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This is Artemis Langford: UW’s first transgender sorority sister speaks
After making history as the first openly transgender woman to join a Wyoming sorority, Langford watched as right-wing media misrepresented her. Now, she’s telling her story.Artemis Langford asked God for an answer.
At the time, she was 14 and living in Lander with her family. They had settled there after moving around the Mountain West, making stops in Montana and Utah. Along the way, Langford was diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder, and for a while that felt like an explanation. All her life, something inside her hadn’t felt right. She struggled making and keeping friends, and she felt discomfort in her body.
“Something wasn’t computing,” Langford said. “Everything internal was not matching what was external.”
Unable to communicate this feeling to others, Langford looked to God. Having grown up in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, turning to prayer was second nature.
“Please, tell me who I am,” Langford recalls praying. “Am I really transgender?”
Langford was assigned male at birth. As she grew into a teenager, that gender identity felt increasingly at odds with who she was. But she feared the cost of being herself and worried about rejection from her family and her community. Each day she prayed.
Finally, on a Monday morning in March 2016, Langford got her answer.
She had spent the night before kneeling over her twin bed in the dark, whispering so no one else in the house would hear.
“Just settle the issue once and for all,” she prayed.
Exhausted and scared, she eventually dozed off, hands still clasped. When she woke early the next morning, there was a powerful silence.
The creaky house stood still. There was no bird song, no whoosh of passing cars, no howling wind. Her mind had quieted. She felt at peace.
Langford had her answer.
“It’s OK to be trans,” she recalls thinking. “This is who I am.”
Here and now
Langford is 21 years old now. Her junior year at the University of Wyoming starts next week. She’s Episcopalian and a rising member of the Wyoming Democratic Party. She fancies herself a train buff and enjoys playing board games and kayaking. She’s tall with black hair. She squints her dark eyes when she smiles or laughs, and when she speaks she’s thoughtful about her words.The last year of her life has been anything but peaceful. After making history last fall as the first openly transgender woman to join a sorority at UW, Langford has been at the center of a right-wing media frenzy. She’s been misgendered, scrutinized via feminine beauty standards and depicted as a sexual predator masquerading as a young woman in order to gain access to the sorority. (Langford does not live at the sorority house, nor will she during the upcoming academic year.)
Some of her Kappa Kappa Gamma sisters have defended her. Others filed a lawsuit in late March, asking a judge to void her membership in the private organization on the premise that she doesn’t fit their definition of a woman. The six plaintiffs, who originally set out to be anonymous in the suit, accuse Langford of “inappropriate and threatening behavior,” such as watching other women and asking personal questions. The plaintiffs also take aim at Langford for being gay, stating that her attraction to women makes her “more threatening.”
Langford denies the allegations of inappropriate behavior.
“The lawsuit against Artemis is horrible, false, and causing harm to Artemis and other trans people,” Rachel Berkness, her attorney, said in a statement to WyoFile. “The personal attacks are reminiscent of every attack against queer and trans people throughout history. One sorority sister even admitted that the worst allegation against Artemis didn’t actually happen, but they’ve never corrected that misstatement before the Court.”
Since news of Langford joining KKG broke last fall, she’s usually avoided speaking to the press. But in that silence, rumors and speculation festered. People with little or no connection speculated about her story, her motivations, her behavior. She became an idea, built from fear and uncertainty and even hatred, distinct from the actual person.
Now, after almost a year of others speaking for and about her, Langford chose to share her story with WyoFile.
This is Artemis Langford.
National spotlight
The lawsuit against Langford and her sorority has drawn the attention of some of the biggest names in conservative media. In May, the plaintiffs and their lead attorney, Cassie Craven, appeared on Fox News’ The Ingraham Angle as well as The Megyn Kelly Show.“You can put lipstick on a pig, that doesn’t make it a lady,” Craven told Kelly, to the laughter of her clients flanking her. Earlier in the program, photos and videos of Langford splashed across the screen while her height, weight and genitals became fodder for discussion.
Caitlyn Jenner — who was widely considered the most famous transgender woman in the world when she came out in 2015 — also appeared on Fox News in May to call Langford “a perverted, sexually deviant male” to an audience of millions.
