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Teacher wonders why a certain demographic causes 90% of classroom disruptions. But, its the data, apparently. 😐
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White teacher in diverse schoolTeacher Support &/or Advice (self.Teachers)

submitted 2 days ago by ZealousidealPoint573


I have read, heard, seen that students of color are disproportionately written up, disciplined and suspended from school. I know student mental health issues are at an all time high. I know the data. My question is, what do I do when it’s the students of color that are the ones causing 90% of the fights, disruptions, defiance, etc. I have white kids do the same thing, but not at the same rate. I am conscious of the data, and I don’t write kids up unless the behavior warrants it.

We have the same expectations for all students. We have the same supports for all students. I have the same compassion and empathy for all students.

How do I make a difference to change the data?
I think my favorite bit of advice offered was to let the "students of color" yell while coming down hard on the (presumably) whiteys whispering.
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"Different subcultures."

This exchange also gave me a chuckle. Asking a 17 or 18 year old to sit still for ten minutes. Nope.
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"Hey Billy, stop acting like a hoodnigger would you, I dont want to report you for fucks sake" :O
 
I just saw a CMV where the OP said Israel had every right to destroy Hamas. Of course, it's upvote number was 0 and it had almost 1K comments. Some of which were trying to humanize the sandniggers on why they hate the Jews.

I don't care about the jews or Sandniggers and other Muzzies, but it's weird to see people bend over backwards defending Hamas while shitting on the IDF, U.S military, Russian army, etc because they want to be on the right side of history™.
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I get why rightwingers suck Israels dick I dont agree with them but I get it. But I will never understand how leftwing redditors that hate religion, #beleive all women and love gay people can support Hamas which is filled with religious extremists that treat women like shit and kill gay people. Is it just to be a contrarian?
 
I get why rightwingers suck Israels dick I dont agree with them but I get it. But I will never understand how leftwing redditors that hate religion, #beleive all women and love gay people can support Hamas which is filled with religious extremists that treat women like shit and kill gay people. Is it just to be a contrarian?
brown people good

that's all there is to it
 
I get why rightwingers suck Israels dick I dont agree with them but I get it. But I will never understand how leftwing redditors that hate religion, #beleive all women and love gay people can support Hamas which is filled with religious extremists that treat women like shit and kill gay people. Is it just to be a contrarian?
Brown = good white = bad

Their racial self hatred and extremism overrides everything else they claim to give a shit about.
 
Reddit weighs in on the wave of mysterious hallway beeps terrorizing the Black community. I was wondering if it was due to socioeconomic conditions; turns out it is.

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I just saw a CMV where the OP said Israel had every right to destroy Hamas. Of course, it's upvote number was 0 and it had almost 1K comments. Some of which were trying to humanize the sandniggers on why they hate the Jews.

I don't care about the jews or Sandniggers and other Muzzies, but it's weird to see people bend over backwards defending Hamas while shitting on the IDF, U.S military, Russian army, etc because they want to be on the right side of history™.
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Liberals don't believe in good and bad actions, only good and bad teams. There can never be any nuance, everything has to have the "us vs them" morality of a Marvel movie.
 
It's crazy to me that she did not stop til finding a counselor who thinks children sexually abusing younger kids/babies is wrong, that you're not legally allowed to beat a child who sexually abuses a child 8 yrs it's junior and that she didn't get her baby out of that situation yrs ago, when she's seen it happen multiple times.

I’m scared my 9 year old is a danger to my 2 year old. TW::childhood assault​


My 9 year old at the time of the first situation was 7 and my youngest was under 1. He was rubbing my baby’s arms and legs and ended up moving over the diaper that sits on top of the babies genital area and kept rubbing that specific area. I forcefully told my 7 year old to stop that was unacceptable and he doesn’t want to do it again unless he wants to be in trouble. Maybe less than a week later he went to “hug” my infant goodnight while he was laying on my bed and had to contort his hand and borderline groped his private area (again over the diaper). I yelled more than I ever have in my life to stop which I know was wrong and told him stay away from the baby due to not respecting boundaries. I talked to social workers I know and they recommended boundaries of no touching the baby at all and he wasn’t allowed alone again with the baby. We did this and he started therapy. The therapist said she wasn’t concerned. Fast forward a few months and I let them play while I watched. I checked a message on my phone and when I looked up the oldest who just turned 8 year old (same kid as before) had his hand in a puppet Kermit and the face resting on my infants genital area “while watching tv” again he got in trouble and we told the therapist who again wasn’t concerned. Now he’s almost 10 and my youngest is 2. Last week we were all playing at the baby gate and my 2 year old had his hand on the gate and my 9 year old (almost 10) was stepping over the gate but stopped and looked to me had his genitals resting over my 2 year olds hand.
His dad doesn’t think his son (I’m a step mother but really the only mom he has) doesn’t think he’s showing any odd signs it’s just normal curiosity. I do not. I think it’s scary and red flags he will eventually assault my son more than just over the diaper or through pants. It’s a 7.5 year age gap between them. He has had a bad childhood until I came into his life at 5. I have been told it’s problematic because of the age gap and the fact he’s been informed to stop.
I’m wondering if anyone with experience either a parent who’s child showed signs like this, who’s child assaulted a younger sibling, or a person who’s had an older brother like this can tell me any information on what to watch for, if this is a clear indicator he’s being a predator. I cannot leave my husband because then that means leaving my toddler alone in a household without protection. I cant remove my stepson because his mother is a drug addict and his father won’t allow it. We have discussed if we ever have proof he’s hurting our youngest he will be kicked out. But my husband thinks it’s normal kid behavior and I don’t. In my family, siblings have hurt other siblings like this. So my husband thinks I’m projecting but this to me isn’t normal.
Please help me. Please give me advice. I will protect my child at all costs. As of right now my toddler and I share a bedroom and I plan on keeping that for as long as possible. I’m specifically not having another child because I am scared my stepson is a threat. I should add he’s not a bad kid who shows aggression or anger issues. In fact, he really only cries if he gets a screen taken or something but he’s not a great nor horrible kid in other ways. This is really the most concerning behavior I’ve seen from an otherwise okay child.
Guys I have calmly gone over autonomy and his and his brothers rights to not be touched. I explained why it was wrong. I have gently corrected his concerning behavior multiple times. I understand my original post unedited was quick and flustered but please be a little less quick to being a dick.
EDITING TO ADD I love this kid okay I wrote this angry and fighting with my husband and it bled into this and my comments. I want to help him as best I. Can but I also want to protect my two year old son as well. I can only do so much a the stepparent legally speaking ok. Please stop being so shitty towards me as a mother who is scared for BOTH kids and FED UP watching this happen. Also I yelled very loud a year ago and have tirelessly worked to not yell ever in my house no matter what’s happening so pls chill tf out and find grace and thank god you are not in my situation. Thank you
 
