She really wanted to leave and he's disappointed in her decision to leave, because it's irrational. He has no issues leaving her at a gas station and is dispassionate about the idea of her coming to harm through her own decisions past that point, because he's a cold autist and a darwinist. I can't help but feel that his relationship with her was kind of like that of an owner and their pet.
You seem to be overlooking the control and possession factor with JF. Elora didnt even have her own name, her moniker is “mama JF” ffs. Also the fact there are apparently two small children involved in this shitshow makes it very different from some “crazy live in girlfriend” just decided to split type of situation.
JF has carefully separated his personal life from his streaming. It appears most his viewers were shocked to learn he had two kids with mamaJF. While there are clips of her on his stream, she was seen so little nobody knew she was pregnant twice and they were raising small children. This tells me nobody has any clue about JF’s home life or behavior offline. He is presenting a character online which is scary only because he comes off as noxious absurd retard, but he only sees a suave intellectual giant, so he’s definitely delusional.
He apparently had a child with another woman, who he was with before Elora, and she left him while she was pregnant. Shit has to be pretty bad for a pregnant woman to leave, she also filed a restraining order iirc. He sued for custody while she was still pregnant. When the cops were involved in that situation what they found in JF’s home was so disturbing they contacted her worried for her safety. These are all giant red flags and point to a guy with an abusive and controlling personality. Most non-assholes will at least wait till the baby is born to start a custody fight. I wonder if he has any visitation or rights to that child? Sounds like she was lucky JF found a new pet woman to breed with and focus on.
Mothers rarely abandon two small children by choice. Almost every case I can think of that involves a woman, who has small children, “disappearing” was because she was murdered. If the woman was still with the children’s father, or they had recently broken up, he was always the one who murdered her.
JF is also not capable of caring for two small children, so who has them now or is now caring for them?
Nobody knows anything about this guy. He comes off like such a comical obnoxious retard it’s hard to take him seriously. But he’s made it clear he’s “saved her from a lifestyle” so he sees himself as her savior and she better be grateful. He also specifically wanted a dumb woman because he wanted to be able to easily control her.
JF has an obvious god complex. He might decide to kick her to the curb, but Elora wouldn’t be allowed to leave, esp not when there are two kids to care for. She left once and returned, he wasn’t going to let that happen again. She would have paid a steep price for leaving and he would have put the screws on once she returned.
The way he has implied she was a crazy whore with lots of male friends, so go look at them says a lot. I highly doubt she has seen any friends, male or female, since she’s been with JF. He’s hoping her social circle in her early days will help distract the cops, but I doubt she’s had anything to do with them in years. JF has made clear that it’s only thanks to dumb modern laws, that don’t allow chattel slavery for wives, that are really to blame for this situation.
Lastly, no woman, esp no woman with small children randomly decides to leave her entire life behind and live as a fucking survivalist. It’s exceedingly rare for a man to do, and many times it’s just code for suicide, but women just don’t do that shit. Alien abduction would have been only slightly less believable than “wanted to live as a survivalist” for a woman with two small kids.
Even when women go on remote “find myself” hikes or trips they stay in regular contact with family and friends and they pack and plan for it. When you hear about a not-dead mother who disappears, she “disappears” with her kids. These “disappearances” are the result of an ugly custody battle, an abusive husband or just plain crazy, BUT she takes the kids with her. It’s always revealed later she was in some secret contact with her family.
Point is when women decide to “disappear” they disappear with their kids. (Exception is hardcore drug addicts who “disappear” (i.e. live with other junkies on streets or trap houses) but they aren’t hard to find, if they are alive, and someone bothers to look.) This is another reason JF’s bullshit is so rank. He has also implied that maybe instead of being a sudden rugged survivalist maybe she became a traveling gypsy bohemian, to live among with a bunch of male friends and various degenerates vagabonds of that ilk. It would be very easy to track down people who have seen and interacted with Elora if she was doing the vagabond hippie life, esp because she has no money and no supplies.
I think JF’s original story to the cops was “Elora ran off to be a vagabond hippie whore, which was the life I had tried so hard to rescue her from” but then he realized that zero sightings or interactions of Elora made no sense. If she really had chose a hippie vagabond life her it would be quite easy to find witnesses among her “male friends”, homeless weirdos, store clerks, soup kitchen/food pantry volunteers, waitresses, campers, etc… from Elora’s first week or two on the road. (I’m saying first week or two because then the random serial killer had to strike. Months of hobo hippie living would result in plentiful peer and public interactions/sightings from all kinds of people.) JF quickly turned her into a rugged survivalist to try and explain the total void. The reason no one has seen her in stores, restaurants, food pantries or begging on the street is she decided to survive on berries and raw fish she catches with a handmade spear! She also mentioned bear hunting so she could cure the meat and fashion its hide into a coat that will allow her to survive the winter solo.
The story might be slightly believable if the person has a history of bipolar disorder and in a manic episode decided they were going to be survivalist. But in situations like that they return within a day or two, and they also talk to everyone. Someone in a full tilt manic episode gets noticed and would be telling strangers about their new survivalist life.
The fact she hasn’t made contact with her children, or anyone, in months means she’s dead.
Not much can be done for Elora now but I’d like to know who is caring for the kids. There is no way JF is tending to an infant and small child on his own. I doubt his ability to care for them for a few hours solo, never mind months. You can’t sit in a quiet studio and stream for hours, or even minutes, if you are caring for two small children. I just hope they aren’t locked in monkey cages in his basement.