To some extent, Langford knew what she was getting into by joining a sorority. Back when she first accepted herself as a girl, she understood her very existence would be controversial to some.
“There will always be people that are going to be upset with anything that I do and anywhere I go,” she said.
She knew her decision to join a sorority would elicit maybe one ugly news story. And initially she had tried to get ahead of it.
“There does come a price tag to being a first, and it comes with people in our current political situation that are detractors that do not want that,” Langford told the Branding Iron, UW’s student paper, last October. At the time, she was on the staff. It was her second year on campus, and she was living openly as a trans woman.
“But to those detractors I say that I understand where you’re coming from, but at the end of the day, I wish that they would see me as who I am.
“I am Artemis Langford. I’m from Lander, Wyoming. I went to high school here. I love this state. I love this campus and community. And I just hope that they’d see me as the person I am and not the ideology that they perceive me as.”
The story broke the news of Langford’s historic induction when it published on Oct. 12. It flew under the radar for a few days. Then Cowboy State Daily — a news outlet that has subsequently faced allegations of transphobia and right-wing bias — reached out to Langford for comment.
She declined in light of KKG’s media policy that forbids members from speaking to the press without going through an approval process — something she’d done to speak to the student paper.
Cowboy State Daily published its first of many stories about Langford on Oct. 17, the day before her birthday. Using a photo taken from her Facebook page and quotes from the Branding Iron story, the article made note of Langford being assigned male at birth, but using language now out of line with current journalistic practice.
It also referenced “multiple community members” who allegedly contacted the outlet with concerns about “living situations and facilities usage in the sorority house.”
“These people declined to be identified or comment publicly out of fear for social repercussions,” the report stated. (The Associated Press’ guidelines, long considered the journalistic standard in the U.S., advises material from anonymous sources may be used only if it is information and not opinion or speculation.)
The floodgates opened.
In a matter of hours, Washington Examiner and The Post Millennial published stories about Langford. The National Review ran a story by that Friday in which an unnamed sorority sister of Langford’s was quoted.
Before the month was over, Newsmax aired a segment about Langford.
The national spotlight eclipsed Langford’s wildest expectations of what was to come. Overnight, her everyday life as a small-town college student — from walking across UW’s campus to sitting in class — transformed.
“What if someone comes up to me?” Langford remembers thinking. “Or what if someone tries to harm me?”
Research shows that transgender people are over four times more likely than cisgender people to be victims of violent crime.
By December, when things had quieted down, the news cycle reignited. Todd Schmidt, a Laramie church leader, placed a banner in UW’s student union on Dec. 2, naming and intentionally misgendering Langford. The sign was removed, and Schmidt eventually had some of his union privileges revoked, but the incident effectively stirred the pot. Conservative lawmakers and the secretary of state weighed in, backing Schmidt.
Once again, Langford found herself in the middle of a news cycle, all while trying to prepare for finals week.
She got the impression that most UW students were either indifferent to the state of affairs or were simply trying to get through the last couple weeks of the semester. From the LGBTQ community on campus, Langford felt solidarity and her larger support network came through to support her, too. Still, there were other moments that made her feel uneasy.
“There’s just the quiet hostility of trying to make you feel like you don’t belong by staring at you, by the whispers or the glares and all that,” Langford said. It brought her back to being bullied as a kid in elementary school.
“It’s like the silent treatment,” she said, “but worse.”
Coming out
It was one thing for Langford to recognize and accept her gender identity after her message from God. Coming out to others was another. In particular, she worried how her parents would react, both of them being conservative and religious.“I was very fearful, you know, if they found out or if I told them prematurely or in a way that I couldn’t convey, ‘This is who I am,’ then there would be very bad repercussions,” Langford said. She feared being abandoned or forced to undergo conversion therapy. So she devised a plan.
A high school freshman at this point, she made a list of every person she wanted to come out to and gave herself deadlines. One by one, she checked off names, which included Nate Shoutis, her librarian at Lander Valley High School.
“She went about it very, very deliberately,” Shoutis said.
Shoutis first got to know Langford when he was advisor for the SPEAK club, the school’s Genders and Sexualities Alliance organization. Langford had joined during her freshman year, before she’d come out. After God answered her question, she began to share her chosen name — Artemis — with some members of the group. She’d also picked out “Arty” as both a nickname and bridge between her old name and her new one.
