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What the lovely lady looks like?Dating apps and not putting that i am trans in the bio then getting likes?
Ugh, this stuff is wearing me out. When I put that I am trans in my bio i get close to nothing for likes, when I leave that out I get a lot of likes. I hate this and I don't feel us trans girls need to display it or let someone know first thing as if it is a warning or something bad that we are trans. I would like to talk and get to know each other first as people are attracted to people not what's between their legs. If you saw me in person or liked my profile and were attracted to me the next step is to discover who I am and see if I am for you. But it doesn't go this way unless you are young.
I got a like from a specific girl that I want to like back, she put in her bio "no men, total lesbian". I am thinking I will be waisting my time to match with her and I will feel guilty if I talk to her, get to know her, then tell her I am a trans girl. I get ghosted at that point a lot. What would you do? Are her bio words a dead giveaway that she only likes CISFemale-AFAB girls? I am completely passable and attractive, it shouldn't ruin someone’s attraction to me if they learned I am trans but this is not the case.
Edited to add that I took the chance and matched with her. I will see if this goes better then before but I am nervous.
My brother hasn't talked to me for more then a year...
Hey everyone, I just wanted to come here and vent a little bit, me and my brother live together and our rooms are one wall apart basically but ever since I came out he doesn't talk to me at all, it can't to an exteme today that he called my mom to call me to ask about the bag he needed to travel, when he was right next door... He's 28 and he should know better as his behaviour is one of a teenager, all of this is putting me in a wedged where I have a dickhead dad that barely respects me and a brother that literally wishes me to be cis when I'm not...
What's bothering the most is that everyone in my family treats me like I'm a disappointment, that I don't do anything, that I'm lazy and just overall useless, disregarding that I have ADHD diagnosed since I was 9 and anytime I tell them that I forget about things my family always says "oh but your dad also has ADHD, not diagnosed but he knows how to deal with it" it's so hypocritical when I feel like a punching bag for anyone in my family... It really lowers my overall mental health, it's surprising how much love I receive from my girlfriend's family as they fully support me and care for me, I'm even thinking about passing Christmas there rather then my family cause it will just be shit.
Anyways I hope everyone is doing well here and stay safe
Edit: spelling mistakes
masturbating isn’t the same when you’re almost 2 years on hrt
im not upset about this because it feels like my body is changing in a positive way but jerking off doesn’t feel good at all and i have the most meh orgasms from it. i can’t afford a vibrator and anal as it is rn is kind of exhausting but i do sorta like it. i have a really big problem with masturbating without pornography. i kind of hate it and it makes me feel incredibly jealous when i see cis women’s bodies. i don’t want to watch porn anymore but it feels like i can’t get off without it and idk why. i think part of it has to do with me using it for so long but idk how to change that now. i can get into the mood without it but i kinda need some visual stimuli to keep it going. im having a hard time understanding what my body thinks feels good. has anyone experienced a similar thing? i need help idk what to do anymore.
360°Did testosterone gel help after SRS?
I have been post op for around 4 years now and I've Gained a significant amount of weight since surgery and I have zero sex drive and I always have low energy and brain fog. So tomorrow I have an appointment with my doctor to get on a low dose of T and I hope that will make me feel better.
Had the weirdest discussion with a co-worker
It wasn't bad, just confusing. I mentioned that I'm about to start in a new DnD campaign which includes 6 trans girls. (I "forgot" to mention that I was one of them) She looked a bit confused and asked "Trans girls?". Um, yes. "Like, boys that dress up like girls?" Oh shit, here we f#### go with transphobia in the work place. "No, girls that were born as a boy, but now are girls." I say. "Um, ok." She says. "But have they had surgery?" Why does that matter? "Because, like, are they trans if they have had the surgery?" What? "If they have had the surgery, they are girls, and not trans, right?" I could not comprehend her thought process.
She believes, out of ignorance or otherwise, that we are just guys in girl clothes and that is what's called "trans". But after we've had surgery, and I'm guessing she meant the downstairs one, we became girls and loose the "trans".
I don't think she is maliciously transphobic, but just really ignorant and don't know how shit works.
So yeah, the weirdest and most confusing conversation with a co-worker I have ever had.
That's a new Pooner Bingo Card square: worrying about looking like that male family member who sexually abused you before.Just FTM things:
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And here’s a real headscratcher: The replies are filled with other FTMs who have experienced SA. What are the odds of all these young duderinos all having been sexually abused?! Weird!
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People must read my bio and obey my rules; but I will not respect their bio or their rules.What the lovely lady looks like?
Porn addict to Troon; a classic tale.i have a really big problem with masturbating without pornography
Little does he know that this “ignorance” is applicable to the majority of the population.She believes, out of ignorance or otherwise, that we are just guys in girl clothes and that is what's called "trans".".
Another classic, messing with hormones fucks up your body. Who’d have thought!Did testosterone gel help after SRS?
If there used to be anything nice in Oregon, a tranny, communist, or a ghetto black has ruined it.Plenty of state's Medicaid covers troon surgery. Not all of them, but I know Oregon's does. A lot of troons migrated there specifically because of that.
"What is a male?" "Somebody who was assigned male at birth."Youtuber defines what a man is.Hint:Its a circular definition.
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I think the fact that TIMs very often try to look like an anime character is one of the best indicators that they aren't real women, nor are they really even trying to be. Their grasp on "womanhood" has been obtained via pornography and other porn-adjacent media. I have never seen a non tranny with hair like that in real life, photos or otherwise. Even dangerhairs don't look like this. Same goes for the skirt, and he's literally wearing an anime shirt. I'm not even a woman and this disgusts me. It's like if a TIFs only exposure to manhood was through popeye cartoons, so she went around eating spinach straight out of the can all the time. Are these people not self aware at all? Do they really think that's just how women... are? Have they truly never interacted with a woman outside of anime or porn?
Nope.Have they truly never interacted with a woman outside of anime or porn?
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Holy shit it's Dwight Schrute
"You said if I ate the worm you'd gender me correctly"
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Lmao this idiot is sofa king poor that he’s given up on his transition altogether. Lmao. Considering there are trans homeless drug addicts all over the place, and Boston MassHealth would cover your hormones, wtf is he too poor for? 200k worth of plastic surgery?
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These perverts need to figure out that transitioning messes with your kids. But I’m 100% on board for that blunt child honesty like “I don’t want you pretending to be a girl 100% of the time, dad.”
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that final sentence took me from “o sad” to “ugh, pervert.”
They even told this dude it's not real and hes still going on about it! Also the cramping during periods hilarious. Women should start making up fake symptoms of periods and the troons would believe it.
Ugh, it's that time of the month again, so of course my hormones have got me shampooing my hair, washing my bedsheets and scrubbing the dried flecks of biological matter off of the mirror I take selfies in.Women should start making up fake symptoms of periods and the troons would believe it.
You think you have it bad? I'm having to use deodorant!Ugh, it's that time of the month again, so of course my hormones have got me shampooing my hair, washing my bedsheets and scrubbing the dried flecks of biological matter off of the mirror I take selfies in.
What's your favorite pad perfume?Ugh, it's that time of the month again, so of course my hormones have got me shampooing my hair, washing my bedsheets and scrubbing the dried flecks of biological matter off of the mirror I take selfies in.