Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

[AWizard]

It *happens* but isn't common.

It's rare. That doesn't mean these women are not dysfunctional, but the whole no social life no hobbies thing isn't how women express that.

And these women are real friends. They start off as stone cold strangers and they are real honest to God friends so fast. I am godmother to kids whose mothers I met on craft retreats and in fandom Livejournals and similar dark femoid interest oubliettes. The bonding of the weird awkward females is very real.

Anon may be an ugly outcast, so he only plays games and goes on 4chan, but Anonette might be better at socializing only because she's dragged into it by other women.
From Anon's perspective, he might think Anonette is a normie if he sees her in public, not realizing she's the one that called him a faggot the night before on /a/.

So essentially the most of the "mirror" population of catladies and femcels are already in social circles? What happens when they want to look for a significant other? Cos like the visible male population that aren't locked in their rooms must be smaller than the number of women in these social circles.

The difference between what I describe above and their male equivalent, Single Anime Dude, is that women are fucking brilliant at finding their tribe.

I think 'single anime dude' (or nerd/geek) is a relatively new phenomenon. They're casualties of absorption of geek culture into the monoculture.

(I'm assuming this threads is specifically for anons in the late 20s/early 30s, which is where everything works against you).

 

[Neurotypical Mantis]

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[56 others]

that is

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a homersexual

 

[Fareal]

So essentially the most of the "mirror" population of catladies and femcels are already in social circles? What happens when they want to look for a significant other? Cos like the visible male population that aren't locked in their rooms must be smaller than the number of women in these social circles.


I think 'single anime dude' (or nerd/geek) is a relatively new phenomenon. They're casualties of absorption of geek culture into the monoculture.

(I'm assuming this threads is specifically for anons in the late 20s/early 30s, which where everything works against you).

If you have a really busy and fulfilling social life, the compulsion to Get A Partner is drastically less. Moids are socialised to have their captive femoid run their social life - organise family shit, friend shit, generally be their social secretary and tard wrangler - so a lone moid gets out appreciably less than a paired-off moid. The opposite is true of femoids. Femoids will go many months, indeed years with no bf and in fact have a pretty happy life.

 

[anliteralidiot]

I listen to a lot of extreme metal these days and recently started learning guitar because of it. I've always had a big appreciation for music, noticing and being moved by the way non-lyrical aspects of music are used to create a mood or paint a picture. I think that's pretty off-putting for most people, I imagine most women would think it's either shit I'm pretending to like to seem unique or that it's an indicator that I'm fucked in the head. There's nothing practical about it and it's one of those "taste" things that most people just don't get and outright reject as a result. I also enjoy getting a customized feel and sound from my keyboard when typing or gaming, so I'm mildly into the custom keyboard hobby. I've had an interest in learning and reading non-fiction since I was very young, particularly about space and space-related things. That's nerd shit though, I guess if I need to make a woman cringe or fall asleep I can bring those up. I've raised backyard chickens before, and when I'm able to I would like to do so again. Not really much to talk about there though, chickens are pretty straightforward animals. They're endearing and you won't find better eggs than ones from your own home, that's about it.

So, you're into music theory for your fav genre, and you think that's off-putting? Music theory is cool, and exploring the different textures and tones in music is cool. I don't understand why you think it's off-putting.

I have female friends who are also into keyboards. I'm vaguely interested in them myself.

There's also nothing wrong with learning about, and being interested in space?

And I have backyard chickens. They're straightforward, sure, but they're still fun.

My brother in Christ, you sound like a cool guy. I don't know what you think's wrong lol?

 

[NoReturn]

Not the bots, I ain't that retarded. Well I guess not respond, dunno fuck it's the damn single mothers that respond with single word responses. It's not like I'm really that into them but fuck this gay earth anyways. I need to get out more.

Then start pushing them. Have fun with it. Ask them their opinions on politics and Israel. If they're gonna ditch you anyway, at least make it entertaining. Maybe one will respond positively and you'll find your based waifu.

