Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

[Towoman]

Why is this so common amongst men?

Imagine not leaving the house for weeks at a time except to buy food over the course of a few years. You'll very quickly stop caring after forgetting to brush after a few weeks because why bother when the plan for the comming days is just to continue being a shut in. Teethbrushing can wait until its time to stock up on food and the deliveryservice guys that might have to endure the stench dont matter because you can just order somewhere else and this is just what comes to mind off the top of my head.
Also dont blame it on the parents, as far as i can tell boys arrent just not told that bad breath is sozial suicide(at least in my friendcircle) but feel free to blame shutins.

all male monkey-troupes

aka the local soccer club

He believes that it is unreasonable and offensive for other people to request that he not cause them to look around to see who just shit themselves.

Manchild moment but you should have gotten some blokes to beat him up every day he continued to encourage his mouthrott so its somewhat your fault too for tolerating it. Still dont think you deserve that but whats done is done

Is the underlying problem with these lonely shut-in men actually that they don't have any male friends?

I think one has to be heavily autistic to be literally friendless since i cant imagine anyone failing to get some dude gamer friends from whatever game one dumps their time into. I gues you could also just do literally nothing as a shutin but thats a depression problem then.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

Oh, no. He does none of that. He believes that it is unreasonable and offensive for other people to request that he not cause them to look around to see who just shit themselves. He finds it completely unreasonable that I will not play tonsil hockey with someone who everyone turns their face away from when he speaks. It is that bad.

Why are you married to him still?

 

[The Skeksis Emperor]

Greetings foids. I have a question. Looks wise, what do women value more, body or face?

Body I guess. I have to agree with other foids here and say don't be fatter than chubby. No need to be fit even, I vastly prefer a spooky skelly over an obese man. Fat obscures all the things that are so attractive in the male form imo. Other than that it's mostly personality and how someone carries themselves.

 

[LinkinParkxNaruto[AMV]]

i cant imagine anyone failing to get some dude gamer friends from whatever game one dumps their time into.

Social interaction through online videogames and social media is only a simulacra.

 

[Anne Hyroe]

Looks are temporary glory of Rome is eternal.

We’ll always stan a classicist king.

 

[Mordecai "3 Finger" Brown]

I worked on a psychiatry ward BITD.

I still recall a psychiatrist talking about how all male schizophrenics are doomed to be single and alone while female schizophrenics at least had a chance at a relationship because men were more willing to tolerate and overlook more.

 

[4506-C]

Body I guess. I have to agree with other foids here and say don't be fatter than chubby. No need to be fit even, I vastly prefer a spooky skelly over an obese man. Fat obscures all the things that are so attractive in the male form imo. Other than that it's mostly personality and how someone carries themselves.

You can starve a fatty down to size via controlling diet and forcing gym time but it’s more effort than it’s worth unless you’ve got the I Can Fix Him mindset baked-in

 

[Towoman]

Social interaction through online videogames and social media is only a simulacra.

Very much true but moids can make due with that since trannies are also just pretending and yet still going.

 

[dvnc]

I vastly prefer a spooky skelly over an obese man.

I'm on the other end of the femoid spectrum with that. I like a man with some meat on his bones. Overtly fit or thin is gross.

 

[56 others]

I feel like random people are more hostile to me these days.

I'm not ugly, im not short, I shower/shit/shave everyday. Im not super fit but im in solid shape, and I dress like everyone else, so I have all the first impression stuff down.

But the cashiers at every shop and people on the street seem to look at me and become upset or look like I ruined their day. They'll be chatting and laughing with the customer before me, and as soon as I step up their while demeanor visibly changes. Guys at the gun store, nerds at the gaming shop, associates at the departments stores, I seem to bring them all down.

I try to talk to random people I'm trapped in line with or at some function with, and I only seem to get along with old men.
What happened, it wasnt like this 2 years ago, and I really dont think it was covid.

