I say this kindly, but firmly: Jesus Christ, would you shut up with "I told you so." We all know you asked for it. You don't need to keep saying it. We know.
We all also know the response is that DMZ is not an option. And that a thoughtful discussion on and dissection of feminismS is also not going to be an option here, because there are some folks (a select but very active few) who are heavily invested in showing their asses and derailing in bad faith. They have no interest in learning or discussing because they don't understand the difference between challenge/ critical debate and stupid cheap-shot warfare, and never modify their approach. Not only is rapprochement not in their vocabulary nor their wheelhouse, but they assume everyone thinks like them (and/or are just inherently, chronically, terminally suspicious and incapable of behaving too lazy to behave in any other way). They "discuss" by attempting to lay cheap gotchas rather than occasionally shutting the fuck up about things they know nothing about. They will outright say you're a liar when you attempt any level of good-faith discussion or debate. Their interest is in creating red herrings and setting up strawmen, deliberately or idiotically misconstruing comments, injecting every interaction with chest-thumping and bile, and presumptively declaring "victory" even when it was not, and did not need to be, a win-lose situation. Those malcontents prevent a potentially interesting and possibly even edifying discussion. ...That said, presumptively treating every dissenting voice in the same way as the malicious blockheads also ruins the opportunity, and it, too, derails any actual on-point discussion.
Tl; dr: assholes aside, continuing to carp about ill-intentioned disruptors, and acting like the Joan of Arc no one asked for isn't improving the thread.