I just generally got a lot of my shit together during/after covid. More muscle, car that isnt a shitbox, good mental health, new clothes, and a lot less fear, but I guess im still a pretty quiet person.

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I bought one of these stupid hats and wore it around in public, and people loved it.
Another thing I did sometimes places I didnt live is I'd do that exaggerated swagger walk that wiggers do, and people genuinely responded positively to it, and girls were checking me out without laughing. It was done for a laugh, and I dont want to accept that the way to get ahead socially is to be more obnoxious.

I feel more secure now in my guess that you're just accidentally uncanny-valley-ing people. Something about how you're acting doesn't match your looks.

Where from? Childish vindictiveness doesn't really serve anyone in that scenario.

DnD group.

So essentially the most of the "mirror" population of catladies and femcels are already in social circles? What happens when they want to look for a significant other? Cos like the visible male population that aren't locked in their rooms must be smaller than the number of women in these social circles.

It is and it's a problem. Slight PL, but my industry has more men in it than women, and I don't know what to tell the men when it comes to finding them dates. Almost all the women I know are either taken, or too "delicate" for the type of men I woke with. Where are the single farm girls?

If you have a really busy and fulfilling social life, the compulsion to Get A Partner is drastically less. Moids are socialised to have their captive femoid run their social life - organise family shit, friend shit, generally be their social secretary and tard wrangler - so a lone moid gets out appreciably less than a paired-off moid. The opposite is true of femoids. Femoids will go many months, indeed years with no bf and in fact have a pretty happy life.

You know, at that first sentence I wasn't sure if I was going to agree with you, but you raise a damn good point. I only know one guy irl who does Christmas cards by himself (and he's single, ladies).
Not many men are raised to actively create "social" situations. Think of how often you get a surprised pikachu when you respond to the "No one invites me to hang out" guy with "How many people have you invited to hang out?"

 

[macrodegenerate]

Weird question. What do you women think of the the Linebacker physic? I've heard a lot of women in this thread dislike fat men, but is fat with muscle a no go as well?

 

[generic sauce]

Then start pushing them. Have fun with it. Ask them their opinions on politics and Israel. If they're gonna ditch you anyway, at least make it entertaining. Maybe one will respond positively and you'll find your based waifu.

I actually got banned from tinder last time I tried that.

 

[KittyGremlin]

DnD group.

well color me surprised

 

[Susanna]

Weird question. What do you women think of the the Linebacker physic? I've heard a lot of women in this thread dislike fat men, but is fat with muscle a no go as well?

Any fat is a huge nope.
I'm into skinny guys though, so my opinion probably isn't what you care about. Lean muscles are hot, but none would be better than bulky.

 

[macrodegenerate]

Though I have seen at least one guy online admit to doing this on purpose. He said he thought it was a fair "punishment" for her to lose whatever the thing was for turning him down

>Be female
>Get punished for being asked out.

 

[Fields Of Rye]

"the bread guy"

all I can think about is all the women I know who would kill to be dating "the bread guy who also cooks mushrooms"

also I want to know your ink opinions. My former boss stole my Montblanc Starwalker and I've never really got over it

Yeah but you know, everyone loves fresh bread but the process of creating it, especially if you aren't a bread person, with a bread person, sort of sucks. It's like going on a run with a runner.

Oh sure, two people, bumbling around, looking for something to do? "Oh let's make bread". 10/10 idea if you are a already a functional couple. Terrific way to frame the night. Don't know each other well? One person knows a lot about bread?Lot's of dead air? Imagine sitting there kneading tough fucking dough (you fucked it up but don't know it) watching some guy do the Indian bread slap explaining glutanin and gleadin for like 3 hours (he says bread machines are the devil)

No, it's much better to make the bread and then bring the bread. Which is why when things sort of fizzle on the second week (you talked about mushrooms for 2 hours) but you're still friendly, you become the bread guy, which can only be described as "Friends with benefits, but the benefits are entirely oriented around being invited to the occasional potluck". Not bad honestly.

