1. be funny
2. shower
3. job
4. car
if you are these things and cannot get a girlfriend you have a personality disorder.
Disagreements aside I've had with Null on certain things, Null is absolutely right on this.
A problem about incels or maybe not so much incels but people who don't try too hard is they expect a beautiful woman to fall right into their arms but women expect a man to be somewhat independent and well put together. If a guy wants a hot girl just know the hot girl wants vice versa. Sure, there are easy women who don't care but those women are usually femoids who are ugly inside and outside.
There's nothing wrong in having hobbies like gaming and anime but you must put those in perspective and make sure you put the important things first. Chances are she has the same interests you do or prone to getting into things easy but she won't be interested if you do nuffin.
Null is also absolutely right on "being funny." If you find that hard I've learned myself you need to gain social confidence so your funny things come off as funny and not cringe.
There are 2 more things I would add to Null's advice.
5. Be socially confident
6. Don't be a fat retard, be fit and healthy
For number 5 girls can sniff confidence. Have confidence in yourself and you will sure get confidence in your own ability. Self confidence can be gained by number 6.
I used to be pretty fat and that made me feel more nervous talking to girls. Once I got more fit I really do not have as much trouble talking to girls as I used to. Plus you can look attractive to the girls you talk to.