Kelly Lenza / LividLipids / softbodytendermind / ass_child / photopotamus - "Radical body liberationist”, Intentionally Repulsive, Uber woke middle-aged SJW influencer wannabe, doxed her former therapist for getting WLS, ate her way to heart failure

[LonesomeDud]

I wonder how often she visits her gynaecologist. Incoming endometrial cancer arc maybe. There’s no way I’d believe she didn’t already have endometrial hyperplasia given how huge she is.

I bet she is oddly on top of her yearly cervical exams. In my experience, those types love compelling others to touch them. I guess it's a small blessing.

 

[Sonalee Rashitwar]

Just catching up on the Kelly thread after being absent after the issues with the site being dropped. I'd fall under the "nice TERF" description of the more politically liberal members, and I'm trying to stay off time wasting. But damn if I don't keep following Kelly and the weird Christian fundie families discussed here. Mainly because I hope for the kids of these self-absorbed and awful parents. Not gonna lie, hoping a kid bolts a la Faith Pennington.

But hearing that Kelly's scapegoat child has diabetes, a chronic problem requiring daily management, changes for the family, and care, is a little too close to home.

Spoiler: Slight PL but also insight

Hazel is just so helpless about her illness, it makes me sick. Kelly is too self-absorbed and focused on how she and the family "look", what's easiest or best for her, and her beliefs (here FA, not religion), that she's going to neglect that kid to a health crisis or death. These things don't end well. Hazel had a traumatic experience with being rushed to PICU with DKA, and now coming to terms with an illness, a struggle she'll have to manage, and Kelly won't or can't help her at all. More tests and questions and constant things to remember, for a young child. She (H) is alone in this. It really does almost make me cry.

This same general pattern happened in my own life, but not diabetes; similar only in that both problems present rather alarming symptoms. The health issue was pretty much seen as my "fault" and something I had to wrestle with on my own. But, at least I was a teenager at the time. Learned to be more responsible w/r/t health because I couldn't fall back on my parents, and had the good luck of wonderful friends and community along with a level of scrutiny from those outside the family.

Hazel is, what, seven? Probably no friends, can't be expected to fully handle her own care, no other trustworthy adults to tell Kelly she might be messing up on caring for her daughter and should change it up. She really has no one.

I (eventually) had another adult stand up for me and was lucky enough to be at an age cutoff where I could make my own medical decisions, so I just...started making them, listening to non-shitty adults for what to decide. Hazel won't be able to do this for another nine years. I shudder to think the health damage Kelly and her views and her laziness and her scapegoating can do until then. I got out largely physically unscathed, eventually got to "better". This kid won't.

TL;DR: Hazel is not and will not get good, competent care and the necessary changes to help with her diabetes, because of who and how mom is. Less favored kids of self-centered parents often don't get their needs met. This includes needs around their health. I'm MATI and also really sad about this. Not planning on posting a lot here, but damn, Kelly, you broke that. I can't stay quiet because your kid deserves better.

Someone find a spine, stand up to Kelly, and do better.

 

[I call shenanigans]

Someone find a spine, stand up to Kelly, and do better.

After Hazel’s diagnosis Kelly re-enrolled the girls in school. While that doesn’t help with how her condition is managed at home (it won’t be), it does get numerous pairs of mandatory reporters eyes on Hazel most days.

 

[LonesomeDud]

After Hazel’s diagnosis Kelly re-enrolled the girls in school. While that doesn’t help with how her condition is managed at home (it won’t be), it does get numerous pairs of mandatory reporters eyes on Hazel most days.

CPS can't do a thing about Kelly.

 

[Breadbear]

Chicagoland CPS has far worse cases to worry about than Hazel.
Her diabetes will at least be managed in school, which isn't great but better than not at all.

 

[Thomas Eugene Paris]

I feel like Kelly has been on the first day of her period for the past three weeks.

So gender-affirming uwu

 

[LonesomeDud]

So gender-affirming uwu

Doesn't bother her a bit either. I can get why bleeding out of your vagina uncontrollably while it hurts is an upsetting event, but this one doesn't phase THEM.

 

[often puzzled]

Kelly dump: Instagram stories and Twitter. No new Instagram grid posts, did not check Facebook. Also did not clip all the pro-Palestine stuff, which was all the generic stuff you're seeing everywhere.

I like eyebrow cat:

Spoiler: Twitter

In response to one of those find-a-word-esque blocks of text where the first X number of words you see supposedly determine Y. This one was three words that determine your next year.

Spoiler: Instagram stories

Still from video. Video at end of post, under spoiler.

"I'm a hairy bitch."



"I've turned up the font size on my phone bcuz I was struggling to read tiny letters. Yay accessibility!"



"I feel a lot of social anxiety around both telling ppl it's my birthday and not telling people."



"Good morning all, I have arrived way too early for an ultrasound. Gotta get the ol' ut checked out. Weird start to birthday week."