One of the first things Shoutis noticed about Langford was her dedication and willingness to always help. She came to every SPEAK meeting, even sophomore year after the group had shrunk from many of its members graduating.
“Arty was one person who really kind of stayed at the nucleus of it, even when it was struggling,” Shoutis said.
It was clear Langford knew who she was, Shoutis said.
When the library ended up with a bunch of empty boxes from a shipment of new laptops, SPEAK club members stacked them on the auditorium stage ahead of a school assembly. When the time came, Langford busted through the boxes before giving a speech about the club.
“It was just hilarious,” Shoutis said. “Arty was brave. It’s hard to get up in front of the whole student body and do this kind of thing. And she did it in a really fun, kind of out there way.”
Langford continued with her coming out plan through her sophomore year. Little by little, she tested the waters, being herself in the places she knew it was safe to do so. By graduation, she collected her diploma as Artemis.
At home, things didn’t go according to her plan.
About a week before her 16th birthday, Langford’s parents confronted her. They’d gone looking through her laptop after they noticed a change in behavior. She’d been distant, less enthused about going to church.
Her browser history — “how to tell your parents you’re trans” — had given her away. Langford felt ambushed and unprepared to have the conversation.
“When you can’t speak the same language about something, then it’s really hard to understand,” she said.
Her worst fears didn’t materialize. She wasn’t abandoned but she also wasn’t fully accepted. Her relationship with her parents, whom she’d been fairly close with before, changed.
“Not being able to fully be myself at home, not feeling comfortable being at home, that was really hard during those years,” Langford said.
It was hard on her parents’ marriage, too. They’re no longer together. But Langford remains dedicated.
“Family is something you always are working on,” she said. “With my parents, for one in particular, it’s gonna be a long road.”
There and back
Langford’s last months as a high school student were upended by a global pandemic, so she was especially eager for a fresh start and possibility at college. With her sights set on city life, she moved to the West Coast to attend Western Washington University in Bellingham. (The lawsuit erroneously states that Langford attended Eastern Washington University and lived in Bellevue.)With more than 92,000 people, Bellingham was about three times the size of anywhere Langford had ever lived. It was different, mostly in ways she enjoyed, like the walks she’d take near the ocean. It seemed like a place where she could be herself more completely. But the timing was wrong.
With the pandemic still in full tilt, her classes were online and campus was largely shuttered. She encountered health issues and found herself isolated, bed-ridden and thousands of miles away from her support system. By that spring, she knew she needed to go home.
Despite spending her adolescence dead set on getting out of Dodge, she longed for Wyoming.
“I missed seeing the mountains here and the dry air and the prairie,” Langford said. “I missed that part.”
It didn’t take long after enrolling at UW in fall 2021 to know it was the right choice. Classes were in-person, and she was making friends. While limited to a tight student budget, she was buying and wearing more of the clothes that suited her. It was the college experience she had hoped for.
“I felt like I was at home and I was in a place that I could survive, even, possibly thrive,” Langford said.
She declared as a history major and got involved with student government. That’s where she became friends with Tanner Ewalt. The two bonded over their experiences as young, queer people raised in Wyoming.
“We talk about politics a lot because that’s where we’re both really involved,” Ewalt said. “We also talk about history and music and books.”
When school is in session, the two like to grab lunch and muse about political theory, “like the real boring nerd stuff,” Ewalt said. While he’s the pie-in-the-sky one between the two of them, Ewalt said, Langford is the pragmatist.
They commiserate together, too.
Last spring, Wyoming broke with a 46-year tradition of defeating bills to restrict LGBTQ civil rights. State statute now prohibits transgender girls from competing in middle- and high-school girls sports events (there are only four such student athletes, according to a letter signed by Gov. Mark Gordon). The two texted throughout the session as the bill made its way through the process.
“I do think that kind of moment when things were getting real scary during the last session, that’s when Artemis and I became pretty good friends,” Ewalt said.
The political debate Langford and Ewalt return to again and again is whether to stay and fight for the place they love, or give it up for lost.
“Maybe the people of Wyoming aren’t this hateful. Maybe the problem is just a few people in the statehouse,” Ewalt said. “And then we would talk about all the moments that we’ve had where even the most unexpected people were shockingly supportive. It’s a lot of recalling better times, or half-joking about the worst-case scenario.”
