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how can anyone tell? is it the fact they are here at KF?

i've seen/heard the same things over & over from trans activists for years now.

Rhys McKinnon even used several of these same arguments on TV with Trevor Noah.
Easy, it's so on the nose and the majority would argue. That person hasn't responded at all, nor does their post history show they actually think that way and those activists aren't quiet, and they're extremely defensive. It's easy to spot a troll when you notice that.
 
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Lots of hugboxing in the comments saying basically “oh, it’s because you’re a MAN, all women are intimidated by MANLY MEN like you.”

Link to profile, which has some terrible “poetry” and a gonewild post that I’m not willing to click while I’m eating breakfast.

The pooner doesn't look threatening, she looks more like a dollar store Joakim Brodén.

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Seething TiF angry that the r/ftmpassing sub contains actual advice and honest opinions on whether someone passes.
Wants the sub to be only transmen who only assure others that they totally look like real doods.
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Im not the only one who thinks this surely. The amount of misogyny, internalized transphobia, projection and general nastiness is wild.

So many ppl being blatantly mean and insulting under the guise of “just being honest😇” meanwhile have no pictures of themselves posted 🤔

It’s so sad to see a 16yo ripped to shreds when he’s looking for reassurance and advice or a dude who very much passes but is being insulted bc he has dyed hair/piercings/makeup as if you can’t be trans AND express yourself with a style.
Out of the 74 comments there are thankfully some transmen who do think that the sub should be honest but it's definitely not the most popular reasoning.
Here's the top comment:
I think it's a mix of things:
  1. There are often pictures of pre-T trans men with long hair and/or an alt-style. They don't pass and they want advice but state they refuse to change anything about their style (which kind of makes their post pointless and frustrating). I've seen pictures of people who look completely like cis women and the title is something like "How do I pass better? Don't tell me to cut my hair." I try to tell them that even cisgender femboys get misgendered for their feminine style.
2. Bitterness. I think a lot of the trans guys participating on ftmpassing are bitter. They're dealing with their own dysphoria, depression, and whatever else. So they take it out on those who post.
3. Toxic manhood. I mean, men tend to be more blunt and rude when it comes to advice. I guess ftmpassing is no different. If they think you look like a lesbian they have no problem telling you. I think it's a bit fucked up, especially since so many minors are on there posting. Even if it's brutal honesty, it's tactless. But despite everything, I do think the sub tends to be honest. If you're pre-T or early-T and have certain piercings, dyed hair, makeup, and other things that can be seen as feminine (depending on your environment) can make it harder to pass. I do think ftmpassing is honest 90% of the time despite people saying "you could post a picture of a cis guy with blue hair and they'd say he didn't pass." I say this this because I've seen passing trans men post pictures of themselves with piercings, dyed hair, and makeup and they comments are often honest ("even with the dyed hair, you pass, dude."). However, I think they need to learn some kindness and empathy.
4. It's not all trans guys. There are transphobic cis people lurking and commenting as well.
5. It's Reddit. Welcome to Reddit, especially a male dominated sub. If they went on malegrooming as a femboy, they'd likely get bullied too.
Funny how so many of them want only transmen to participate.
She has a picture and quite a few entertaining posts:
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She has pet rats and BPD.
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Idk if I want to/should change my name
I’m 22 and preT (I’ve just started my transition process) and I have always liked my birth name despite it being a traditionally feminine name. It’s unique and I get compliments all the time or ppl saying “oh lovely, that was my grandma’s name”. I genuinely do like it, but I’ve started to feel some pressure to change it. It doesn’t really give me dysphoria but it outs me instantly, so I’ve just been going by my first initial, which makes me feel “more trans”. I have a name in mind that I would change it to but I’m scared of my family’s reaction (they’re supportive I’m just scared of change and judgement) bc it’s not a “real” name, it’s an animal name that I feel suits me. Idk, just looking for some advice, rn I’ve been considering just keeping my birth name and using my initial or my chosen name for social purposes.

