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HR Professional Calls Out How 'Dystopian' It Feels To Have To Do Our Jobs Amidst Tragedy — 'We Need Some Kind Of Catastrophe Leave'​

Our country and the world have been through hard times before, but there's something distinct about the past few years that feels increasinly abnormal. Even many elderly people, who've lived through the turbulence of World War II or the Civil Rights movement, feel it — everything seems to have gone off the rails.

And we're all expected to just maintain the status quo through all of it. Going about our lives like normal. Logging onto work each day like nothing's happening, like it's just another day.

Amid the ghastly conflict that has erupted in the Middle East, the stomach-churning incongruity of just continuing to work through the horror feels even more pronounced. How are we supposed to continue doing this?

An HR professional thinks it's time for employers to take into account how 'dystopian' it feels to have to do our jobs amidst tragedy.​

Morgan Sanner, an HR professional and resume writer known as @resumeofficial on TikTok, recently shared her thoughts on this bizarre and discomfiting phenomenon that we've all been wrestling with for what seems like decades now.

But then, it has been in a way, hasn't it? The entirety of the 21st century has been one calamity after another. From 9/11 to the 2008 global financial crisis to the 2016 election and January 6, and all the innumerable climate disaster and mass shootings and political fights in between, it has been this way for so long — and we've all just been clocking in for our shifts and showing up for our morning meetings like normal.

"It feels so dystopian to look at the news and see all the awful things happen in the world and then open your computer and continue working like nothing has happened," Sanner said in her video.

Sanner thinks employers need to start recognizing how damaging this is to employees and make space for them to deal with it.​

"I think organizations need to start using some kind of catastrophe leave or something," she said, "because this is not normal to see something so horrific and then be expected to lead a meeting about marketing. Nobody cares about marketing right now."

She's certainly not alone in that sentiment. Social media is full of rueful jokes about this phenomenon, which just serves to underline how universal a feeling it is.

It feels so sickeningly incongruous because, in the end it is. We are human beings, not cogs in a machine, no matter how much our capitalist economy wants us to think otherwise.

It is, in fact, against our very wiring to simply turn away from atrocities and work on a spreadsheet. It feels untenable because it should be untenable. And it really might be time employers start taking that into account.

It is clinically proven that witnessing events secondarily online or in the news is traumatizing.​

It's not just your imagination, and it's not because we've all "gone soft" in recent years. Studies have repeatedly shown that exposure to the horrors that regularly blanket not just our news programming but our social media feeds is actually traumatizing us.

Scientists and mental health professionals call this "vicarious traumatization," and it means our brains quite literally cannot really differentiate between a violent image we see on a screen and one we witness firsthand. Worse still, a 2013 study found that in some cases it is actually more traumatizing to witness a traumatic event secondhand than it is to actually experience it yourself in real time.

The study focused on those who'd witnessed the 2013 Boston Marathon bombing in-person or who lived nearby, and those who'd only watched it on the news. It found that those who watched at least six hours of news coverage of the bombing were actually more acutely stressed than those who were there in-person.
And that's not all — the constant repetition of these images, whether from re-viewing them online or on the news, or from similar events occurring subsequently, means our brains cannot ever actually heal from them and find closure. We just carry around the trauma, day after day, piling them on top of each other.

Notice that none of this research focuses on children, the only group of people we ever seem to talk about with any seriousness when it comes to the impacts of social media. But it is barraging and damaging us all, even those of us fully grown and supposedly above such dangerous susceptibility. Protect your children, yes. But you must also protect yourself.
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So, no, it quite literally isn't normal to have to do our jobs amidst tragedy, and it's damaging our brains and mental health. It's time that we, our workplaces, and our bosses start recognizing this and making space for it. Because the way the world is cracking apart, it certainly isn't going to get better any time soon.

Sometimes, work has to wait. We are human beings, not spreadsheets.
 
HR stands for Human Remains as far as I’m concerned.
Is this author asking for time off for something that affects her personally? My current company has multiple Israeli workers and as we did during the Ukraine kickoff we’ve had to make sure everyone’s safe, provide emergency assistance, etc. the people directly affected got compassionate leave to ensure they were safe, families out of conflict zones etc.
HR can bugger off. Until your cubicles are neck deep in the slime of hell you stay at your posts
 
What a faggot. It really is true that soft times create weak people. Could you imagine what would have happened if people had this kind of attitude back in the 30s and 40s? We would have never climbed out of the Great Depression and would have lost World War Two. "How can you expect me to keep working on making these bomber parts? Don't you know Pearl Harbor was attacked and men are getting killed overseas?! You're being cruel expecting me to do my job with everything happening right now! I deserve to go home and still get paid. You know, for my mental health and shit." I'm so fucking sick and tired of pathetic, weak, cowardly, entitled ass-wipes of the modern era.
 
