- Joined
- Oct 29, 2019
Ahahahaha the classic do X get Y. Go to college, get a nice, well paying, and stable employment. Work hard, get rich.and obviously any man who lives by his principles like that would be rewarded with wife and family.
They really don't like coming to terms with the fact that the reason a lot of dudes act pitiful or shitty, is because there's often very little (extrinsic) reward for putting in the effort not to. Professional, romantic, or otherwise.
Principles and ambition are frequently only rewarded when it actually generates income. You're just another fool swimming against the current when it doesn't. It's like the geek/nerd hobbies. When I was a kid, (almost) every woman of all ages absolutely looked down on those things as a waste of time. (TBF, it kinda was) Now that the prizes can be in the millions of dollars and events are being held at the most desirable tourist