Another news cycle
Langford’s experience in student government is what first spurred her interest in joining a sorority. The students most engaged in UW’s campus community, she noticed, were Greek life members. But really, Langford said, she joined for many of the same reasons anybody else does.She was drawn to the idea of lifelong connections, academic and professional support, and having a place on campus where she would be accepted for who she is.
“That’s why I wanted to be a part of it,” Langford said.
In March, when some of Langford’s sorority sisters filed the lawsuit, another news cycle ignited. This one was arguably the biggest and most-prolonged one yet, catching the attention of news giants like Fox News and Breitbart.
It’s been a terrifying thing to watch unfold, said Sara Burlingame, executive director of Wyoming Equality, a LGBTQ advocacy group.
She’s known Langford since she was a Lander Valley High School student. Back then, Langford was a page for the Wyoming Legislature while Burlingame represented House District 44.
Burlingame can remember Langford’s last day at the Legislature. It’s a tradition that pages give a short speech that day.
“She’s really so tender about these old, gruff Republican men who were kind to her,” Burlingame said. One she thanked for noticing when she got her hair done, another she complimented for his three-piece suit, made up of a leather vest and wool blazer.
“She wanted to say how much that meant to her, like all these little things,” Burlingame said. “And then she just talked about how she feels about the budget.”
That’s Langford, Burlingame said, softhearted for people and earnest about her interests.
“If all you read is Cowboy State Daily, if all you’ve seen is Breitbart and Fox News, you would think that Artemis Langford is a monster,” Burlingame said.
“It’s been something to see happen in front of me just how that media creates a dangerous mob,” she said. In response, Langford has locked down her social media accounts and purchased pepper spray and a personal alarm system.
WyoFile reached out to Cowboy State Daily’s Clair McFarland, the reporter who has authored most of the outlet’s numerous stories about Langford. The inquiry included specific questions about criticisms and how the outlet makes editorial decisions.
In response, Executive Editor Jimmy Orr sent a four-sentence statement, two of which boasted about the number of clicks the outlet’s headlines regularly receive. The statement did not answer most of WyoFile’s questions other than to take issue with the mainstream journalistic guidance on the terminology to use when discussing transgender people.
“We will continue to use accurate terms like ‘biological male’ and ‘biological female’ rather than Orwellian phrases like ‘assigned male at birth,’” Orr wrote.
Despite the turmoil of the last year, Langford said she wouldn’t do anything differently.
“My only regret is how much pain the lawsuit has caused my sisters caught in between all this and also all the loved ones in my life,” she said.
“I’m never gonna give up on organizations, issues and people that I love,” Langford added. “I’m proud to be a member of my chapter and I don’t think I’ll ever regret being a member of Kappa Kappa Gamma.”
Star gazing
Right now, things are quiet again. Classes start soon. Langford is waiting for a judge to make a decision on the lawsuit. Her attorney filed two separate motions in June — one to dismiss Langford from the suit, another to throw the case out altogether.“The reality is this lawsuit is being used as clickbait so that the plaintiffs’ lawyers can raise money at the expense of a kind and wonderful student in our community,” Langford’s lawyer said. “I hope people look back at this case in the same way they look back at other attacks on members of minority groups in our history — as shameful and not who we are.”
With legal uncertainty hanging over her head, Langford’s ready to return to campus. It’s with a mix of emotions, both optimism and dread. To prepare, she’s been praying a lot. She’s intent on performing well academically in her junior year. She won’t be living in the sorority house, but she’s still a member. Though she doesn’t expect it, she’d like for this school year to be quieter than the last.
“It’s a little bit like Murphy’s law,” she said, meaning the adage that anything that can go wrong, will go wrong.
“But I have determination that even if that happens, just like everything else, I can get through it,” Langford said. “People around me, I think, will help.”
She’s hoping for more ordinary days than extraordinary ones.
Her perfect day would start without an alarm, she said. Other obligations, like school or work, would also be off the table, making room for a cozy Netflix binge or uninterrupted time with a good book. She’d grab lunch with a friend. It would be warm enough to wear one of her favorite dresses, like the black one with red flowers on it, with her jean jacket.
