Porn Addiction Support Thread

[SaeyuBoom]

This is a friendly support thread for those who are suffering from or suspect they suffer from porn addiction. Please don't take your hate out on us. We're trying to recover.


What are the problems with porn and porn addiction?

Escalation
The biggest and most apparent problem with porn addiction. What happens with vanilla porn just doesn't get Timmy to the finish line? Degenerate porn is a slippery slope that may end in not only you being a scatfag/vorefag/furfag but also may lead to illegal content and acts. If you are going to watch porn, by God, keep it vanilla.

Decreased Intimacy
This is the number one reason couples split over porn. It's not because one person objects to porn so much they break it off. Rather, it's their partner can't get intimate anymore because porn twisted their view of sex. Porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED) is real.

Compulsions
Meaning you're consuming it when you shouldn't be. Like, watching porn a work or watching porn instead of getting important things done.

Guilt
Look man, I never felt guilty about watching porn. If you do, you can go on some cope escapade but deep down you'll likely always feel guilty about it. Just stop or severely limit it.

Body Image/Isolation/Ethics/Objectifying or Degrading Women/Testosterone/Motivation Issues
Maybe other kiwis can speak to these.

Is porn always evil?
If you're religious yes but then so is Kiwi Farms, probably. Science says masturbation is healthy and normal. So If you can masturbate without porn or consume porn without the above mentioned side effects maybe it's no big deal.


Do you know someone or seen someone who suffer(s/ed) with consequences of porn addiction? Please share! It can offer insight to the often hidden problems of being a porn addict.

 

[CaptainAutism69]

How can I stop beating it to videos of your mom being gangbanged by niggers?

 

[SaeyuBoom]

How can I stop beating it to videos of your mom being gangbanged by niggers?

Less than an hour since the thread's creation and you're already bringing up your blacked fetish. You've landed in the right place brother. Together, we can overcome these everbearing thoughts.

 

[BirdUp]

dude it is not hard to stop jerking it
you've just seen and read a bunch of nofap bullshit which built up an image of it being impossible that ironically creates the addiction
see the Golem effect

 

[SaeyuBoom]

dude it is not hard to stop jerking it
you've just seen and read a bunch of nofap bullshit which built up an image of it being impossible that ironically creates the addiction
see the Golem effect

I agree, once the choice is made, recovery is probably easier than most other addictions. The problem lies in admitting it's a problem. 4chan's constant coomer threads, every Discord having a nsfw channel, Reddit's million+ degenerate subreddits and twitter and twitch thots make it seem like everyone is a coomer and normalizes it. I wasn't even aware I had a problem until I learned about the side effects and realized it was effecting my life.

 

[Breadbassket]

Here is a video that should be informative for anyone looking to stop their porn addiction:

Originally from a Youtube reupload but reuploaded here in case that gets deleted or taken down.

 

[BirdUp]

The problem lies in admitting it's a problem.

it only becomes a problem when you think it's a problem
goonclown thought jerking off occasionally meant he was doomed to become a freak who couldn't stop masturbating so he fulfilled that prophecy
what you should do is view jerking off neutrally (the same thing you do towards eating if you're fasting)

 

[CaptainAutism69]

Less than an hour since the thread's creation and you're already bringing up your blacked fetish. You've landed in the right place brother. Together, we can overcome these everbearing thoughts.

It's more a 'your mom' fetish.

 

[Vash the Stampede]

Do not end up like this!
Seek help today!

 

[Night Crawler]

Couples don't split over porn. They split over a lack of sex that leads to porn watching and jerking off. You have that all backwards. There is already a lack of intimacy which is what caused the use of porn as a masturbation aid. This probably covers most cases. A small number of them are caused by guys who have higher than normal sex drives and their girlfriend or wife can't keep up with them. There's only two ways to solve this. Either they split up and go their separate ways because there is a incompatibility problem there or she can just suck it the fuck up and get used to the fact that her boyfriend or husband jerks off to porn when she doesn't feel like fucking him. The other alternative would be to have sex with him more. Keep him satisfied sexually. Then there's no need for porn. Sexless relationships are kind of pointless and a waste of time.

