Sometimes that is true, the cynical part of me thinks she just wanted the threesome because she was already planning on fucking other people and wanted to use that to justify it. Kind of like if a woman wants to have an open relationship, she either wants to fuck someone else or already is. I do understand the jaded bit from personal experience, there's an old saw about how you can either love women or understand women. I think you can do both, but once you start to understand them, you can't love them all unconditionally, but you can love them individually. You just have to love them for what they are, not what we, the actual romantic sex, would like them to be.
As dumb as a lot of the RedPill community is these days, the actual good parts will always point out that it's about is not ought.