I don’t know about other parts of the country/state but as a “skilled” tradesman I didn’t get to take any time off for Covid. I never contracted the coof but everyone else was just able to work from home or get paid time off because Covid. I’m not complaining because nobody forced me to work in this career field but everytime I read something like this it reminds me that there’s still very much a class of “expendable” people in the workforce/economy.

For example I’m sure this goober is not going to be demanding that the blockhead who delivers her DoorDash or who serves her Starbucks should be allowed to take a “catastrophe leave”.

This article is about and only focused on the “laptop class”. The problem is that there’s still a lot of unskilled/uncredentialed/hourly service industry workers in the US and the country as a whole is used to just taking for granted that they’ll always be there.
 
Her ancestors: "The barbarians are raping and killing my countrymen as we speak, but if I do not work then my family will starve. I do what I must so we might all see tomorrow."

Her: "Something bad happened 3000 miles away, give me infinity time off. What? No, I don't know anybody involved and it didn't affect me in any way, why do you ask?"
 
lmao, HR isn't a real job, every HR department is a fucking joke stuffed with stock photo looking cardboard cut-out office cunts with no notable talent or ability to speak of whatsoever. they got a fucking associate's degree from a community college and now they get paid to sit around all day typing up inane e-mails and memos and dream up socially destructive policies about how people are allowed to behave, in between facebook scrolling sessions naturally (you gotta take some time for yourself, girl!). of course the worthless bitch who has never done anything productive in her life, a lifelong beneficiary of the power and political agenda of others, thinks we should all be able to just stop working. we should all take some time off!!! except for my hair lady, my nail lady, the people at Starbucks, the people at my favorite breakfast spot, the people at the bodega I always hit on the way home, clothing stores, shoe stores, repair men, etc, because if anything threatened to pop my cozy little consumer bubble it would set my fucking brain on fire. everyone should take time off except the inconceivably massive network of faceless workers required to service my lifestyle exactly how and when I want it.
 
pretend in this RP you are a manager

employee: "hey man, i might need to take a couple of days off"
you: "why? did something happen?"
employee:" nah, that uhh whole conflict that's going on in palestine and israel has gotten me super depressed"
you: "this is a conflict that has nothing to do with you, you know we are short staffed in this business right? i can't afford for you to take a few days off because of a war that's happening in a different country"
employee: "yeah but like, i don't like seeing jewish babies die man. i just don't feel like i'm in the right headspace"
 
All I get from this article is the author admitting that her job is so pointless and irrelevant, she could call in sick whenever she felt like she needed to indulge her inability to cope with her emotions like an adult, and nobody would care, or probably even notice.

One less useless, annoying HR Karen her coworkers have to deal with.
 
If you visit or use any social media, you have no right to complain about being so overwhelmed by news and happenings. Bitch probably has Facebook and Twitter up in open tabs all day and doom scrolls political content on tiktok, then wonders why she's just sooo overwhelmed.
 
lmao, HR isn't a real job, every HR department is a fucking joke stuffed with stock photo looking cardboard cut-out office cunts with no notable talent or ability to speak of whatsoever. they got a fucking associate's degree from a community college and now they get paid to sit around all day typing up inane e-mails and memos and dream up socially destructive policies about how people are allowed to behave, in between facebook scrolling sessions naturally (you gotta take some time for yourself, girl!). of course the worthless bitch who has never done anything productive in her life, a lifelong beneficiary of the power and political agenda of others, thinks we should all be able to just stop working. we should all take some time off!!! except for my hair lady, my nail lady, the people at Starbucks, the people at my favorite breakfast spot, the people at the bodega I always hit on the way home, clothing stores, shoe stores, repair men, etc, because if anything threatened to pop my cozy little consumer bubble it would set my fucking brain on fire. everyone should take time off except the inconceivably massive network of faceless workers required to service my lifestyle exactly how and when I want it.
Women demanded to be let into the work place. The result was HR.

Need I say more?
 
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