 

[The Holy Empress Theodora]

I haven’t kissed my spouse in nearly twenty years due to the utter horror stench that emits from his mouth hole. Not even at the wedding.

Why are you married to him still?

Why did you marry him in the first place? I can't imagine a quality special enough to sacrifice kissing your own husband... and tooth infections can be lethal

 

[Susanna]

I feel like random people are more hostile to me these days.

I'm not ugly, im not short, I shower/shit/shave everyday. Im not super fit but im in solid shape, and I dress like everyone else, so I have all the first impression stuff down.

But the cashiers at every shop and people on the street seem to look at me and become upset or look like I ruined their day. They'll be chatting and laughing with the customer before me, and as soon as I step up their while demeanor visibly changes. Guys at the gun store, nerds at the gaming shop, associates at the departments stores, I seem to bring them all down.

I try to talk to random people I'm trapped in line with or at some function with, and I only seem to get along with old men.
What happened, it wasnt like this 2 years ago, and I really dont think it was covid.

It can be really hard to judge yourself, and if you've got "average" looks like you describe, there's really no reason for people to react negatively. Maybe you have a mean expression? Maybe you smell? It's really hard to guess what might be wrong with your appearance based only on your own text description, short of facedoxing yourself with a mirror selfie we can't help you. If you PM me I promise I won't spread the picture, but that's all I can do.

 

[Yaks]

I'm on the other end of the femoid spectrum with that. I like a man with some meat on his bones. Overtly fit or thin is gross.

I think both ends of the extreme are bad. But like for example I'd 100% pick the typical Strongman look over any other body type myself if I'm going to pick on body type alone that I find the most attractive. Strong, sturdy, natural, but also would feel nice to cuddle.

 

[KittyGremlin]

Ok, I'm going to ask a question that's bound to come up sooner or later here anyway.

What do you think are good spaces to meet women IRL? I feel like simply looking for hobbies or clubs with a female majority makes you come off as invasive and desperate while forcing yourself to be into something you don't actually like is pretty exhausting (even if I can be quite flexible with my interests), overall putting you in a *very* uneasy and awkward position. Of course, on the flip side if it's very male dominated you probably won't get many opportunities to socialize with women and a larger proportion of that sliver will be into it only for male attention anyway. I'm aware that Church is the answer many will give, but not everyone is religious and nowadays in most countries it's quite dominated by old people.

What do you think?

 

[dvnc]

What do you think?

I think that this is an impossible question to answer in the current state of society. Which makes it unfair to men (and women). But everyone is just too attached to their social media and phone apps. No one really spends time out unless it's a bar or club.

 

[KittyGremlin]

I think that this is an impossible question to answer in the current state of society. Which makes it unfair to men (and women). But everyone is just too attached to their social media and phone apps. No one really spends time out unless it's a bar or club.

Maybe I should try the ol' Viking strat and just kidnap someone I like?

 

[dvnc]

Maybe I should try the ol' Viking strat and just kidnap someone I like?

That's super romantic and I support this.

 

[KittyGremlin]

That's super romantic and I support this.

Hmmm, should I go with the historically accurate Viking helmet or the one with horns?

 

[AWizard]

What do you think?

You're asking too direct a question.

Social interaction through online videogames and social media is only a simulacra.

If this was 15 or so years ago in the good old days of the 00s internet, you could parley it into something tangible. It's what I was saying in another thread. Now the internet full of crazy people bleeding in from reality.

 

[Susanna]

Synagogue.
Anyway, I’d suggest hobbies or gym classes. Don’t be a creep, let her show interest in you before you make a move, but you’ll definitely meet women there. Or evening classes in a language you’re interested in learning. Or get politically engaged, unless your politics are super cringe conservative stuff there’ll be women. Dancing maybe. Or you can get a dog and hang out at the popular dog spots in your town.
Just find something to do that isn’t a loner activity like hiking and photography (women love both, but you won’t meet anyone) and that isn’t a male-only social activity, like Warhammer or MtG.

Speaking of Vikings, re-enactment and historical faires could work.