I want to leave this subreddit​

Not trying to throw shade at anyone but I can’t stand how much negativity is in this subreddit. I just want to read some relatable posts or have friendly discussion and get/receive advice but more than half the posts here are depressing triggering vents. I get there’s probably a lot of younger ppl here and we all have our struggles and mental health issues but the amount of internalized transphobia here is insane. Idk who needs to hear this but trans men ARE MEN. Being trans doesn’t make you less of a man or “other” or disgusting or unlovable. It also feels like many ppl here are feeding off of each others dysphoria and depression. Idk. I feel bad after reading the posts here. Does anyone else feel like this?

Me and my gf are going to come out tomorrow
Me and my gf (we are both trans, yay T4T 🥰) are planning to officially come out publicly. Our community is having our pride parade so we figured it would be a great opportunity to do so. We both know our families will be accepting (even if they think it’s “different” they will be accepting) and I’m SO EXCITED and nervous I’m so proud of my gf for feeling ready to do this, she’s amazing

What if I’m wrong and I’m not trans​

❕talking about doubt over being trans❕

Recently I’ve been in a healthy relationship with someone who supports my transness and helped me feel comfortable enough to talk to my doctor abt getting referred to an endo. Basically taking big steps forward that I’ve never felt comfortable doing until now.

The initial excitement of it has worn off and I’m left with this massive weight of anxiety that I might not be trans (I’ve had intense depression in the past over trying to figure out if I am or not and going from yes I am I’ve always felt like this to what if I’m just really confused and it’s a trauma thing etc) even though I would be very uncomfortable with being a woman. Now I don’t identify as a binary man and I was out as nonbinary until also using trans for myself. I identify and trans and nonbinary and transmasc. These words makes sense to me.

I don’t know why I’m suddenly so scared I’m making a mistake. I hate big changes especially permanent ones and have a lot of anxiety in general, plus a handful of mental illnesses (thanks dad) that make life a little more difficult for me.

Can anyone offer advice or comfort? Did anyone ever get to the root of why they felt this doubt and fear? It’s weighing on my mind, heart, and soul and I have no one else to talk to who would understand

“Silly” things that give me (he/they) gender euphoria​

disclaimer I do not think any of these things make you more or less trans/a man, it’s just my personal feelings about myself :)

Here’s my list of some very specific and funny things that give me gender euphoria:
-drinking beer
-my favourite ice creams being stereotyped “dad” flavours (chocolate peanut butter and tiger tail)
-drinking Mountain Dew
-playing fortnight
-sleeping in just boxers
-not having baby fever
-wearing my hat backwards 🫦
-sitting in that position where guys kind of manspread but have their elbows on their thighs
-being the one ppl ask for help with opening tight jars or lifting heavy things
-wearing muscle tanks
-hairy legs!
-wearing hightop converse
-listening to dad (classic) metal (volbeat, Metallica, iron maiden)
-being good at guitar hero 🤘🏻
-belching loudly and obnoxiously to annoy my sister
-wearing my favourite crystal necklace
-wearing thick rings
-having a slightly poochy stomach
-being horny for no reason
-automatically being the one who’s expected to shovel snow out of the driveway

Comment some of yours! I’m trying to spread some positivity ☺️
 
As emo as it sounds being a man means knowing your innate worthlessness. Even your own father will look down on you if you don't produce something of value with your life.
I get where you're coming from, but anyone who tries to convince you of this is an asshole, even if he is your own father. Often, when people like this talk about "something of value", they're referring to some nebulous thing that's impossible to achieve, because what they actually mean is "something of value to me, regardless of what you want or need".

Don't fall for the lie that you need to please other people to be a "real man" or a fully actualized human being or whatever. Decide what you think is valuable and achieve it. This is your only life and and the end of the day, you answer to yourself alone.

Edited to clarify that all of this applies unless the thing you value is trooning out. In that case, listen to your father. He knows what's best for you.
 
