I've seen a lot of circumstantial evidence. I've not seen any definitive proof of anything. The closest thing I saw to evidence of rape was a girl in sweatpants with blood all over the ass. It certainly implies rape, but isn't proof of it. The only thing I've really seen proven is shootings and kidnappings. The Israeli government and a bunch of journalists claim to have definitive proof but refuse to release it out of respect for the victims. This is a giant red flag and makes me think it's bullshit. If they want to make me look like an asshole, release the proof. A little pile of charred up bones isn't direct proof people are beheading babies.
Yes, I do want to hear about the conditions the hostages were subjected to from the actual hostages themselves. Just because those hostages were women and children doesn't make me inclined to believe the account of some government propaganda arm speaking in their stead. The Israeli government made a lot of pretty wild claims and swore they had definitive evidence of it. Just show it. If it's so bad that it justifies the indiscriminate bombing of civilians, then it's important enough for the public to see.