Still from video "modeling" tarp.


Still from "modeling" video. Clean your room.



And clean your bathroom.



This is all apparently from an order of new clothes.

Spoiler: "I'm a hairy bitch" video

 

[DefCon Dumb]

How many ways can one person be revoltingly ugly?

 

[Trombonista]

Nice to see Jerry is still a fatass too.

 

[Blerg]

Frankly I feel like Cutie Kitty is all of us, just trying to survive the Kelly Experience, until we can all finally, collectively rest.

I like eyebrow cat:

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[LonesomeDud]

Thoughts:

I hope my cats don't see me as Jerry when they snuggle up to me or I'm going to hang myself in the bathroom.

Nice-looking cat.

Jerry needs to man up and tell Kelly to stop blowing so much money on clothes. If she's not on the first day of her period, she's buying new clothes. It's not my bank account, but imagine THAT being your ball and chain and spending all your money.

 

[Terffals]

Nice to see Jerry is still a fatass too.

I honestly did not register him as a different person than Kelly at first. They’ve achieved total fat-androgyny. They’re like a Gary Larson cartoon come to life.

 

[Breadbear]

The backgrounds of her photos are always interesting.

Spoiler: Water closet

Portable bidet ? Cup holder? Basket of wet wipes on the wall.


Mouthwash, toothbrush brush-down in a Clorox container? Or is this just a weird cup? Either way, gross spot to keep your tooth brush, in the water closet right above the toilet.


A cross-stitch cat? Hopefully innocent enough.

Spoiler: bedroom

What am I looking at here? The first thing to come to mind is "leaf blower" and I'm 80% sure that's wrong.

Spoiler: living room

The Christmas tree is already up, but hey, you do you. Or maybe it never came down.


And here's Jerry, probably unaware that his wife is filming him and sticking him up online in a video about how hairy she is.

 

[Angry New Ager]

The backgrounds of her photos are always interesting.

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Portable bidet ? Cup holder? Basket of wet wipes on the wall.

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Mouthwash, toothbrush brush-down in a Clorox container? Or is this just a weird cup? Either way, gross spot to keep your tooth brush, in the water closet right above the toilet.

I wonder if all of the kids' scribbles with markers on the bathroom door and walls ever got painted over? I doubt it.

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What am I looking at here? The first thing to come to mind is "leaf blower" and I'm 80% sure that's wrong.

Well, you're not wrong; it's a blower; just not for leaves. It's a fan meant to keep air moving at floor level (carpet cleaners, and anybody who does flood cleanup, use bigger versions). Some of the small home versions tilt, to recirculate cooler air at floor level back upward, and I think that's what this is.

 

[Blerg]

The backgrounds of her photos are always interesting.

Spoiler: Water closet

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Portable bidet ? Cup holder? Basket of wet wipes on the wall.

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Mouthwash, toothbrush brush-down in a Clorox container? Or is this just a weird cup? Either way, gross spot to keep your tooth brush, in the water closet right above the toilet.

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A cross-stitch cat? Hopefully innocent enough.

Spoiler: bedroom

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What am I looking at here? The first thing to come to mind is "leaf blower" and I'm 80% sure that's wrong.

Spoiler: living room

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The Christmas tree is already up, but hey, you do you. Or maybe it never came down.

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And here's Jerry, probably unaware that his wife is filming him and sticking him up online in a video about how hairy she is.

And just the one toothbrush, too. Where are the other tooth brushes? How many separate bathrooms would one house have? I always assumed two for her, while simultaneously hating myself for thinking about it at all, which means a minimum of two tooth brushes per Clorox cup, regardless of which bathroom is (ergh) used to film.

 

[glass_houses]

And just the one toothbrush, too. Where are the other tooth brushes? How many separate bathrooms would one house have? I always assumed two for her, while simultaneously hating myself for thinking about it at all, which means a minimum of two tooth brushes per Clorox cup, regardless of which bathroom is (ergh) used to film.

If it were anyone else but Kelly, I'd assume that the toothbrush was an old one, discarded from its intended purpose and used for cleaning the bathroom. Ocd types love to use toothbrushes for cleaning tiny nooks and crannies. But this is Kelly we're talking about... so yeah.

 

[𝕺𝖑' 𝕯𝖎𝖗𝖙𝖞 𝕱𝖆𝖙𝖘𝖔]

Jesus christ, that cup is from fucking Raising Cane's. A reminder in case she forgot to eat her bedtime chicken I guess

 

[Plague Flea]

Jesus christ, that cup is from fucking Raising Cane's.

I *knew* it was a food cup. It just had to be. I couldn‘t get past thinking it was from a Pot Noodle, but Raising Cane’s is much more on brand for Big Kel.

 

[Breadbear]

I *knew* it was a food cup. It just had to be. I couldn‘t get past thinking it was from a Pot Noodle, but Raising Cane’s is much more on brand for Big Kel.

I guess Clorox was too optimistic