desired result.
As an extension of this theory, maybe the discrepancy in prison sentences between the genders in general is more a result of women's greater emotional intelligence. A woman is simply much less likely to chimp out in court like a moid would. Since women take the court more seriously, it's reasonable to conclude that they could achieve their desired outcomes more often.