She’d have something good for dinner before heading to the Laramie rail bridge to gaze at the stars or watch the trains thundering by. She enjoys wondering where the trains are heading, where they’ve come from.
“Then being able to end the day, just being able to thank God for the beautiful day and falling asleep to the sound of rain or something,” she said. “That sounds really nice.”
Judge dismisses lawsuit against UW sorority, transgender sister
Maggie Mullen, Joshua WolfsonA federal judge on Friday dismissed a civil lawsuit against Kappa Kappa Gamma and the first openly transgender woman to join a sorority at the University of Wyoming.
In a 41–page decision, U.S. District Judge Alan B. Johnson concluded that the plaintiffs in the case failed to adequately state a claim against Artemis Langford and her sorority.
“We are elated that the Court saw the allegations against Ms. Langford our way: as unsubstantiated and unbefitting of a federal court. As Ms. Langford outlined in her Motion to Dismiss, the allegations against her were largely unrelated to any legal claims the plaintiffs raised. But they are being used to crowdfund nonetheless,” Rachel Berkness, Langford’s attorney, said in a statement to WyoFile. “Ms. Langford can now return to campus and focus on being a student rather than having to worry about potentially defending herself against bogus claims.”
The suit came in response to Kappa Kappa Gamma admitting Langford into the sorority last fall. She was admitted by a vote of UW chapter’s membership, which Johnson noted in his decision.
“The University of Wyoming chapter voted to admit — and, more broadly, a sorority of hundreds of thousands approved — Langford,” Johnson wrote. “With its inquiry beginning and ending there, the Court will not define ‘woman’ today. The delegate of a private, voluntary organization interpreted ‘woman’, otherwise undefined in the non-profit’s bylaws, expansively; this Judge may not invade Kappa Kappa Gamma’s freedom of expressive association and inject the circumscribed definition Plaintiffs urge.”
History
In April, six of Langford’s sorority sisters asked the federal court to void her membership because she is transgender. The plaintiffs, who originally sought anonymity in their suit, alleged in a 72-page complaint that the private organization broke its bylaws, breached housing contracts and misled members when it admitted Langford.The plaintiffs also accused Langford of “inappropropriate” behavior and said her attraction to women made her “more threatening.” But those allegations were not just irrelevant to the plaintiffs’ claims but “unbefitting in federal court,” according to the ruling.
Berkness pointed to the significance of the judge using Langford’s correct pronouns, in contrast to the misgendering throughout the complaint.
The ruling was “without prejudice,” a designation that leaves the plaintiffs the option to refile.
Johnson, however, advised the plaintiffs to “devote more than 6% of their complaint to their legal claims against defendants,” if they choose to restart litigation.
“Plaintiffs should not copy and paste their complaint in lieu of elaboration or legal research that assists the Court in disentangling their claims,” Johnson added.
Cassie Craven and John Knepper, legal counsel for the plaintiffs — which included Jayln Westernbroek, Hannah Holtmeier, Allison Coghan, Grace Choate, Madeline Ramar and Megan Kosar — declined to comment on the ruling or whether they would refile the lawsuit.
Langford’s historic admission into the sorority and the subsequent lawsuit caught the attention of some of the biggest names in conservative media. Much of the media frenzy over the past year has scrutinized Langford’s physical appearance and depicted her as a sexual predator masquerading as a young woman in order to gain access to the sorority. Altogether, the heightened visibility has made the 21-year-old Langford’s everyday life as a small-town college student challenging, she said.
“My only regret is how much pain the lawsuit has caused my sisters caught in between all this and also all the loved ones in my life,” she told WyoFilein an earlier interview.
“I’m never gonna give up on organizations, issues and people that I love,” Langford added. “I’m proud to be a member of my chapter and I don’t think I’ll ever regret being a member of Kappa Kappa Gamma.”
Maggie Mullen reports on state government and politics. Before joining WyoFile in 2022, she spent five years at Wyoming Public Radio. More by Maggie Mullen
Joshua Wolfson serves as managing editor for WyoFile. He lives in Casper. Contact him at josh@wyofile.com or (307) 797-2143. Follow him on Twitter at @joshwolfson. More by Joshua Wolfson
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It's a shame they've never posted a pic of themselves. In another thread they started about losing weight, they said that they want to get an exercise bike but can't afford one that would hold their weight. They must be quite a unit!
