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Uh huh. Pal, if she still hanging around, she likes you, and you are just that dense. Wake up man. Fuck. Didn't think this would be the dating advice thread.
I've talked about this in other threads, she pushed me way not the other way around. Due to two factors: One she can not get pregnant due to a genetic defect*, and two her health is going to shit over time, and she herself didn't want me to have to take care of her like a disabled invalid for the rest of her life which made her fear I would resent her. The first issue was easily sidestepped with alternative options, the second although I disagree with her decision we have both made peace on that and I've moved on already, that was years ago my guy. She's decided to relegate her time being in with good company and you can't force a horse to drink the water you lead it too.
Its not a mistake to be born. Clearly no one was there to tell her that. Including you. I dont care what you feel, we're all God's children. If someone feels like shit because of their race, be their friend, dont be more proof that their right.
No one is saying it's a mistake to be born, but to feel like you wish you weren't or that you loathe your very existence and not just from a standard depression is a far cry from the same thing. My point is that feeling doesn't go away, it didn't matter how much I pampered or cared for her, the feeling remained. Same with many of my other mix race girlfriends I had over the years from all kinds of back grounds: Muslim arab/hispanic, white/Hispanic, blindian, etc.
This isn't the first time I've debated on mix racing, and even in other forums I've had mix race people who spoke up saying what I was pointing out wasn't wrong about insecurities, or genetic mutations (disease/health issues/etc.) If you were to tell me by mix racing I'm creating a child who will have a way harder time in life vs. one who will have far less mental, medical, and other such issues I'm going for to procreate to create one with far less issues, and it's terrible to jeopardize a child's future for selfish wants vs. needs.
efects. We all have issues pal. What matters is rising to the occasion. Can't help the hand your dealt, but you CAN help the hand you deal others. You're making excuses for your mistakes. I'm not being funny anymore, this man to man. Bro, you had a girl. And you fucked it up somewhere you aren't saying. Be a man and fix it. It's the right thing to do.
My guy this is why I don't debate people with the intent to change their mind, your mind was made up from the beginning. The people who push for mix racing are doinga disservice to their children with their only motivation what they feel in the moment and often it doesn't even last such as certain parents ending up becoming apparent racist to their children or the opposing race of the other parent, which also leads to disunity in the child in question.
I made no mistakes in my absolution nor did I ever tear down the girls who were mixed I was with,but you can only do so much and if you believe there's a "if you just keep pushing it will solve it" then you are blinded by what you want to believe, and not the reality of the situation.
It's not even a thing where I don't wish you were right, but I don't let my feeling get in the way of reality because wasting time on fake beliefs will not change reality merely damn others to a reality they wish they could escape.
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You're a white guy who dated some friendless retard with a drug addict parent who grew up in the ghetto, and she wound up breaking up with you? Idk, that's something man.
Oh no she's had many "friends" over the years, women always do, she broke up as mentioned above.
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Also white people are already a conglomeration of all kinds of shit, there's no unified white culture that isn't basic American culture. Anyone who even semi-passes as white just winds up under the catch all that every other mixture of various European-ish ethnicities winds up in.
That's because some people don't understand hard-mixed race and soft mixed race. If you have one ancestor who is mixed and the rest of your lineage is of one paticular race, you can barely qualify as a mixed race person. Although it is true the umbrella for white people has increased, it's not as dramatic as people make it out and even then white people of certain areas share very many similarities whether it be in features, how they appear or more.
Dealing with a stark difference of a disabled white x black in a black neighborhood (considering how overdosed on red pills this thread is I'm sure we all recognize how much more racist blacks are)
The main draw question is would she have been treated the same had she been pure blood (or more pure blooded) compared to being mix, and I think most can agree, yes, to some degree.
ind of sounds like this girl had regular old issues because she had a messed up home life and was disabled, and you're filling in the blanks with your own weird preoccupation with race.
She's not the only one I've had similar discussions with nor the first with similar issues, even the non-disabled, non-druggy parents and more still had issues similar to this, and I've been all over the dating pool over the years. I notice patterns and when they repeat it becomes less coincidence and more occurrence. People use those kind of cope arguments to wash away any patterns of discernment of sex, race, etc. even when it becomes pretty inevitable as a conclusion.
lso yes, I'm sure if you do talk to a mixed race person and insist for long enough that they should be neurotic about race, they'll eventually concede because they want this nut interrogating them to leave them alone.
lol. The funniest part when people use this argument is I never use to mention race, I used to be one of those "blind to race" people, and other people including the girls I were with would bring race up. So you've got it backwards my guy. Most people who make acknowledgements of race and sex, and etc. Do so because they are exposed to repeat action, consequences, or what have you of interaction with other groups. Very few just rag on about race because of some pretzels people do to deny these differences or issues between groups or what have you.
People love to endorse propoganda they've been spoonfed for years until it's impossible to believe the horse shit anymore, and I'd argue it's the same about mix racing and more but you are free to believe otherwise, no one is stopping you. The whole trying to find an angle though to go "You caused it" or "You must have done something wrong" is just as bad as sex relations these days and the copes people used to deny that until it was so blatant it could no longer be ignored.
Let alone other concepts that are effecting society that people willfully ignored.