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Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious
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edit: this is ask women question dunno how to edit the headline
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How many times do females have to deal with Sex pests on a daily or weekly basis and don't tell anyone? From talking to some female friends, it happens a lot.
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I mean I'm a dude but it's pretty obvious that if you have nothing going on in life besides eating pizza and watching Netflix there's really not much of a reason for anyone to put in the effort and go out with you.
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Having "no interests outside of work" sounds so unbearably uninteresting like I'm picturing a guy who comes home from the office and sits on his single boxspring cot and stares quietly at the wall until it's time to sleep.
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I will never understand people who have no interests or hobbies. There are so many fucking things out there in the world how is it even possible to be interested in nothing? Like how much of an absolute braindead NPC of a human being must you be to have no interests or hobbies you could possibly discuss with someone else?
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Here's a novel idea. You have to leave the house to meet people.
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I added the edit at the end of the OP specifically to avoid this thread being made. Although I appreciate people trying to help. I don't really want advice at this point. I just wanted to know if this issue was present in a significant portion of the female population in their 20s/30s. I posted this in the man hate thread because I didn't want sympathy. I just wanted a question answered.
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Sorry for the advice in that case. The answer in short is 'mostly no'. Women tend to prevent other women we are semi close to (relations, friends, even not very good of friends) falling into The Hole of no social life. We don't bother doing this for our male associates. Largely because they tend to misinterpret this as us hitting on them and ugh and just it all goes bad from there. I do it for my older male relative because he has a TBI and finds socialising offputting, but is also very lonely and enjoys the actual socialising once you get him there.
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Sorry bud you just gave me the general ask woman thread idea didn't knew what else to put in the op
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So, british white men.
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Sure, there’s plenty of single women in that age bracket with no defined hobbies or interests who want partners, but they all come with 2-3 kids already.
I’m guessing that’s a dealbreaker for him.
I’m guessing that’s a dealbreaker for him.
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I mean, I can relate in the sense that I don't think "femoids" would respond positively to any of my interests. I always thought acting boring would work out better for me.
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Well, what are the interests that are so repellent to half the population?
Ngl if your only hobby is hentai you’re really shopping in a narrow market, but most hobbies short of going full Bundy are accepted.
Your partner may not share your interests but that doesn’t mean they aren’t cool with you pursuing them.
Acting boring is a terrible plan. Why the fuck would anyone want to spend the rest of their natural life, every holiday, every vacation, every weekend, with someone who had absolutely fuck all to talk about except work? Have some topic of conversation, some interests you pursue.
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How to get into skincare? Im mid twenties so i figure theres still something to be saved in my case but without family or rl womenfriends its kinda hard to get into cus if i ask my friends im just called a faggit and im pretty sure most of them just wing it anyway.
Yea if you were lucky enough to find your passion early in life i gues its hard to wrap your head around how some people struggle with finding hobbies but sadly that not the case for everyone. I dont even mean being retarded or frying your brain with drugs but just being unable to get significant enjoyment out of things or worse being told that "average" exitement for things isnt good enough. Hell being poor alone is quite a limiting factor in being able to try things out.
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Out of curiosity, why don't you want advice? The obvious advice is, of course, find things to enjoy - for yourself, for your quality of life, for your health, for your brain - even putting aside that it's a good idea in terms of interpersonal interactions.
And I'm also curious - when you envision a quality, long-term relationship (I'm assuming, based on tone, that's the kind of thing you're looking for/correct me if wrong!), what do you see it looking like? Do you want someone who doesn't have any interests? What does life look like?
I'm not in your age band and don't know many people irl in that particular range well, but I do know folks in the next younger age range (and folks in 40s/50s), and they all have things they enjoy. For some it's niche solo hobbies/interests they pour a lot of time/effort/money into (collectible, meticulous construction of miniature scale model muscle cars, for example, or belonging to a touring medieval music quartet, constructing crossword puzzles, spreadsheet-level wine collecting, cultivating rare radishes, road trips to alleged secret society markers, etc.*- like I said, niche and semi-intense), whereas for others it's pretty basic/plain vanilla enjoyment of a variety of things (reading, baking, working out, seeing music/shows, travel, movies, football, flying, running, meditation, tennis (or fucking pickleball), gardening, hiking, whatever). I can't think of anyone I know who is the least bit happy or you'd think to recommend as a potential date who doesn't have any interests or even casual hobbies/things they like to do.
*all but one of those are real things that people I know are into
Note - I am making the distinction between people in a period of high-intensity work or other obligations without much time or ability to enjoy or take up a hobby/interest vs people who just aren't interested in anything. And I guess also between people in a current lull where things may be of little interest vs people who just don't have a spark for anything/don't care to.
It's not about having hobbies that will attract people, but about being a person with some depth and texture. Life is so much more fun when you have things you care about and that bring you joy and purpose. And back to interpersonal - if you want to know interesting people, be an interesting person.
But why tho?
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i'm weening myself off entertainment so i can focus on my writing
but to be fair i still browse the internet