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Vaush and other TRAs are angry that a TERF mother helped her child by not affirming her daughter's delusion.Also they claim she's miserable even though the picture doesn't look like anything.
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Bummer but to be frank we're a much better bunch of autistic faggots.
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@Stupid Sexy Flanders is an amhomo and hero and I'm sorry you've been exiled for being correct in the most gentle manner. I hope you find a new nice funny fellow gay group who doesn't care as much one day to have fun with. You're always amfren here, but you know that. 
Anyway I am depressed now and have to read a bit more before I crash into a depression slumber for 20 years.
Keffals said psycologist and therapist were part of cops and ACAB applies to them too. It's any human that forces them to make choices they're uncomfortable with, a 4 letter way of yelling "FASCIST!" and mincing out pretending not to cry because someone tried to control you like mommy and or daddy.
Nigga I know you like children so could you fucking pay attention to what those teens wear instead of their bodies for one fucking minute and realize this is a NORMAL fall outfit for school aged teens and adults alike? Hit every branch of the stupid tree.
Horrifying. This girl ran away because the school convinced her to feel unsafe, then was picked up by a pedo and trafficked to Maryland. THEN when she was found she was put under ward of a state lawyer, Ms. Khan, who then went OUT OF HER WAY to put her with troubled male teens who then SEXUALLY ASSAULTED HER AGAIN, then she RAN from that institute and got picked up by ANOTHER child trafficker and was assaulted AGAIN and FINALLY rerescued in TEXAS and taken back to Virgina to be with her grandparents, her legal fucking guardians. Lawyer Khan is in denial she did anything wrong and considering how big of a fucking stain this is on someone's career let alone guilt of psyche must be her subconciously trying not to kill herself by being monsterously in denial. School is retarded too, also awful and rightfully being sued (along with Khan, school I think is the bigger one).
Anyway I am depressed now and have to read a bit more before I crash into a depression slumber for 20 years.
Yep, this helped. Always good for a laugh.
Keffals said psycologist and therapist were part of cops and ACAB applies to them too. It's any human that forces them to make choices they're uncomfortable with, a 4 letter way of yelling "FASCIST!" and mincing out pretending not to cry because someone tried to control you like mommy and or daddy.
This is likely someone who's too far down into coom to come out without lots of therapy and a strong sense of wanting to get better. That involves self awareness, so he's (only metaphorically, none phsyically) fucked.
"dysphoria jeans and hoodie"
Nigga I know you like children so could you fucking pay attention to what those teens wear instead of their bodies for one fucking minute and realize this is a NORMAL fall outfit for school aged teens and adults alike? Hit every branch of the stupid tree.
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Super Hon goes to a quite progressive church so of course the congregants got treated to an “I am woman, hear me roar” moment from ol’ Megs.
NGL, have some feels for the old lady in this post.
And now, a PSA. Since the last post, the fatal combination of curiosity, autism, and a certain enormous lady’s shitty infosec means I am pretty sure I know birth name, spouse name, church, job, martial arts studio etc of our girl. With that, address etc should be easy.
If Super Hon ever comes across this, COOL IT, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD. Think for once of your kids. Even if the trans teen and the 11 year old seem OK now, things change. You can’t be sure this won’t be horribly embarrassing in the future. Find people in real life to sob with over Barbie. Write a diary. Stop sharing their and your stuff online. Stop giving assholes ammunition to fuck up their lives. And be open to the possibility that your oldest might desist. Please.
Did you notice BTW that an evil Kiwi Farmer worries more about the impact of your oversharing and choices on your kids than you did? That should tell you something. It won’t however stop my posts because holy fuck, you are hilarious.
As you’re just being insane but not causing any online drama, you’re not the calibre of lolcow that is usually doxed (quite apart from my own views on doxing). I’m going to keep your info to myself. But if I can find you, so can others. Think on.