Women claim a lack of intimacy. The real reason they don't like porn is because it takes away the women's ability to use sex as a weapon against men. Men have an outlet for their sexual urges. So when they pull any of their stupid shit which many of them do and you call them out for it they will say "well we aren't having sex anymore". Ok bitch I will just go watch some porn. This really pisses them off. It's the only power they have over men. They are weaker than us many of them aren't as smart as men and they can be taken advantage of. They have no other way to fight back against men other than "no more pussy for you". Porn robs them of this and women know it. Which is why they don't like porn. Back in the Boomer days they put pussy on a pedestal and they had stupid cuck shit like "happy wife happy life". They let women walk all over them. That's how we ended up with feminism well that and Kikes. With porn you don't have to take shit from women or get a bad case of dick rot from a whore.

Women also like to claim men are addicted to sex. You want sex more often than the twice a month and on birthdays and holidays schedule? You have a sex addiction and you need to get help. This means they want you to go to some heeb psyche quack that will tell you how bad you are for being horny. I have a healthy sex drive so I'm literally evil.

I have never felt guilty about watching porn. I'm not a fucking Boomer and I don't pay for it. Any porn I watch is 100% free. Like most people that watch porn.

 

[SIMIΔN]

I'd reccomend the free 'easypeasy' method.

https://read.easypeasymethod.org/

Spoiler: introduction

This book’s objective is directing you into a new frame of mind. In contrast to the usual method of stopping — whereby you start off with the feeling of climbing Mount Everest and spend the next few weeks craving and feeling deprived — you start right away with a feeling of elation, as if cured of a terrible disease. From then on, the further you go through life, the more you will look at this period of time and wonder how you ever used any porn in the first place. You will look at other porn users with pity, as opposed to envy.

Provided that you’re not someone who had never become addicted (reading for your significant other) or had quit (or is in the fasting days of a “porn diet”), it’s essential to keep using until you have finished the book completely. This may appear to be a contradiction, and this instruction to continue masturbating to porn causes more objection than any other, but as you read further your desire to use porn will gradually be reduced. Take this instruction seriously: Attempting to quit early will not benefit you.

Many don’t finish the book because they feel they have to give something up, some even deliberately only reading one line per day in order to postpone the evil event. Look at it this way, what have you got to lose? If you don’t stop at the end of the book, you’re no worse off than you are now. It’s by definition a Pascal’s Wager, a bet taken where you have nothing to lose and high chances of large gains.

Incidentally, if you haven’t watched porn for a few days or weeks, but aren’t sure whether you’re a porn user, ex-user, or a non-user, then don’t use porn to masturbate whilst reading. In fact, you’re already a non-user, but we have to let your brain catch up with your body. By the end of the book, you’ll be a happy non-user. EasyPeasy is the complete opposite of the normal method, where one lists the considerable disadvantages of porn and says:
“If only I can go long enough without porn, eventually the desire will go and I can enjoy life again, free of slavery.”
This is the logical way to go about it, with thousands stopping every day using this method. However, it’s very difficult to succeed for the following reasons:

Stopping PMO isn’t the real problem. Every time you finish your session, you’ve stopped using it. You may have powerful reasons on the first day of your once-in-four porn diet to say “I don’t want to use porn, or even masturbate any more.” All users do, and their reasons are more powerful than you can possibly imagine. The real problem is day two, ten, or ten-thousand where in a weak moment you’ll have ‘just one peek’, want another, and suddenly you’re an addict again.

Awareness of the health risks generates more fear, making it more difficult to stop. Tell a user it’s destroying their virility and the first thing they’ll do is reach for something to surge their dopamine: a cigarette, alcohol, or even firing up the browser to search for porn.