finding a counselor who thinks children sexually abusing younger kids/babies is wrong, that you're not legally allowed to beat a child who sexually abuses a child 8 yrs it's junior
Beating would simply not help here, but that kid needs to be far away from the baby at all times, and the mom needs to find a new therapist (preferably male and older than 40).
A few years ago I would’ve said 100% chance this kid was sexually abused, now it’s more like 75% chance and the other 25% a possibility of early porn exposure. Though it can be argued that pornographers are child abusers, since they’re deliberately trying to make this shit as acceptable as possible. Kids today are one wrong Google search away from having their brain structure rearranged in a way that mirrors the results of sexual abuse.
 
Though it can be argued that pornographers are child abusers
The fact that it's easy to search it up? I mean the responsibility is on the parents, and blaming the fact they can't parent on others is just a scapegoat. The world is shitty and becoming more shitty. It's naive to think that the world is going to change.

If things are going to change, humans needs to change and refuse the services at hand. Companies are going to change when they see that the shit they are doing isn't profitable.

And guess who made adults profitable for companies? Parents. If kids are going to grow up healthy and not be a sexpest, they need to be disciplined from birth on how predatory companies are.

Blaming it on how you didn't know is just ignorance you chose yourself and child abuse.

Far from everybody is suited to be a parent, and the best would be to have strict rules on who is fit to be it.
 
The fact that it's easy to search it up? I mean the responsibility is on the parents, and blaming the fact they can't parent on others is just a scapegoat. The world is shitty and becoming more shitty. It's naive to think that the world is going to change.

If things are going to change, humans needs to change and refuse the services at hand. Companies are going to change when they see that the shit they are doing isn't profitable.

And guess who made adults profitable for companies? Parents. If kids are going to grow up healthy and not be a sexpest, they need to be disciplined from birth on how predatory companies are.

Blaming it on how you didn't know is just ignorance you chose yourself and child abuse.

Far from everybody is suited to be a parent, and the best would be to have strict rules on who is fit to be it.
Sounds like a lot of excuses to defend people that prey on children. Yes, parents should look out more. No, being a helicopter parent is not good. Yes, it is desirable to live in a society where you do not need to monitor your child literally 24/7 so they don’t get porn induced brain damage.

Why do you think the most soul crushing hardcore pornography is one innocent Google search away, while our tech overlords work day and night to make sure you can’t cite crime statistics? I need to use a TOR browser half of the year to be even able to access a small Webforum where I can talk freely about this shit while literal child raping human slavers (this is fact after the GDP convictions) operate freely on the clearnet and first page of google.

Far from everybody is suited to be a parent, and the best would be to have strict rules on who is fit to be it.
As opposed to having stricter rules regarding porn? Your true colors are showing you dumb fucking retard nigger.
 
Sounds like a lot of excuses to defend people that prey on children. Yes, parents should look out more. No, being a helicopter parent is not good. Yes, it is desirable to live in a society where you do not need to monitor your child literally 24/7 so they don’t get porn induced brain damage.
I'm more about adapting myself, instead of thinking someone else do. Are you one of those that think politicians actually care about people?
As opposed to having stricter rules regarding porn? Your true colors are showing you dumb fucking retard nigger.
If it's a negative to be realistic about it, so be it. I'm happy that you are seething.
 
So the realistic solution is to somehow legislate who is allowed to have children rather than putting restrictions on porn.

Why are all porn apologists fucking retards?
Watching porn impacts the amount and reactivity of your brain matter.
When gooners go all like "uugh pumping my brain out" they're not joking.
 
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