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Trans Lessons learned at a very strange church…
Before I begin, understand that I go to a very “strange” Christian church that has part of its core values “being comfortable being uncomfortable” and living in such a way that we “keep it real”. I’d searched for a church like it my whole life and had attended for 7 years before my transition. Despite how loving it was as an individual congregation, it is part of a larger denomination that isn’t as progressive as I wish it was, so the staff could get into some hot water if they were too supportive. The staff, however, didn’t give a fuck about hot water and I worked with them to do an announcement video that was played in both church services, because I wanted to share my journey without being nervous doing public speaking. Afterwards, the congregation came behind me in a way that was and is truly humbling!
After my official transition just over two months ago, I started to see this older woman that we’ll call Paula come up and greet me each Sunday. She seemed to be especially concerned with how I was doing in my transition and if people were treating me well, but I didn’t find out why she was so curious until yesterday.
Paula’s spouse had been a partner in a law firm and a deacon in a church in the Deep South in the early 2000’s. Her spouse—we’ll call her Betty—was in her ‘50’s when her egg cracked.
Even though it still feels very scary to transition in late life, there was a societal awakening that started around 2010 which has actually made the younger generation much more accepting of trans folks. This was well before that happened, though, as well as being in the the Deep South, so Betty’s journey was pretty rough.
Betty lost her job at the law firm when her partner barred her from entry (though she would eventually be able to successfully sue her former partner), was kicked out of her church, and the entire family had to relocate to another state. Tragically, a decade later, she got sick and died, after only living in transition a small part of her life.
I asked Paula if it had been worth it for her—as she stayed with her partner to the end—and for Betty? She thought about it a moment—really processed what I asked—then nodded. “Yeah. I think so. She was happier than she’d ever been. She finally got to live an authentic life.”
It was an honest answer that really resonated with me, because I, too, am realizing how valuable living an honest life is. We’re not guaranteed how long any of us will have, but choosing to be honest—to live that way and to love that way—will never be a mistake!
Before I begin, understand that I go to a very “strange” Christian church that has part of its core values “being comfortable being uncomfortable” and living in such a way that we “keep it real”. I’d searched for a church like it my whole life and had attended for 7 years before my transition. Despite how loving it was as an individual congregation, it is part of a larger denomination that isn’t as progressive as I wish it was, so the staff could get into some hot water if they were too supportive. The staff, however, didn’t give a fuck about hot water and I worked with them to do an announcement video that was played in both church services, because I wanted to share my journey without being nervous doing public speaking. Afterwards, the congregation came behind me in a way that was and is truly humbling!
After my official transition just over two months ago, I started to see this older woman that we’ll call Paula come up and greet me each Sunday. She seemed to be especially concerned with how I was doing in my transition and if people were treating me well, but I didn’t find out why she was so curious until yesterday.
Paula’s spouse had been a partner in a law firm and a deacon in a church in the Deep South in the early 2000’s. Her spouse—we’ll call her Betty—was in her ‘50’s when her egg cracked.
Even though it still feels very scary to transition in late life, there was a societal awakening that started around 2010 which has actually made the younger generation much more accepting of trans folks. This was well before that happened, though, as well as being in the the Deep South, so Betty’s journey was pretty rough.
Betty lost her job at the law firm when her partner barred her from entry (though she would eventually be able to successfully sue her former partner), was kicked out of her church, and the entire family had to relocate to another state. Tragically, a decade later, she got sick and died, after only living in transition a small part of her life.
I asked Paula if it had been worth it for her—as she stayed with her partner to the end—and for Betty? She thought about it a moment—really processed what I asked—then nodded. “Yeah. I think so. She was happier than she’d ever been. She finally got to live an authentic life.”
It was an honest answer that really resonated with me, because I, too, am realizing how valuable living an honest life is. We’re not guaranteed how long any of us will have, but choosing to be honest—to live that way and to love that way—will never be a mistake!
NGL, have some feels for the old lady in this post.
And now, a PSA. Since the last post, the fatal combination of curiosity, autism, and a certain enormous lady’s shitty infosec means I am pretty sure I know birth name, spouse name, church, job, martial arts studio etc of our girl. With that, address etc should be easy.
If Super Hon ever comes across this, COOL IT, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD. Think for once of your kids. Even if the trans teen and the 11 year old seem OK now, things change. You can’t be sure this won’t be horribly embarrassing in the future. Find people in real life to sob with over Barbie. Write a diary. Stop sharing their and your stuff online. Stop giving assholes ammunition to fuck up their lives. And be open to the possibility that your oldest might desist. Please.