I actually got to use a Montblanc pen last week since my boss has one as well. The flow was about the only thing I enjoyed. The pen felt heavy, it inked heavier than I felt like I was pressing and the ink was kind of watery. Then again his is really, really fucking old and he's the type to buy knockoff ink so who knows.

Personally I mix my own inks, and use very bog standard calligraphy writing nibs. I've probably sour-graped myself a little with the city slicker and his fancy German pen but something about the way the ink dries so you can just barely tell what strokes overlapped and more subtle range of colors makes me prefer my literal peasant setup. Fuck it, I like it being a little scratchy.

 

[Anne Hyroe]

Weird question. What do you women think of the the Linebacker physic? I've heard a lot of women in this thread dislike fat men, but is fat with muscle a no go as well?

I very much have a type, and it’s not this, but there’s a lot to be said for having a guy who can throw you around a bit and even my fellow twink-enjoyers will agree.

 

[Shidoen]

Is she really worth keeping around if she doesn't threaten to cut your dick off at least once?

 

[Susanna]

I actually got to use a Montblanc pen last week since my boss has one as well. The flow was about the only thing I enjoyed. The pen felt heavy, it inked heavier than I felt like I was pressing and the ink was kind of watery. Then again his is really, really fucking old and he's the type to buy knockoff ink so who knows.

I just use a Lamy Safari F with a converter and whatever ink the bookstore has in stock...

 

[suspended animation]

Weird question. What do you women think of the the Linebacker physic? I've heard a lot of women in this thread dislike fat men, but is fat with muscle a no go as well?

I'm into that type of physique, but also like plenty of men who range from skinny to bulky.
Personality, especially a sense of humor, is the biggest attraction for me.

The better the personality a guy has, the cuter he becomes. Intelligence and kindness all add to the appeal.

Actually, I think you'll find a lot of women really like the linebacker type, if it's what I'm thinking of..kind of a big strong teddy bear type?

 

[Sneed S. McSneedensen]

Memes aside, I have solved the femoid puzzle:

If you are on a path in life headed somewhere, women typically like to tag along. And by tag along, I mean be with you.

 

[Manul Otocolobus]

I haven’t kissed my spouse in nearly twenty years due to the utter horror stench that emits from his mouth hole. Not even at the wedding. The smell is so bad colleagues have complained about it and it appeared in at least one performance review. The children physically gag at it.

I will die never having been kissed since I was a teenager, because someone else refuses to take basic oral hygiene seriously.

Please put in this maintenance. It will be much appreciated.

If he does all the stuff you mentioned and still has this problem, have him see a gastroenterologist, it can be a sign of a type of infection in the upper GI tract.

 

[The Skeksis Emperor]

What happens when they want to look for a significant other?

If they are determined to find a partner and use dating apps and such they tend to struggle (hence femcels exist). But some of them don't care, and some of them end up finding a man coincidentally or through family and friends and just settle down with him. I'd say it's still easier for femcels/cat ladies to find a man than for male outcasts, although plenty of femcels have crazy high expectations of a partner (they have to look and act like their fandom husbandos!) while not being very attractive themselves and stay single for a long time.

Weird question. What do you women think of the the Linebacker physic? I've heard a lot of women in this thread dislike fat men, but is fat with muscle a no go as well?

For me built-fat is a bit different yeah, stronk men are attractive. I have several friends who go for that type. Don't mistake the 'dad bod' for 'linebacker physique' though lol, the only people pushing the dad bod are magazines for some reason.

 

[Dyn]

I haven’t kissed my spouse in nearly twenty years due to the utter horror stench that emits from his mouth hole. Not even at the wedding. The smell is so bad colleagues have complained about it and it appeared in at least one performance review. The children physically gag at it.

I will die never having been kissed since I was a teenager, because someone else refuses to take basic oral hygiene seriously.

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