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I just don't get it why theses women feel this way. I have been a men my whole life and never felt like that. This reminder me of the case of a lesbian journalist that pretended to be a men for one year and got depressed. Maybe it's because being treated like a men cause a shock in their mind since they are not used to?And would be the if a mtf got treated like a woman, which is almost impossible.
I speak English and can't understand half of what this thing is saying. Why he is doing that? Is that bleach powder? Is he trying make his skin lighter? I have no ideia! Thats some hardcore ebonics.
The cope lmao! Sure buddy she discovered herself as one of the rainbow larpers theres nothing to do with you being a disguisting hon lmao! I will go as far as say that maybe this is because he started reminder her abuser. I will never understand why theses men do this, they could have such perfect life but no! The coom is stronger. And "I've learned to cry for the first time" is he retard? I hate theses types "I can't cry as a boy, beinga girl is much better!" pqp.
Anonymously on the net is in public?
You can say 'nigger' here. ;)


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How soon after I cut my dick off before the good times start? 8)
Do any tranny actually get catcalled? I mean i could see some dude doing this as a joke and his autistic brain don't process that.
 
Why are trans guys SO nasty on ftm passing??

Im not the only one who thinks this surely. The amount of misogyny, internalized transphobia, projection and general nastiness is wild.

So many ppl being blatantly mean and insulting under the guise of “just being honest😇” meanwhile have no pictures of themselves posted 🤔

It’s so sad to see a 16yo ripped to shreds when he’s looking for reassurance and advice or a dude who very much passes but is being insulted bc he has dyed hair/piercings/makeup as if you can’t be trans AND express yourself with a style.

3. Toxic manhood. I mean, men tend to be more blunt and rude when it comes to advice. I guess ftmpassing is no different. If they think you look like a lesbian they have no problem telling you. I think it's a bit fucked up, especially since so many minors are on there posting. Even if it's brutal honesty, it's tactless. But despite everything, I do think the sub tends to be honest. If you're pre-T or early-T and have certain piercings, dyed hair, makeup, and other things that can be seen as feminine (depending on your environment) can make it harder to pass. I do think ftmpassing is honest 90% of the time despite people saying "you could post a picture of a cis guy with blue hair and they'd say he didn't pass." I say this this because I've seen passing trans men post pictures of themselves with piercings, dyed hair, and makeup and they comments are often honest ("even with the dyed hair, you pass, dude."). However, I think they need to learn some kindness and empathy.
I don't think they could miss the forest for the trees more if it was deliberate.

Isn't there a meme about this? Like in this format:
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"Is transphobia everywhere?"

God, I wish.
It isn’t. It’s just that trans people are obsessed with their gender, which is weird given that it’s supposedly just them becoming the people they’ve always been. If they didn’t keep looking at gender stuff, transphobic content wouldn’t be suggested to them.
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Lots of hugboxing in the comments saying basically “oh, it’s because you’re a MAN, all women are intimidated by MANLY MEN like you.”

Link to profile, which has some terrible “poetry” and a gonewild post that I’m not willing to click while I’m eating breakfast.
It’s like Jeffrey Dahmer Quantum Leaped into Mr T. Also, what is that facial expression meant to be?
 
I just don't get it why theses women feel this way. I have been a men my whole life and never felt like that. This reminder me of the case of a lesbian journalist that pretended to be a men for one year and got depressed.
It's because they're all narcissists or have very strong narcissistic traits, even that journalist who was just a ball of mental illness anyway. They think transitioning will give them special attention all the time, they want to be treated like a main character all the time, and when they are treated with normal attention they feel bad.
When living as women they were also like that, always making up things to get more attention and special treatment (I'm weak and waifish! I'm anxious! I need a man's help! I am vulnerable and need protection! I'm cutting myself! etc.) Normal women who just get on with shit don't have people fawning over them all the time, but these girls expect it both before and after 'transition'.
 
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Such a natural position, such delicate.

History… wait, I thought they always knew they were trans??? We go from being a weird cross dresser, to bi and genderfluid, to full tranny lesbian. Somehow has a girlfriend. No pics with said girlfriend, might be able to find an instagram…
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And the worst. They now regularly post in the transporn subs.
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Edit to add that I found other socials. Seems to go through relationships super fast, unsurprisingly. Can’t find breakup posts, just pity seeking woe is me shit.
 
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