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Is there a male counterpart to the pickme?
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Why are most modern memes reducible to virgin vs Chad?The type of pick-me I was as a teenager. Minus Tumblr and fandoms
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Meh, women are cultists by their very nature.The worst type of pick mes i had to deal with are the religious fanatic who would constantly shame other women for not being submissive enough and trad for men's liking they hate to see you young free and happy away from their pro men cult
SoyboysIs there a male counterpart to the pickme?
I think so. Probably somewhere in the overlap between a pure narcissistic "nice guy" and nerdy shut-in with an overly large ego.Is there a male counterpart to the pickme?
But what about those guys that try to base their life around doing anything and being everything that "girls like", dressing like what someone told them girls want, getting a haircut that girls want, acting like what they think girls like, to the point where their actual personality is buried underneath a character? Or is that just most males generally?I think so. Probably somewhere in the overlap between a pure narcissistic "nice guy" and nerdy shut-in with an overly large ego.
I mean any sane person will do a little bit of that, but not so much to encompass the entire personality. But women are generally good at sniffing out fakes.But what about those guys that try to base their life around doing anything and being everything that "girls like", dressing like what someone told them girls want, getting a haircut that girls want, acting like what they think girls like, to the point where their actual personality is buried underneath a character? Or is that just most males generally?
MTFsIs there a male counterpart to the pickme?
But you are competing with other women. And deep down you know this obviously, so perhaps a better question would be, why do you tell yourself it ain't so? Is it fear of failure?You’re not getting the point of this thread at all. I still have nearly the same interests/preferences, I just don’t see a reason to compete with other women over it.
I’m married. There’s literally no reason for the competition like I felt in my younger years.But you are competing with other women. And deep down you know this obviously, so perhaps a better question would be, why do you tell yourself it ain't so? Is it fear of failure?
This reminds me of the retard argument that factory farmed animals actually have things great, because they reproduce a ton. puzzle piece/10 lolPick-mes are nice and successfully reproduce and at the end of they day this is what counts.
So you are lying to yourself (and us here) that you are not a pick-me, when in fact this exact partnership strategy did work out for you.I’m married. There’s literally no reason for the competition like I felt in my younger years.
False equivalency, factory farm animals are not human. foid-tier argument/-1.This reminds me of the retard argument that factory farmed animals actually have things great, because they reproduce a ton. puzzle piece/10 lol
I think it’s easier for autistic women in particular to fall for it. But they tend to have a harder time understanding group dynamics no matter if it’s men or women. As such, they’ll get bullied for being different, and use “pick-me” as a way to feel better. I don’t think the “pick-me” is always out of malice, sometimes it’s just from poor socialization.I feel like "pick me" culture is just girls who are autistic and don't understand the feminine hierarchy. They see that everyone treats them differently and they don't understand.
The only difference between you and A&N is that BP doesn't rant about "da joos"