Oh, I just mislead these women about my politics until we break up, then the coup de grâce comes where I tell them just how little I actually ever agreed with them and I make fun of their ideas. I would've gotten away with little drama with my last breakup except I had to whisper that little nugget to the fat friend knowing it'd get passed on.
Don't mistake that for thinking all my relationships have that dynamic, that's certainly not true. I'm very protective of another ex of mine who is one of these stand-up women I mentioned, just... with severe issues.
Agreed, I've called it perpetual childhood many times. Their increasingly juvenile makeup, the fake freckle fad, "big titty goth gf," endless partying... Most of KF probably never dated these women so while they may know this on a semantic level, they don't know it and feel it in their bones, you know? It's more visceral for us, and there's just nuances you notice that you just can't pass on to other people. I'm sure you will agree that these people are dangerously stupid and dangerously fucked, and they tend to be the charismatic narcissists that influence other women in their groups.