Did you notice BTW that an evil Kiwi Farmer worries more about the impact of your oversharing and choices on your kids than you did? That should tell you something. It won’t however stop my posts because holy fuck, you are hilarious.
As you’re just being insane but not causing any online drama, you’re not the calibre of lolcow that is usually doxed (quite apart from my own views on doxing). I’m going to keep your info to myself. But if I can find you, so can others. Think on.
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modern family problems
freaking out his son
flip your wig
barrel-chested babe
transphobic supply chain
ms potatohead shoots up
hrt fun
i feel pretty, oh so pretty
hair today, gone tomorrow
my monstrous autism
vintage vamp
mein Kampf mit dem Gewicht
girl with a Go-Pro
pouring one out for my homie’s Reddit account
feels like the first time
chicks dig cars
live action movie reviewing
transdoll Barbie, boundary-busting based mother
random thoughts of a sassy girl
my name is my name
i am 16, going on 17
UTI euphoria
hello boys
Megan Thee Stallion
freaking out his son
flip your wig
barrel-chested babe
transphobic supply chain
ms potatohead shoots up
hrt fun
i feel pretty, oh so pretty
hair today, gone tomorrow
my monstrous autism
vintage vamp
mein Kampf mit dem Gewicht
girl with a Go-Pro
pouring one out for my homie’s Reddit account
feels like the first time
chicks dig cars
live action movie reviewing
transdoll Barbie, boundary-busting based mother
random thoughts of a sassy girl
my name is my name
i am 16, going on 17
UTI euphoria
hello boys
Megan Thee Stallion
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All these "women" I see walking around in hoodies and jeans were secretly pooners all along? Freud was right, these hoes are mad jealous of our schlongs brothers, I probably see 100 of these stealth pooners a day.
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Trans furry threatens TERF war, wants to fight Nazis, and says he has a ladybrain. Archive.
"It is war"
"You have no idea how biology actually works"
You heard it here. Their estrogen pills give them female neuron numbers. 100% women.
"It is war"
"You have no idea how biology actually works"
You heard it here. Their estrogen pills give them female neuron numbers. 100% women.
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These retards actually believe shooting up bathtub drugs is going to magically transform them like some anime. Phenomenal
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"with a horsey"... Is this a zoophile dogwhistle? He sucks that horse off, doesn't he?
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ah yes, the thing all true women desire- boobs the size of their own head.
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Hope he gets "trans joy" from the inevitable chronic back pain. Silly troon.
Mr Processor
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Yeah, in this case I think the fact that she chose her male name as Draco shows a child's mind at work. It was such a childish choice, a young lady's first media crush. Of course, it's true we have some childish adults who do similar these days, but in this case it was an actual child.Horrifying. This girl ran away because the school convinced her to feel unsafe, then was picked up by a pedo and trafficked to Maryland. THEN when she was found she was put under ward of a state lawyer, Ms. Khan, who then went OUT OF HER WAY to put her with troubled male teens who then SEXUALLY ASSAULTED HER AGAIN, then she RAN from that institute and got picked up by ANOTHER child trafficker and was assaulted AGAIN and FINALLY rerescued in TEXAS and taken back to Virgina to be with her grandparents, her legal fucking guardians. Lawyer Khan is in denial she did anything wrong and considering how big of a fucking stain this is on someone's career let alone guilt of psyche must be her subconciously trying not to kill herself by being monsterously in denial. School is retarded too, also awful and rightfully being sued (along with Khan, school I think is the bigger one).
Anyway I am depressed now and have to read a bit more before I crash into a depression slumber for 20 years.
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Whats the bet the "traffickers" that kept getting hold of this poor kid were also trannies she met on Discord or something like it?
The school and that fucking dumbshit interfering activist lawyer are both culpable, Khan was a lawyer in a different State, she way exceeded her authority, her only responsibility when that kid was found was to get her back with her parents, not to take it upon herself to interfere and make things 1000× worse.
These fucking troon apologists are disgusting.
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I think he means he has a horse cock"with a horsey"... Is this a zoophile dogwhistle? He sucks that horse off, doesn't he?