All reasons for stopping actually make it harder. This is due to two reasons. First, we’re continually being forced to give up our ’little friend’ or some prop, vice, or pleasure (whichever way the user perceives it). Second, they create a “blind”. We do not masturbate for the reasons we should stop. The real question is, why do we want or need to do it?

With EasyPeasy, we (initially) forget the reasons we’d like to stop, face the porn problem and ask ourselves the following questions:

1. What is porn doing for me?
2. Am I actually enjoying it?
3. Do I really need to go through life sabotaging my mind and body?

The beautiful truth is that all porn does absolutely nothing for you whatsoever. Let me make it quite clear, it’s not that the disadvantages of being a user outweigh the advantages, it’s that there are zero advantages to looking at pornography.

Most users find it necessary to rationalise why they use porn, but the reasons they come up with are all fallacies and illusions.

First, we’ll remove these fallacies and illusions. In fact, you’ll soon realise there is nothing to give up. Not only that, but there are marvellous, positive gains from being a non-PMOer, with well-being and happiness only two of these gains. Once illusions that life will never be quite as enjoyable without porn is removed — realising that not only is life just as enjoyable without it but infinitely more so — and once feelings of being deprived or missing out are eradicated, we’ll go back to reconsider increased well-being and happiness — and the dozens of other reasons for quitting porn. These realisations will become positive additional aids to help you achieve what you really desire: enjoying your life free from the slavery of porn addiction!

 

[seri0us]

That's how we ended up with feminism well that and Kikes

Who do you think is behind porn? Who do you think helped "normalize" it?

 

[Night Crawler]

Who do you think is behind porn? Who do you think helped "normalize" it?

I'm aware of the fact that Jews run the porn industry. But like I said in my post above I don't pay for it.

 

[Lidl Drip]

Just remind yourself that porn is essentially cuckoldry because you are watching other people have sex while you are sitting all alone masturbating to it. You are watching some woman you desire to have sex with who would never touch you while you tug away at your dick to the fantasy of her and even worse, to another guy fucking her instead. How embarrassing.

 

[The Third Wright Brother]

Just remind yourself that porn is essentially cuckoldry because you are watching other people have sex while you are sitting all alone masturbating to it. You are watching some woman you desire to have sex with who would never touch you while you tug away at your dick to the fantasy of her and even worse, to another guy fucking her instead. How embarrassing.

Pretty much. I could not fathom watching 2 people faking pleasure for over 30 minutes and leaving satisfied after the whole thing is said and done. It really is designed to leave you with wanting more.

 

[TruffleSpark]

 

[By Boogity!]

Just remind yourself that porn is essentially cuckoldry because you are watching other people have sex while you are sitting all alone masturbating to it. You are watching some woman you desire to have sex with who would never touch you while you tug away at your dick to the fantasy of her and even worse, to another guy fucking her instead. How embarrassing.

This is why I only watch amateur solo female masturbation vids. No man means zero percent gay, and makes the larp that she sent it to me much easier to slip into.

 

[Clarence Big Boss]

This is why I only watch amateur solo female masturbation vids. No man means zero percent gay, and makes the larp that she sent it to me much easier to slip into.

It would be better if she didnt use toys.

 

[Alex Hogendorp]

Keep yourself busy and productive so you won't think about porn or masturbation.

 

[By Boogity!]

It would be better if she didnt use toys.

I find myself drawn more to hand play, or humping things (washing machine, pillow, etc) more so than the vibrating toys or so called "fuck machines".
A realistically sized dildo is choice as well.

Keep yourself busy and productive so you won't think about porn or masturbation.

Sound advice. As I pour more time into my study of political history and sketching I find the urges stay away, and moreover make the times I submit to them not only more rare, but more enjoyable and special. Possessing no guilt or doubt in myself from the submission, which is generally once a week at most.