I don't really shame a guy for cheating if they in a sexless marriage. Shows the girl only settled for resources and never truly loved them. If the average guy (obviously not drex) is working 80 hours a week, paying the bills, sharing his riches to his wife and children and the wife can't even be attracted to him, why is she there?
Women are not capable of love. Let's be real. Humans in general are not able to love. Everything is conditional. We need to grow up from this Disney mindset that people can love unconditionally. The closest thing a human can love is their own progeny, but even that is questionable.